WTF is she on about? - Rape Board

GOATBOY · 05-04-2009, 02:45 PM

ok. I must of done everything rape like with my current woman. she has said 'no' while kissing on the sofa and made me pick her up and drag her to my room by force while she is openly objecting. when she is in my room she is pushing me off and tryign to stratch and bite me. then when I tie her up she begs me not too and keeps asking me to untie her. when I tell her to shut up she says 'make me', which is a major hint to gag her. then I have to use all my strength to force her legs open, and she tries to say 'no' when I start to fuck her.

then when I asked her if she would say she had rape fantasies she said 'oh, god no'

seriously WTF?!

Sierra · 05-04-2009, 02:49 PM

LOL - we women like to pretend that we are not "that way". It's easy for me to admit it here to a bunch of strangers on the internet, but I probably would have done the same thing with a lover IRL.

If a guy asks me for permission first I'm like to say "no" no matter how aroused I am by it, or how much I want him to do it. The whole idea is that we are "made" to do it, not that we admit we are kinky.

Does that make sense? No, of course it doesn't. I never said it did.

Flesh4Fantasy · 05-04-2009, 04:12 PM

Sierra - you wouldn't be a woman if you made any sense to guys...

GOATBOY · 05-04-2009, 04:43 PM

sierra, yes i do get that women are like that. why? I have no idea, you are all wierd.

flesh4fantasy. fair point.

sexfiend · 05-04-2009, 05:14 PM

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Originally Posted by GOATBOY

sierra, yes i do get that women are like that. why? I have no idea, you are all wierd.

flesh4fantasy. fair point.

No one will ever understand what go's on in a womans mind.Hell i have been married twice and i still don't get them.lol

Lucy. · 05-04-2009, 06:13 PM

There is no point trying to explain. You just wouldn't get it. Nothing personal, you just wouldn't understand

Just enjoy it xx

ChiTownHoney · 05-04-2009, 06:42 PM

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Originally Posted by sexfiend

No one will ever understand what go's on in a womans mind.Hell i have been married twice and i still don't get them.lol

Maybe men are just stupid?

Its so damn easy to read women. You guys just must be slow.

I can tell you what is going on in that womans head right now:

http://www.rapeboard.com/showthread....262#post342262

menace · 05-05-2009, 01:00 PM

What is up with women never saying what they really mean? You know, when a guy has something to say, he says it. He doesn't go around in circles until he gets to the exact opposite of what he means, leaving their interlocutor to guess what exactly do the words mean. When a guy speaks, you know what he meant because he said it.

Is it really too much to ask women do the same?

Lucy. · 05-05-2009, 01:35 PM

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Originally Posted by menace

What is up with women never saying what they really mean?

Hehe, you really missed the mark, as did all guys who posted in here. She is saying exactly what she means.

She said she isn't into rape and I'm as certain as I can be without knowing her that this is true. Yet it also seems to be a lie because she obviously likes it. How can this be?

I know but its a secret xD xD. Its surely quite obvious though if you think about it.

menace · 05-05-2009, 01:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Lucy.

Hehe, you really missed the mark, as did all guys who posted in here. She is saying exactly what she means.

She said she isn't into rape and I'm as certain as I can be without knowing her that this is true. Yet it also seems to be a lie because she obviously likes it. How can this be?

I know but its a secret xD xD. Its surely quite obvious though if you think about it.

I was speaking more generally about the problems that arise in male-female communication, which would of been obvious to anyone who read my post

As for the specific case, the only logical explanation I can see is that the stuff GB and his girl get up to are rape to him, but not to her. If you are right about her saying what she means, that is.

Sierra · 05-06-2009, 01:29 PM

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Originally Posted by menace

I was speaking more generally about the problems that arise in male-female communication, which would of been obvious to anyone who read my post

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You were speaking plainly, and Lucy certainly did understand your post, but you know as well as I do that women always make it about themselves.

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As for the specific case, the only logical explanation I can see is that the stuff GB and his girl get up to are rape to him, but not to her. If you are right about her saying what she means, that is.

Ah, but you see the "logical" conclusion to a male leads you down the wrong path, in this case. GB didn't say "Are you into rape?" Nobody is into rape. He asked if she is into rape fantasy. The games those two are playing are rape - or at the very least forced sex - roleplaying. He understands that and so does she. HOWEVER - if she admits that she is into it, she not only has to admit she is kinky, but also to give consent. It loses something if she actually says "Yes, I like it. Please do it to me."

Lucy. · 05-06-2009, 01:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Sierra

The games those two are playing are rape - or at the very least forced sex - roleplaying. He understands that and so does she. HOWEVER - if she admits that she is into it, she not only has to admit she is kinky, but also to give consent. It loses something if she actually says "Yes, I like it. Please do it to me."

Exactly. While it is possible that what he sees as rape-play she sees as having a good time with her man, I was thinking the same thing as Sierra personally. It makes a lot of sense to me.

Saying yes is admitting you enjoy something that is in your opinion something kinky/dirty, and also if I said yes, it would pretty much completely ruin it for me from then on in. The illusion (as weak as it may be) that your not really into it is gone, and it makes it less kinky/dirty.

Its a common thing women go through with some sexual act at some point or another. I wouldn't admit to a guy I liked oral even though I always did. I liked it a lot more when it was new and edgy and I didn't think I should be doing it, and I'd never admit to liking it back then. I wanted to keep it hot and not have it turn into a boring routine with nothing special about it.

I always did it but made a point out of not really wanting to. And I liked the attention and things that going all shy and frustrating brought me too, which could be a part of this.

GOATBOY · 05-06-2009, 04:36 PM

thanks to chitownhoney for having a go at explaining. I always find womens phsycology interesting, learning how the enemy thinks.

as for lucy, if you are never gonna tell anyone what you want... expect a lifetime of never getting it.

menace · 05-06-2009, 05:24 PM

Wow, you just proved my point for me, thank you!

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Originally Posted by menace

What is up with women never saying what they really mean? You know, when a guy has something to say, he says it. He doesn't go around in circles until he gets to the exact opposite of what he means, leaving their interlocutor to guess what exactly do the words mean. When a guy speaks, you know what he meant because he said it.

Is it really too much to ask women do the same?

And then you went from:

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Originally Posted by Lucy.

Hehe, you really missed the mark, as did all guys who posted in here. She is saying exactly what she means.

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Originally Posted by Lucy.

Saying yes is admitting you enjoy something that is in your opinion something kinky/dirty, and also if I said yes, it would pretty much completely ruin it for me from then on in. The illusion (as weak as it may be) that your not really into it is gone, and it makes it less kinky/dirty.

It seems to me thta what you ended up saying in the last post is that she is into rape play and knows it. But then she wouldn't be saying what she means, would she? Or maybe you think she meant to lie.

And this multiquoting thing is awesome! I can't believe I never used it before.

Lucy. · 05-06-2009, 06:06 PM

Ahhhhh!! Its hard to explain. Its just different for girls. Men are the same, I don't understand the way they talk/think a lot of the time either and I spend more time talking to guys than I do girls.

Multiquoting is great, but I hate people that abuse it. Sometimes someone will multiquote everyone in a thread and it comes across like a school lesson.

menace · 05-07-2009, 12:40 PM

I do understand, just can't relate. Maybe because I'm on the other end of things, but to me admitting the fantasy and then acting it out is hotter!

Flesh4Fantasy · 05-08-2009, 10:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Lucy.

Multiquoting is great, but I hate people that abuse it. Sometimes someone will multiquote everyone in a thread and it comes across like a school lesson.

That's just teacher's way of sublimating the real correction he wants to give...

star67 · 05-10-2009, 07:54 AM

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Originally Posted by GOATBOY

as for lucy, if you are never gonna tell anyone what you want... expect a lifetime of never getting it.

ahh but it's more of challenge then. how do you get someone to 'force' you without actually asking them? i agree with lucy, asking kind of takes away the illusion... and what's the fun in that, as the victim?

GOATBOY · 05-10-2009, 08:55 AM

but the problem with just taking hints and just going for it is; you might of read the signs wrong and end up actually raping someone.

all this "oh no please stop!!" will just sound like part of the game.

and you wont have much of a case in court.

star67 · 05-10-2009, 09:12 AM

oh, i know. it's much more difficult for the guy to figure out and determine whether to act on it. sorry about that [/cryptic woman behaviour]

honestly though, you know your girl likes it, and that's awesome enough that you don't need her to say it as well, right?

i can see why you'd be worried she could just change her mind but that's a risk that comes with every roleplay.

05-04-2009, 02:45 PM	#1
GOATBOY Privileged Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: london uk Posts: 627 Reputation: 4793	WTF is she on about? ok. I must of done everything rape like with my current woman. she has said 'no' while kissing on the sofa and made me pick her up and drag her to my room by force while she is openly objecting. when she is in my room she is pushing me off and tryign to stratch and bite me. then when I tie her up she begs me not too and keeps asking me to untie her. when I tell her to shut up she says 'make me', which is a major hint to gag her. then I have to use all my strength to force her legs open, and she tries to say 'no' when I start to fuck her. then when I asked her if she would say she had rape fantasies she said 'oh, god no' seriously WTF?! __________________ HAPPINESS IS A DRY PUSSY

05-04-2009, 02:49 PM	#2
Sierra Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Northern California Posts: 1,625 Reputation: 129196	LOL - we women like to pretend that we are not "that way". It's easy for me to admit it here to a bunch of strangers on the internet, but I probably would have done the same thing with a lover IRL. If a guy asks me for permission first I'm like to say "no" no matter how aroused I am by it, or how much I want him to do it. The whole idea is that we are "made" to do it, not that we admit we are kinky. Does that make sense? No, of course it doesn't. I never said it did. __________________ Although the most incisive judges of the witches and even the witches themselves were convinced of the guilt of witchcraft, this guilt nevertheless did not exist. Thus it is with all guilt.

05-04-2009, 04:43 PM	#4
GOATBOY Privileged Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: london uk Posts: 627 Reputation: 4793	sierra, yes i do get that women are like that. why? I have no idea, you are all wierd. flesh4fantasy. fair point. __________________ HAPPINESS IS A DRY PUSSY

05-05-2009, 01:00 PM	#8
menace Privileged Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Who knows? Posts: 2,436 Reputation: 26964	What is up with women never saying what they really mean? You know, when a guy has something to say, he says it. He doesn't go around in circles until he gets to the exact opposite of what he means, leaving their interlocutor to guess what exactly do the words mean. When a guy speaks, you know what he meant because he said it. Is it really too much to ask women do the same? __________________ Try and stop me

05-06-2009, 04:36 PM	#13
GOATBOY Privileged Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: london uk Posts: 627 Reputation: 4793	thanks to chitownhoney for having a go at explaining. I always find womens phsycology interesting, learning how the enemy thinks. as for lucy, if you are never gonna tell anyone what you want... expect a lifetime of never getting it. __________________ HAPPINESS IS A DRY PUSSY

05-04-2009, 04:12 PM	#3
Flesh4Fantasy Banned Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Wandering the Formless Void Posts: 1,779 Reputation: 76205	Sierra - you wouldn't be a woman if you made any sense to guys...

05-04-2009, 06:13 PM	#6
Lucy. Banned Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: In a warzone? Posts: 634 Reputation: 21842	There is no point trying to explain. You just wouldn't get it. Nothing personal, you just wouldn't understand Just enjoy it xx

05-06-2009, 06:06 PM	#15
Lucy. Banned Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: In a warzone? Posts: 634 Reputation: 21842	Ahhhhh!! Its hard to explain. Its just different for girls. Men are the same, I don't understand the way they talk/think a lot of the time either and I spend more time talking to guys than I do girls. Multiquoting is great, but I hate people that abuse it. Sometimes someone will multiquote everyone in a thread and it comes across like a school lesson.

05-07-2009, 12:40 PM	#16
menace Privileged Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Who knows? Posts: 2,436 Reputation: 26964	I do understand, just can't relate. Maybe because I'm on the other end of things, but to me admitting the fantasy and then acting it out is hotter! __________________ Try and stop me

05-10-2009, 08:55 AM	#19
GOATBOY Privileged Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: london uk Posts: 627 Reputation: 4793	but the problem with just taking hints and just going for it is; you might of read the signs wrong and end up actually raping someone. all this "oh no please stop!!" will just sound like part of the game. and you wont have much of a case in court. __________________ HAPPINESS IS A DRY PUSSY

05-10-2009, 09:12 AM	#20
star67 Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: HK Posts: 117 Reputation: 1916	oh, i know. it's much more difficult for the guy to figure out and determine whether to act on it. sorry about that [/cryptic woman behaviour] honestly though, you know your girl likes it, and that's awesome enough that you don't need her to say it as well, right? i can see why you'd be worried she could just change her mind but that's a risk that comes with every roleplay. __________________ And if the timing is right to sneak off into the night, I'll let myself be taken just for the thrill And if I'm given the chance to be a doll in his hands...