BDSM in RF - Rape Board

Shade · 02-04-2010, 06:42 PM

After reading various posts in other threads, Iâ€™m curious what people think about BDSM in RF (or is it R in BDSM)?

While I do enjoy straight force fantasies, the majority of my play (both online and real life) includes BDSM, ranging from sensual through fairly rough (very rough in fantasy). Sometimes, especially in real life, the final â€˜rapeâ€™ is consensual.

My reasons?

Of course, there are the obvious uses for restraints. They â€˜open upâ€™ so many possibilities not accessible otherwise. And how much more helpless? Once the victim is tied up, I can take my time and relax, using her at my leisure.

In real life, taming a fighter can be difficult. Iâ€™m not going to really cause injury or exceed limits, and the victim knows this. Depending on how hard the victim fights, I have many options. Holding down, wearing down, pinching and slapping. But at some point the play becomes risky. Perhaps your limits state I can double you over with a stomach punch, or knock out a couple of teeth, though I certainly hope not. But I can use restraints. Still plenty of struggle involved, with each new restraint adding another level of helplessness.

Online is a very different world, where concerns such as injury disappear, safe words unnecessary, and the only limits are imagination and enjoyment.

But beyond the obvious, there is so much more! So much that can be done with my hands free, before and after the main goal.

Once you are tied Iâ€™m free to do as I please. â€œ....my hands roaming over your body, squeezing your nipples, pinching your clit. Iâ€™m in no rush, Iâ€™m going to enjoy your body in so many ways before I take you.â€

The visions. â€œ...watching your gorgeous body, spread eagle on the bed, writhing in mixed anticipation and fear.â€

Plenty of toys to choose from, some erotic â€œPicking up a scarf, I slowly draw it between your legs, letting it glide over and between your pussy lipsâ€

And letâ€™s get the endorphins flowing with some mild SM. â€œ...straddling you, my knees pressing you on either side, my balls resting on your pussy, my cock standing up at attention. I pick up two black wooden clothespins, tips dipped in rubber for a better grip. Pulling them across your nipples, opening them and teasing with the inside, watching you struggle, your nipples growing hard. Smiling, I let them slowly close, the tips at the base of your nipples.â€

By adding levels of controlled pain, I can get the endorphins flowing and send you deep into subspace. A whole new level of experience. Until youâ€™ve had an orgasm in subspace, youâ€™ve never had an orgasm.

And letâ€™s not forget tickling, crops, clamps, shower massage. Kitchen table, with all the fun toys there. Shop table, another set of toys. Etc.

Extra note for anyone who insults an attacker using restraints (from another post, no names mentioned

). Go ahead, youâ€™re still helpless. It will give me a good laugh while I think of new ways to punish you.

BamaGurl · 02-04-2010, 08:47 PM

Hmmmm.....not sure what to think about this.... <<crosses arms>>>

justmetoo · 02-06-2010, 09:40 AM

I'm going to agree with the OP. The idea of my victim tied up opens up possibilities that could never happen if I was pre-occupied with trying to subdue my victim and hold her in place as I have my way with her. While I would enjoy the struggle immensely, the opportunities afforded to me once I have my hands free are to great to ignore.

In my fantasies I have many options of having her tied. Maybe I'd just tie her hands behind her back? Maybe tied spread eagle to the bed so tight she can't move at all. Maybe just her legs tied apart? Maybe I'd tie her loose enough so she struggles thinking she can still escape?

There are many ways to exert power over someone. Certainly the physical aspects and pleasure of holding my victim in place are hard to ignore. But at some time I want my hands free to explore her in ways that could never happen if I'm trying to hold her in place as I take her for my pleasure.

Same goes for her legs. I'm all for hitting a moving target as she tries to prevent me from violating her. This is perhaps the hottest aspect of my fantasy - the idea that she would be doing anything she could to prevent me from taking her. Hopefully she'd be moving around enough that I'd miss a couple of times. But once in her, the side to side or up and down movement would be just more stimulus for me as I feel her body wiggle below me.

All the time my hands are free to do whatever I please. I'm not much into slapping and such, but I'd be sure those nipples would be firm and twisted well. After I was done the first time I'd bring out the clamps and she would have the chance to experience sensations that perhaps were new to her. This would be the fun part as she knew then that she wasn't going to get a quickie and have it over.

During this time I'd also have to explore various ways of changing up how she was tied up. Maybe I'd be sloppy about it and give her a chance to think she could still get away? This would also be a good time to introduce the blindfold to her so she would have no idea what I was going to do next.

Just my 2 cents here.

justmetoo · 02-06-2010, 09:41 AM

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Originally Posted by BamaGurl

<<crosses arms>>>

Not likely. Can't have you trying to hide your assets.

Tim Woodman · 02-06-2010, 01:41 PM

I deliberately split my content into two websites, so the BDSM 'purists' wouldn't have to see my rape stuff, and the rape 'purists' wouldn't have to see my BDSM stuff, but I gotta say, there's a lot of crossover. Categorize if you want, if it makes it easier to sort your porn & fantasies out, but I like a smooth blend of BDSM and rape more often than not.

ctomie · 02-14-2010, 04:45 PM

I have a strong liking for rape with some BDSM elements into it. It is especially exciting to rape a victim with her hands tied and mouth covered (see the 3rd image in this post, it depicts it quite well). I like watching them desperately trying to free themselves by moving their bodies around, but cannot due to being tied; and screaming for help or begging for mercy, but cannot due to being gagged.

For rapists, if they wish to concentrate more on tasting the victims' bodies (i.e. not spending too much time into the forcing part), then using objects to restrain them can be very convenient and helpful.

BDSM can be a good supplement to rape.

02-04-2010, 06:42 PM	#1
Shade Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 40 Reputation: 533	BDSM in RF After reading various posts in other threads, Iâ€™m curious what people think about BDSM in RF (or is it R in BDSM)? While I do enjoy straight force fantasies, the majority of my play (both online and real life) includes BDSM, ranging from sensual through fairly rough (very rough in fantasy). Sometimes, especially in real life, the final â€˜rapeâ€™ is consensual. My reasons? Of course, there are the obvious uses for restraints. They â€˜open upâ€™ so many possibilities not accessible otherwise. And how much more helpless? Once the victim is tied up, I can take my time and relax, using her at my leisure. In real life, taming a fighter can be difficult. Iâ€™m not going to really cause injury or exceed limits, and the victim knows this. Depending on how hard the victim fights, I have many options. Holding down, wearing down, pinching and slapping. But at some point the play becomes risky. Perhaps your limits state I can double you over with a stomach punch, or knock out a couple of teeth, though I certainly hope not. But I can use restraints. Still plenty of struggle involved, with each new restraint adding another level of helplessness. Online is a very different world, where concerns such as injury disappear, safe words unnecessary, and the only limits are imagination and enjoyment. But beyond the obvious, there is so much more! So much that can be done with my hands free, before and after the main goal. Once you are tied Iâ€™m free to do as I please. â€œ....my hands roaming over your body, squeezing your nipples, pinching your clit. Iâ€™m in no rush, Iâ€™m going to enjoy your body in so many ways before I take you.â€ The visions. â€œ...watching your gorgeous body, spread eagle on the bed, writhing in mixed anticipation and fear.â€ Plenty of toys to choose from, some erotic â€œPicking up a scarf, I slowly draw it between your legs, letting it glide over and between your pussy lipsâ€ And letâ€™s get the endorphins flowing with some mild SM. â€œ...straddling you, my knees pressing you on either side, my balls resting on your pussy, my cock standing up at attention. I pick up two black wooden clothespins, tips dipped in rubber for a better grip. Pulling them across your nipples, opening them and teasing with the inside, watching you struggle, your nipples growing hard. Smiling, I let them slowly close, the tips at the base of your nipples.â€ By adding levels of controlled pain, I can get the endorphins flowing and send you deep into subspace. A whole new level of experience. Until youâ€™ve had an orgasm in subspace, youâ€™ve never had an orgasm. And letâ€™s not forget tickling, crops, clamps, shower massage. Kitchen table, with all the fun toys there. Shop table, another set of toys. Etc. Extra note for anyone who insults an attacker using restraints (from another post, no names mentioned ). Go ahead, youâ€™re still helpless. It will give me a good laugh while I think of new ways to punish you.

02-06-2010, 01:41 PM	#5
Tim Woodman Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Los Angeles, CA Posts: 105 Reputation: 940	I deliberately split my content into two websites, so the BDSM 'purists' wouldn't have to see my rape stuff, and the rape 'purists' wouldn't have to see my BDSM stuff, but I gotta say, there's a lot of crossover. Categorize if you want, if it makes it easier to sort your porn & fantasies out, but I like a smooth blend of BDSM and rape more often than not. __________________ Tim Woodman, Professional Villain

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02-04-2010, 08:47 PM	#2
BamaGurl Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In the dirty south baby! Posts: 47 Reputation: 2095	Hmmmm.....not sure what to think about this.... <<crosses arms>>>

02-06-2010, 09:40 AM	#3
justmetoo Privileged Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: In your mind Posts: 1,086 Reputation: 23015	I'm going to agree with the OP. The idea of my victim tied up opens up possibilities that could never happen if I was pre-occupied with trying to subdue my victim and hold her in place as I have my way with her. While I would enjoy the struggle immensely, the opportunities afforded to me once I have my hands free are to great to ignore. In my fantasies I have many options of having her tied. Maybe I'd just tie her hands behind her back? Maybe tied spread eagle to the bed so tight she can't move at all. Maybe just her legs tied apart? Maybe I'd tie her loose enough so she struggles thinking she can still escape? There are many ways to exert power over someone. Certainly the physical aspects and pleasure of holding my victim in place are hard to ignore. But at some time I want my hands free to explore her in ways that could never happen if I'm trying to hold her in place as I take her for my pleasure. Same goes for her legs. I'm all for hitting a moving target as she tries to prevent me from violating her. This is perhaps the hottest aspect of my fantasy - the idea that she would be doing anything she could to prevent me from taking her. Hopefully she'd be moving around enough that I'd miss a couple of times. But once in her, the side to side or up and down movement would be just more stimulus for me as I feel her body wiggle below me. All the time my hands are free to do whatever I please. I'm not much into slapping and such, but I'd be sure those nipples would be firm and twisted well. After I was done the first time I'd bring out the clamps and she would have the chance to experience sensations that perhaps were new to her. This would be the fun part as she knew then that she wasn't going to get a quickie and have it over. During this time I'd also have to explore various ways of changing up how she was tied up. Maybe I'd be sloppy about it and give her a chance to think she could still get away? This would also be a good time to introduce the blindfold to her so she would have no idea what I was going to do next. Just my 2 cents here.

02-14-2010, 04:45 PM	#6
ctomie Banned Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Asia Posts: 568 Reputation: 8860	I have a strong liking for rape with some BDSM elements into it. It is especially exciting to rape a victim with her hands tied and mouth covered (see the 3rd image in this post, it depicts it quite well). I like watching them desperately trying to free themselves by moving their bodies around, but cannot due to being tied; and screaming for help or begging for mercy, but cannot due to being gagged. For rapists, if they wish to concentrate more on tasting the victims' bodies (i.e. not spending too much time into the forcing part), then using objects to restrain them can be very convenient and helpful. BDSM can be a good supplement to rape.