Is RB a secret ?

[pravjey]

I haven't told my friends about RB. Which is why I still have friends LOL.

Although they know some really bad stuff about me - and i suspect that they'd get over it - I don't really want to take any chances. For some reason, I decided to mention RB to my therapist and I actually saw a touch of concern in her face for the first time.

[Rogue]

Don't think I'll be telling anyone either...

[Rheostatic]

Originally Posted by shysnale

I don't mean to jump on conclusions but personally I'd have a hard time making friends with people who would let me down for such a reason. Are your friends hanging with because of some intellectual interest ?

In actuality, I may not be giving them enough credit. Perhaps they would understand. I'm just not in any hurry to find out. Everyone has skeletons in their closet they would prefer to not reveal to the world. I'm comfortable with myself, so I don't feel any need to pour out my soul to everyone in my life.

Shysnale, are you saying that you have absolutely no secrets with any of your friends?

[Becka]

Originally Posted by Grm

Interesting Becka, I wonder if your husband knows of your secret. I hope so, because if he doesn't and then finds out there could be fireworks. Some time ago I sent an email to a lady who was asking about rape fantasy sites on an old yahoo rape club[now closed]. I just told her she where she could find a lot of other friendly people, male and female, interested in this subject. Last week[months later] I had an angry email from this lady's husband, threatening all sorts of nasty things on me if I contacted her again[I only sent one email].

Grm

Grm - Yes he knows about my interests...pretty much all of my interests. My first thought to as question like that is why wouldn't he. But I understand that everyone doesn't have the same type of marriage as I do. That being an open marriage. I just always looked at it like this:

My husband has known me off and on for over 15 years thugh we haven't been married that long. He knew what I was like before getting married why would he think that my personality and desires would change after marriage?

Anyway...he has to know about the things I do .... who do you think takes most of the pictures I have posted on my yahoo profile?


B.

[thegreatchuck1]

Originally Posted by Grm

I have no friends
hermit
Grm

You need no friends....We all are friends here

[TheOpportunist]

Originally Posted by pravjey

I haven't told my friends about RB. Which is why I still have friends LOL.

Dear God, that's so funny and so true! I'm in the same boat here as well -- my friends hate regular BDSM. if I told them about here, they'd flip out!

sdfsa

[Rheostatic]

Originally Posted by Tanya

I think my younger sis has seen it.. She told me the other day

"i know alot of shit about you that you dont know i know"

You think she'll use it as blackmail against you?

I'm now sharing my home computer, and need to be more careful about covering my tracks. Perhaps we should start a thread about keeping your private thoughts, well, private.