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Marker · 03-01-2007, 10:10 PM

idle talk means anything right?

okay well hows the best way to break up with a girl without hurting her feelings. it's just not all there for me.

i may be a sadist but i'm still thoughtful!!

fireflights · 03-01-2007, 10:16 PM

Well the best way is to be honest. Pussy footing will only hurt her worse so just tell her the truth.

Jasmine · 03-01-2007, 10:36 PM

Fireflights is absolutely correct. If you aren't happy, she will sense it and start to feel your withdrawl. That is a painful way to end it. Just be honest and end it.

dante · 03-02-2007, 04:22 PM

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dark_d3viant · 03-02-2007, 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by dante

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My oh-so-romantic husband..

...remind me never to break up with you, by the way

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Louise · 03-02-2007, 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by dante

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LOL...truly a classic indeed!

NightStalker73au · 03-02-2007, 04:27 PM

Honesty is always the best policy with most things in life, more so when in relationships i believe.

ControlPhreak · 03-02-2007, 04:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Marker

idle talk means anything right?

okay well hows the best way to break up with a girl without hurting her feelings. it's just not all there for me.

i may be a sadist but i'm still thoughtful!!

Jessus, can it be done? I've always had the crazy rage or that extra unnatrective "I can change" stuff.

I like the honesty thing too HC, although harder said than done.

Marker · 03-02-2007, 07:20 PM

well thanks for your advice and your all gona attack me now but eh i kinda chickened out, i couldn't do it!

she was so nice to me, she suprised me for godsake! came to visit me!
a suprise!

oh what a pickle!!!

Andering REDDSON · 03-02-2007, 10:27 PM

Â¿You want a “kind” way?
Ok, meet her for lunch, tell her it’s not working out, you’re sorry, offer to pay the tab.

Or just change your number…

IRejectUrReality · 03-03-2007, 02:35 AM

It will hurt a lot less to be honest. I know everyone else has said this, but it's the only way to go without hurting her worse.

dante · 03-03-2007, 06:43 PM

Yeh you should be honest, and then if they won't leave you alone it just means a restraining order

NightStalker73au · 03-03-2007, 06:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Marker

well thanks for your advice and your all gona attack me now but eh i kinda chickened out, i couldn't do it!

she was so nice to me, she suprised me for godsake! came to visit me!
a suprise!

oh what a pickle!!!

Sit down and just be honest with her. tell her how you really feel.

If not now go the somewhat crueler option and wait til she is about to leave lol.

03-04-2007, 02:18 PM

Let her walk in on you shagging a relative like her sister or cousin, oh wait you dont want to hurt her right??

MADDOGMCMANAMAN · 03-06-2007, 12:52 AM

DON'T DUMP HER!!!..THERE IS NO NEED!!!! think about it just keep her sweet enough to get a regular bash at the fannybox and keep it going smooth....then when she eventually figures it out..she will dump you!! but in the meantime you will have a definite hole to poke whilst searching for another......listen to me this is purremium advice mate!!!

03-01-2007, 10:10 PM	#1
Marker Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: ireland Posts: 49 Reputation: 75	idle talk means anything right? so advice! idle talk means anything right? okay well hows the best way to break up with a girl without hurting her feelings. it's just not all there for me. i may be a sadist but i'm still thoughtful!! __________________ so fuck you and all we've been through i said leave it it's nothing to you and if you hate me then hate me so good that you can let me out

03-01-2007, 10:16 PM	#2
fireflights Never say never Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Illinois Posts: 711 Reputation: 2269	Well the best way is to be honest. Pussy footing will only hurt her worse so just tell her the truth. __________________ Night-time sharpens, heightens each sensation . . . Darkness stirs and wakes imagination . . . Silently the senses abandon their defences . . .

03-02-2007, 04:22 PM	#4
dante Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: SW UK Posts: 35 Reputation: 342	"Welcome to dumpsville, population... you" - A Classic __________________ To Be Truthful Means To Lie According To A Fixed Convention

03-02-2007, 04:27 PM	#7
NightStalker73au Alone Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: In The Darkness waiting..... Posts: 587 Reputation: 963	Honesty is always the best policy with most things in life, more so when in relationships i believe. __________________ I stalk the night, looking for her My next victim to take away from here She will be the prize to my collection A joy for me to hold and use at my discretion I belong to the night, stalking it and surveying taking what I need to suffice my desires I am the NightStalker

03-02-2007, 07:20 PM	#9
Marker Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: ireland Posts: 49 Reputation: 75	okay okay some feedback well thanks for your advice and your all gona attack me now but eh i kinda chickened out, i couldn't do it! she was so nice to me, she suprised me for godsake! came to visit me! a suprise! oh what a pickle!!! __________________ so fuck you and all we've been through i said leave it it's nothing to you and if you hate me then hate me so good that you can let me out

03-01-2007, 10:36 PM	#3
Jasmine Privileged Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 2,352 Reputation: 20045	Fireflights is absolutely correct. If you aren't happy, she will sense it and start to feel your withdrawl. That is a painful way to end it. Just be honest and end it.

03-02-2007, 10:27 PM	#10
Andering REDDSON Banned Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: R/Bâ€™s cyber-Auschwitz Posts: 609 Reputation: 1028	Â¿You want a “kind” way? Ok, meet her for lunch, tell her it’s not working out, you’re sorry, offer to pay the tab. Or just change your number…

03-03-2007, 02:35 AM	#11
IRejectUrReality Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: It's not on the map Posts: 34 Reputation: 186	It will hurt a lot less to be honest. I know everyone else has said this, but it's the only way to go without hurting her worse. __________________ It's not denial, im just very selective about the reality i accept.

03-03-2007, 06:43 PM	#12
dante Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: SW UK Posts: 35 Reputation: 342	Yeh you should be honest, and then if they won't leave you alone it just means a restraining order __________________ To Be Truthful Means To Lie According To A Fixed Convention

03-04-2007, 02:18 PM	#14
clan_hunter Guest Posts: n/a	Let her walk in on you shagging a relative like her sister or cousin, oh wait you dont want to hurt her right??

03-06-2007, 12:52 AM	#15
MADDOGMCMANAMAN PUSSYCRUSHER Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: YOUR MOMMAS HOUSE Posts: 2,161 Reputation: 9875	DON'T DUMP HER!!!..THERE IS NO NEED!!!! think about it just keep her sweet enough to get a regular bash at the fannybox and keep it going smooth....then when she eventually figures it out..she will dump you!! but in the meantime you will have a definite hole to poke whilst searching for another......listen to me this is purremium advice mate!!!