Point counter point - Page 2 - Rape Board

Becka · 05-21-2009, 10:46 PM

I don't see the problem here....

Maradona broke the conditions on which he was allowed to return and got banned for it...OK

Sparks considers him a friend and would prefer he was not banned...OK

Why is this an issue? If I had a friend here who was banned I would prefer they weren't too...even if they broke the rules. Doesn't make me wrong...makes me human.

RapeU · 05-21-2009, 10:47 PM

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Originally Posted by sparks

I don't see your point

Ok.

If two conflicting thoughts, ideas, or facts are strong enough to invoke negative emotional states it is referred to as cognitive dissonance.

The theory states that people have a motivational need to reduce the dissonance in some way. Be it changing attitudes, beliefs, justifications, etc.

Maradona is your friend, you think he's a good person. Yet he was banned. These two things conflict within your mind, and you have a motivational need to reduce the dissonance in your head. You are doing this by standing up for him. Admirable, but there is better ways to stand up for him.

sexfiend · 05-21-2009, 10:50 PM

Yes thank you i do know what a friend is.But friend or not if they do something wrong they must pay for it.Newland i s a friend of mine,if he would break the rules and get banned.I would feel bad ,but i would still think he was wrong.It's as simple as that,i don't see where you are going with this.Read what happened,i would hope that you feel bad for MARADONA as i do.But he was told that he could not do what he did,and he broke the rules.

snarkopo · 05-21-2009, 11:15 PM

Now the dark one is banned? Phantom and Sparks going at it again! Sierra and other great members gone or staying away. The board just gets better and better!

snarkopo · 05-22-2009, 12:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Phantom

I don't think "going at it" is true. It is discussion no matter how you look at it. Big deal.

If you say so,great.

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I did not ban TheDarkOne, and I am in touch with him outside the board regarding the issue and will handle it with him directly.

I am not going to divulge someone else's business so it can be torn apart and used for more ridiculous threads.

When DarkOne returns in 7 days he can discuss it with whoever he wants, that is his business.

I would hope that everyone that calls him a friend would respect the privacy of the issue until he has a chance to discuss it or not.

Never said or meant to imply you did. You have shown you are judicious about banning people if nothing else. No one asked you to divulge anything.

snarkopo · 05-22-2009, 12:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Phantom

I know you didn't. But based on previous experience it is a good opportunity to nip it in the bud before anyone else does. No worries.

Cool.

Stainless Steel Rat · 05-22-2009, 12:22 AM

There seems to be only two logical things to add to this thread!

"Jane you ignorant slut!"
"They bought their tickets. They knew what they were getting into. I say, let 'em crash!"

Cheers all from the Stainless Steel Rat

snarkopo · 05-22-2009, 12:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Stainless Steel Rat

There seems to be only two logical things to add to this thread!

"Jane you ignorant slut!"
"They bought their tickets. They knew what they were getting into. I say, let 'em crash!"

Cheers all from the Stainless Steel Rat

"Jane you ignorant slut!" SNL, wow you're dating yourself with that one, or I am.

"They bought their tickets. They knew what they were getting into. I say, let 'em crash!" No idea. Hint?

BTN · 05-22-2009, 03:58 AM

Look like I picked the wrong week to quit sniffing glue

whyaskwhy · 05-22-2009, 04:05 AM

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Originally Posted by BTN

Look like I picked the wrong week to quit sniffing glue

You quit? Why would you quit?

Bella-In-Progress · 05-22-2009, 04:43 AM

*while everybody is ripping each other's throats out I sneak in and leave a plate of cookies, candy and ice cream on the table with several glasses of milk, beer and some hard liquor. Then I scurry away and allow the comfort food to take effect*

Conrad · 05-22-2009, 08:32 AM

*Lured in by the smell of hard liquer and cookies*

I don't know man, I tend to keep out of fights and arguments as it's really not what I come here for, and lord knows I have enough of them in real life, I can see both sides of the argument but think people should concentrate more on the purpose of the site - I mean the rowdy room is probably the most busy part of RB where as the rape section is the slowest.

All I do is post lame ass unfuny jokes - I call it Conrademy - it's real easy to do, just don't take yourself too seriously. My teachings will soon be available in the good book The Conran, and you too will be able to read these holy scriptures and maybe the bitter feuds on RB will stop.

If this does happen then Saint-hood will surely be my reward, the name Conrad will echo through the ages along with such other luminaries as The Fonz, L. Ron Hubbard and Jesus Christ (in that order). Churches and statues will be built in my honor and the world (of RB) will be as one again.

pervipete · 05-22-2009, 12:48 PM

'Surely you can't be serious'
'I am serious, and don't call me Shirley'

Gotta love Airplane...

Back to Mara, I think it comes under 'love the sinner, hate the sin'

Standing by your friend is cool...stops typeing to wolf down cookies and beer..yum...thanks Bella...but it should not blind you to their inperfections.

I like Maradona, he was always okay to me, but I have only known him since his original ban had been lifted. Therefore I, like a lot of the members here, are not aware of the history of the original ban.

sindyloo · 05-22-2009, 04:47 PM

Hey Bella nice cookies...hmmmm wait? seeing nice pretty colors and patterns? Whats in these cookies....uhhh what was I saying??

OH well might as well have another cookie...yummmm

sparks · 05-22-2009, 06:56 PM

Bella can I get like a phone number and addy maybe LOL

There have been several points made here I hope I made mine which is I stick by my friends

If something they did wrong gets them in trouble then I tend to stick by my friend

Phantom thanks for saying its a 7 day for TDO did not know that now I do

thanks

theDarkOne · 05-22-2009, 07:05 PM

Im here Sparks

Thanks for looking out for me

sparks · 05-22-2009, 07:10 PM

No thanks needed mate

good to see you back the forum is not the same without you and thank you for that

do me a favor pm me next time

not asking or telling but this caught me blindsided

either way thanks for sticking in here its easy to just say the hell with it

hope all is well with you

Bella-In-Progress · 05-22-2009, 07:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sparks

Bella can I get like a phone number and addy maybe LOL

Hahaha, well I can't give you those but I'll send you some cookies and beer via e-mail if you'd like

sparks · 05-22-2009, 07:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bella-In-Progress

Hahaha, well I can't give you those but I'll send you some cookies and beer via e-mail if you'd like

dam California women I just cant win

lol

pervipete · 05-23-2009, 12:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sparks

dam California women I just cant win

lol

Boy is Sparks going to be shocked, shall I tell him?

Sparky old son, she is a he who likes to dress as a she...

http://www.rapeboard.com/showthread.php?t=25608

05-21-2009, 10:46 PM	#21
Becka Immodest Mod Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Virginia Posts: 1,407 Reputation: 36018	I don't see the problem here.... Maradona broke the conditions on which he was allowed to return and got banned for it...OK Sparks considers him a friend and would prefer he was not banned...OK Why is this an issue? If I had a friend here who was banned I would prefer they weren't too...even if they broke the rules. Doesn't make me wrong...makes me human. __________________ Vital Board Info Hey, where am I going? And why am I in this hand basket? Darling, a true lady takes off her dignity with her clothes and does her whorish best. At other times you can be as modest and dignified as your persona requires.

05-21-2009, 11:15 PM	#24
snarkopo It's been fun Join Date: May 2008 Location: away Posts: 1,549 Reputation: 70796	Now the dark one is banned? Phantom and Sparks going at it again! Sierra and other great members gone or staying away. The board just gets better and better! __________________ I have a brontosaurus and you don't. So there.

05-22-2009, 12:22 AM	#27
Stainless Steel Rat Lord of the Labyrinth Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: The Center of the Maze Posts: 397 Reputation: 68922	There seems to be only two logical things to add to this thread! "Jane you ignorant slut!" "They bought their tickets. They knew what they were getting into. I say, let 'em crash!" Cheers all from the Stainless Steel Rat __________________ "The lost souls of the Labyrinth"

05-22-2009, 03:58 AM	#29
BTN Admiral Adama Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Galactica CIC Posts: 1,018 Reputation: 45123	Look like I picked the wrong week to quit sniffing glue __________________ So say we all

05-22-2009, 04:43 AM	#31
Bella-In-Progress Privileged Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Southern California Posts: 278 Reputation: 16631	while everybody is ripping each other's throats out I sneak in and leave a plate of cookies, candy and ice cream on the table with several glasses of milk, beer and some hard liquor. Then I scurry away and allow the comfort food to take effect __________________ We are Fighting Dreamers, aiming high, not caring about appearances, because we believe

05-21-2009, 10:50 PM	#23
sexfiend Banned Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: The Boiler Room Posts: 749 Reputation: 31277	Yes thank you i do know what a friend is.But friend or not if they do something wrong they must pay for it.Newland i s a friend of mine,if he would break the rules and get banned.I would feel bad ,but i would still think he was wrong.It's as simple as that,i don't see where you are going with this.Read what happened,i would hope that you feel bad for MARADONA as i do.But he was told that he could not do what he did,and he broke the rules.

05-22-2009, 08:32 AM	#32
Conrad RB's Biggest Loser Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 895 Reputation: 20387	Lured in by the smell of hard liquer and cookies I don't know man, I tend to keep out of fights and arguments as it's really not what I come here for, and lord knows I have enough of them in real life, I can see both sides of the argument but think people should concentrate more on the purpose of the site - I mean the rowdy room is probably the most busy part of RB where as the rape section is the slowest. All I do is post lame ass unfuny jokes - I call it Conrademy - it's real easy to do, just don't take yourself too seriously. My teachings will soon be available in the good book The Conran, and you too will be able to read these holy scriptures and maybe the bitter feuds on RB will stop. If this does happen then Saint-hood will surely be my reward, the name Conrad will echo through the ages along with such other luminaries as The Fonz, L. Ron Hubbard and Jesus Christ (in that order). Churches and statues will be built in my honor and the world (of RB) will be as one again. __________________ Taking the word Pathetic to new levels since 1982.

05-22-2009, 12:48 PM	#33
pervipete Watching from the shadows Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: The Shadowlands... Posts: 5,170 Reputation: 118528	'Surely you can't be serious' 'I am serious, and don't call me Shirley' Gotta love Airplane... Back to Mara, I think it comes under 'love the sinner, hate the sin' Standing by your friend is cool...stops typeing to wolf down cookies and beer..yum...thanks Bella...but it should not blind you to their inperfections. I like Maradona, he was always okay to me, but I have only known him since his original ban had been lifted. Therefore I, like a lot of the members here, are not aware of the history of the original ban. __________________ Tonight love, we'll do a rape roleplay No!! That's the spirit... Spam Reporting Thread The Hazelton Chronicles Blackmailing the MILF's Chapter One The Rape Board Chronicles - LilLinzi in the Alley Consquences

05-22-2009, 04:47 PM	#34
sindyloo Privileged Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 2,178 Reputation: 34844	Hey Bella nice cookies...hmmmm wait? seeing nice pretty colors and patterns? Whats in these cookies....uhhh what was I saying?? OH well might as well have another cookie...yummmm __________________ Tommy Loy, the cabin boy, The dirty little nipper, He filled his ass With broken glass And cirumcized the skipper!

05-22-2009, 06:56 PM	#35
sparks Banned Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Saturns rings Posts: 496 Reputation: 17352	Bella can I get like a phone number and addy maybe LOL There have been several points made here I hope I made mine which is I stick by my friends If something they did wrong gets them in trouble then I tend to stick by my friend Phantom thanks for saying its a 7 day for TDO did not know that now I do thanks

05-22-2009, 07:05 PM	#36
theDarkOne Banned Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Never gonna give you up,Never gonna let you down,Never gonna run around and desert you. Posts: 1,693 Reputation: 57368	Im here Sparks Thanks for looking out for me

05-22-2009, 07:10 PM	#37
sparks Banned Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Saturns rings Posts: 496 Reputation: 17352	No thanks needed mate good to see you back the forum is not the same without you and thank you for that do me a favor pm me next time not asking or telling but this caught me blindsided either way thanks for sticking in here its easy to just say the hell with it hope all is well with you