When rape isn't enough? - Rape Board

Jennevieve · 03-17-2008, 06:39 PM

So, I've come to this point in my life where rape fantasy seems too vanilla to really excite me anymore. (I know, right?)

It's sort of an issue. How much further can you go with the being used complex?

Has anyone else had this problem?

SirSinister · 03-17-2008, 07:31 PM

Look into BDSM...

If its being used you like I would put effort into looking up the humiliation and degredation aspect...

FinalKey · 03-17-2008, 09:36 PM

Yea...than I found hentai lol. Seriously, I was a bit disgusted by it when a chick introduced it to me and I didn't look into it for at least another year. Now I'm a hentai addict, to a certain extent...*twitches slightly and goes to look at Angel Blade*

MADDOGMCMANAMAN · 03-17-2008, 10:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Jennevieve

So, I've come to this point in my life where rape fantasy seems too vanilla to really excite me anymore. (I know, right?)

It's sort of an issue. How much further can you go with the being used complex?

Has anyone else had this problem?

WOW you sound like alotta fun !!

ChiTownHoney · 03-18-2008, 12:45 AM

I have to say....rape fantasy is what it is. A fantasy. Sure, you can roleplay, be tied up, get slapped around, but I think that that falls more into the BDSM category, no? and its really not all that exciting, is it?

I've never been into the roleplaying thing or BDSM. Being tied up is really not my thing. Roleplaying to me is not very exciting at all, because you ultimately know that all you are having is, as you say "vanilla sex".

Rape fantasy in MY world is being turned on by angry men, liking aggressiveness towards you, knowing that you shouldnt be in the parking garage at 3am by yourself, knowing that you should not be alone in a room with a man who is doped up and horny. But you stay, you do all these things that are risky for any woman. Thinking about all those possibilities is the ultimate turn on. Its simply the CONCEPT. The DANGER. Anger is such a sexy emotion in a man (although I hate drunkiness). The dark emotions that linger, the rage, the anger, and the desire. He uses his strong body to make sure that you are completel overpowered. How can you not be turned on by that? Can you really get that out of roleplay?? Roleplay is safe....vanilla. Control does not equal excitement.

I dont want control. But most men wont "play". There seriously is an abundance of morally righteous guys in the world, which isnt a bad thing of course, its good! Maybe I'm just not good, as I have this hunger for danger. So, my rape fantasy is only kept in my fantasies untill I can find someone who will play. It will be just "play" as I would never really want to be with someone like that. Is that wrong?? Is it even possible to drive a man to do that??

I am not sure how well that would pan out for anyone....but the thought and the danger aspect is more exciting than anything else in the world.

Very difficult post to word, I simply stated what I found exciting for myself, and thats it.

dasVerlangen · 03-18-2008, 01:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Jennevieve

So, I've come to this point in my life where rape fantasy seems too vanilla to really excite me anymore. (I know, right?)

It's sort of an issue. How much further can you go with the being used complex?

Has anyone else had this problem?

It can go much further.

Mugga123 · 03-18-2008, 06:09 AM

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Originally Posted by FinalKey

Yea...than I found hentai lol. Seriously, I was a bit disgusted by it when a chick introduced it to me and I didn't look into it for at least another year. Now I'm a hentai addict, to a certain extent...*twitches slightly and goes to look at Angel Blade*

haha, i started the other way

Hentai --> Rape Fantasy

Mugga123 · 03-18-2008, 06:11 AM

BTW to the thread starter, I've had this problem previously.... but after a while I came back to Rape Fantasies... but on that note, other vanilla porn (lesbian) takes 4-5* longer to get me off then rape fantasies.

Darkman · 03-18-2008, 10:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Mugga123

BTW to the thread starter, I've had this problem previously.... but after a while I came back to Rape Fantasies... but on that note, other vanilla porn (lesbian) takes 4-5* longer to get me off then rape fantasies.

same here, but it gets more and more extreme as the days go by!

GOATBOY · 03-18-2008, 06:21 PM

Maybe you shoudl try just getting raped by me for a while. thats turning it up a gear.

Jennevieve · 03-19-2008, 08:26 PM

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Originally Posted by GOATBOY

Maybe you shoudl try just getting raped by me for a while. thats turning it up a gear.

lol, thinking my Master would have something to say about that

Sin -- um, yeah, see above, I'm already pretty established with BDSM.

dasVeriagen -- you should probably like ... provide suggestions instead of just stating possibilities ...

ChiTown -- I'm not talking about in my sex life -- my Master is more than enough to excite me. (Fucking six minute orgasm last night, no lie, what the fuck) I'm talking about masturbation.

dasVerlangen · 03-20-2008, 03:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Jennevieve

[dasVerlangen] -- you should probably like ... provide suggestions instead of just stating possibilities ...

I'm limiting my liability by being vague....
limiting personal liability does seem to be a big motivator around here, after all.
If I were to proffer up suggestions and you managed to get seriously injured,
despite the inability, you might well attempt to recover for damages.

Besides, if you're into bondage and torture, I'm sure you'll figure something out.
Cheers.

Sternenlied · 03-20-2008, 07:13 AM

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Originally Posted by ChiTownHoney

Roleplaying to me is not very exciting at all, because you ultimately know that all you are having is, as you say "vanilla sex".

Well, if you put it that way there's no really "extreme" sex at all. After all ... as long as the participants agree on something and you do it consensual (whatever "it" may be) it's only "vanilla" in the end after a while.

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Originally Posted by ChiTownHoney

Can you really get that out of roleplay?

Hard to do.
"Real" danger is rather impossible to implement in a RP.
You'll always have boundaries of some sort. Even they might be only general rules (like "no scat" for example) and the rest you leave to the guy there's always the security of knowing what's NOT going to happen.
So the real danger and uncertainty of what he's going to do, whether you want it or not, is something you most probably won't get out of a RP.

ChiTownHoney · 03-20-2008, 11:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Sternenlied

Well, if you put it that way there's no really "extreme" sex at all. After all ... as long as the participants agree on something and you do it consensual (whatever "it" may be) it's only "vanilla" in the end after a while.

Hard to do.
"Real" danger is rather impossible to implement in a RP.
You'll always have boundaries of some sort. Even they might be only general rules (like "no scat" for example) and the rest you leave to the guy there's always the security of knowing what's NOT going to happen.
So the real danger and uncertainty of what he's going to do, whether you want it or not, is something you most probably won't get out of a RP.

Yes, I agree, thats why I dont see any appeal in roleplay. I know I can stop it at anytime.

To me, the only boundary would be no anal...............and no cum...

ego · 03-21-2008, 05:36 AM

*Makes note not to rp with Chi*

Sorry, i usually cum during sex!

ChiTownHoney · 03-23-2008, 01:50 PM

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Originally Posted by ego

*Makes note not to rp with Chi*

Sorry, i usually cum during sex!

Good, cause I dont.

It should be a rule that once in a while a man shouldnt cum during sex.

I always use to leave guys with blue balls.

FinalKey · 03-23-2008, 11:52 PM

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Originally Posted by ChiTownHoney

I always use to leave guys with blue balls.

Used to huh..had a run in with a country boy did you?

We're prone to take what we want when chicks tease us

ChiTownHoney · 03-24-2008, 12:03 AM

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Originally Posted by FinalKey

Used to huh..had a run in with a country boy did you?

We're prone to take what we want when chicks tease us

UNFORTUNATELY I have not run into anyone who will make my fantasies come true and punish me for being the tease that I am

Its just that I've been with my boyfriend and nobody else for so long, but before him when I liked to just fool around, I was QUITE the tease.

I'm a little older now, and not looking to date quite yet, but the tease in me never left.

FinalKey · 03-24-2008, 12:06 AM

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Originally Posted by ChiTownHoney

UNFORTUNATELY I have not run into anyone who will make my fantasies come true and punish me for being the tease that I am

Its just that I've been with my boyfriend and nobody else for so long, but before him when I liked to just fool around, I was QUITE the tease.

I'm a little older now, and not looking to date quite yet, but the tease in me never left.

Once more bring that ass to north carolina, being a southern gentleman I'll give you what you want and much more...don't complain afterwards when I have you wearing nothing but an apron the next mornin cookin me breakfast....you'd have to deal with my groping and invading tongue and fingers as you try to flip pancakes and scramble eggs.

ChiTownHoney · 03-24-2008, 12:11 AM

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Originally Posted by FinalKey

Once more bring that ass to north carolina, being a southern gentleman I'll give you what you want and much more...don't complain afterwards when I have you wearing nothing but an apron the next mornin cookin me breakfast....you'd have to deal with my groping and invading tongue and fingers as you try to flip pancakes and scramble eggs.

Mmmm...are you going to watch me as I do it, and spank my ass and tell me to hurry up? lol

By the way, i was born in the South. Military brat.

03-17-2008, 06:39 PM	#1
Jennevieve Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 97 Reputation: 118	When rape isn't enough? So, I've come to this point in my life where rape fantasy seems too vanilla to really excite me anymore. (I know, right?) It's sort of an issue. How much further can you go with the being used complex? Has anyone else had this problem?

03-18-2008, 12:45 AM	#5
ChiTownHoney Pa'l Mundo Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: ObamaNation Posts: 2,460 Reputation: 33436	I have to say....rape fantasy is what it is. A fantasy. Sure, you can roleplay, be tied up, get slapped around, but I think that that falls more into the BDSM category, no? and its really not all that exciting, is it? I've never been into the roleplaying thing or BDSM. Being tied up is really not my thing. Roleplaying to me is not very exciting at all, because you ultimately know that all you are having is, as you say "vanilla sex". Rape fantasy in MY world is being turned on by angry men, liking aggressiveness towards you, knowing that you shouldnt be in the parking garage at 3am by yourself, knowing that you should not be alone in a room with a man who is doped up and horny. But you stay, you do all these things that are risky for any woman. Thinking about all those possibilities is the ultimate turn on. Its simply the CONCEPT. The DANGER. Anger is such a sexy emotion in a man (although I hate drunkiness). The dark emotions that linger, the rage, the anger, and the desire. He uses his strong body to make sure that you are completel overpowered. How can you not be turned on by that? Can you really get that out of roleplay?? Roleplay is safe....vanilla. Control does not equal excitement. I dont want control. But most men wont "play". There seriously is an abundance of morally righteous guys in the world, which isnt a bad thing of course, its good! Maybe I'm just not good, as I have this hunger for danger. So, my rape fantasy is only kept in my fantasies untill I can find someone who will play. It will be just "play" as I would never really want to be with someone like that. Is that wrong?? Is it even possible to drive a man to do that?? I am not sure how well that would pan out for anyone....but the thought and the danger aspect is more exciting than anything else in the world. Very difficult post to word, I simply stated what I found exciting for myself, and thats it. Last edited by ChiTownHoney; 03-18-2008 at 01:09 AM.

03-18-2008, 06:11 AM	#8
Mugga123 Privileged Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Australia Posts: 983 Reputation: 22893	BTW to the thread starter, I've had this problem previously.... but after a while I came back to Rape Fantasies... but on that note, other vanilla porn (lesbian) takes 4-5* longer to get me off then rape fantasies. __________________ It's all fun and games till someone gets raped.

03-18-2008, 06:21 PM	#10
GOATBOY Privileged Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: london uk Posts: 627 Reputation: 4793	Maybe you shoudl try just getting raped by me for a while. thats turning it up a gear. __________________ HAPPINESS IS A DRY PUSSY

03-21-2008, 05:36 AM	#15
ego the obscure Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 3,457 Reputation: 14892	Makes note not to rp with Chi Sorry, i usually cum during sex! __________________ ..lure them all into the abyss!

03-17-2008, 07:31 PM	#2
SirSinister Banned Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Australia Posts: 184 Reputation: 112	Look into BDSM... If its being used you like I would put effort into looking up the humiliation and degredation aspect...

03-17-2008, 09:36 PM	#3
FinalKey Key Master Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 677 Reputation: 4792	Yea...than I found hentai lol. Seriously, I was a bit disgusted by it when a chick introduced it to me and I didn't look into it for at least another year. Now I'm a hentai addict, to a certain extent...twitches slightly and goes to look at Angel Blade