Menace, what the fuck is wrong with you, man?

[Sierra]

So nice to know you won't hold it against us. I'll sleep better at night knowing that.

Originally Posted by Arbitrium

I think this is ridiculous. I side with menace. When you get down to it we're all "damaged goods". I can look at a lot of women and say "she's a snotty bitch" and to me she'd have less value rather than another human being. Damaged goods is merely an opinion and a loose one at that. If menace thinks being with a raped woman has a negative appeal then from his perspective she would be "damaged goods" so when ya get right down to it we're all damaged goods. I think this is also kinda pathetic, the fact that, all the guys are pissed and all the girls are ok with a comment that was made primarily toward girls? Honestly we all enjoy rape. To the majority of the society we're ALL severely damaged goods. Respect opinions and respect people, my girlfriend was abused and honestly it hurts me in a lot of ways. While i wouldn't necessarily label her as "damaged goods" there's of course something we both have to deal with. So while I would be more apt to label it as "baggage" menace's term is basically the same and just more offensive. Basically the difference between fat and big boned. Can't believe we're down to social acceptances on a rape board, kinda disappointing.

Hmmmm. If I wasn't a lady, I would probably tell you to go do something anatomically impossible to yourself. Social acceptance? Yeah. The reason why I'm OK with Menace's comment is because I know Menace. I don't know you. Don't think I care to, either.

[sexfiend]

I don't believe that menace wanted to start a fight,he had something on his mind and put it on the board so we could talk about it.Like when i told about my 2nd ex wife's rapes,i was telling my view of what i thought he was saying.She will always carry it with her for the rest of her life,but she has moved on,she was the person that got me into roleplaying and roleplaying was something that she enjoyed.This board is a place for ideas and sharing things we are all into and that is why i am here.

[whyaskwhy]

Originally Posted by Sierra

So nice to know you won't hold it against us. I'll sleep better at night knowing that.



Hmmmm. If I wasn't a lady, I would probably tell you to go do something anatomically impossible to yourself. Social acceptance? Yeah. The reason why I'm OK with Menace's comment is because I know Menace. I don't know you. Don't think I care to, either.

Sierra,I like Menace as well and will make no claim to agree with or disagree with him or the newbie Arbitrium because honesty,I haven't given the subject enough thought but I will say this;It's nice to see new members who are at least attempting to contribute to RB whether I necessarily agree with their view of things or not.I think RB can deal with disagreements.I think we have all proved that.RB just can't deal with trolls like those who have flooded RB lately.I say we wait a little longer before we all cast judgement...Or not,whatever.lol

[MARADONA]

Originally Posted by Sierra

So nice to know you won't hold it against us. I'll sleep better at night knowing that.



Hmmmm. If I wasn't a lady, I would probably tell you to go do something anatomically impossible to yourself. Social acceptance? Yeah. The reason why I'm OK with Menace's comment is because I know Menace. I don't know you. Don't think I care to, either.

Tough post!

[Sierra]

Originally Posted by whyaskwhy

Sierra,I like Menace as well and will make no claim to agree with or disagree with him or the newbie Arbitrium because honesty,I haven't given the subject enough thought but I will say this;It's nice to see new members who are at least attempting to contribute to RB whether I necessarily agree with their view of things or not.I think RB can deal with disagreements.I think we have all proved that.RB just can't deal with trolls like those who have flooded RB lately.I say we wait a little longer before we all cast judgement...Or not,whatever.lol

WAW, the reasons why I made that post is twofold:

1. There is no possible way I could disagree with this person more and I found his words offensive. If you had made the post he did you would have gotten the same reaction from me. For example:

While i wouldn't necessarily label her as "damaged goods" there's of course something we both have to deal with. So while I would be more apt to label it as "baggage" menace's term is basically the same and just more offensive. Basically the difference between fat and big boned. Can't believe we're down to social acceptances on a rape board, kinda disappointing.

Those four short sentences include: passing judgment on a woman because of something which was no fault of her own; bigotry against people who HE would term overweight, and a patronizing sneer at the rest of us. That takes real talent, to offend so many people with so few words.

2. He came on the board and instantly starting complaining and criticizing. I explained a little more gently elsewhere that perhaps he might want to make a few positive posts before he started being so critical.

[whyaskwhy]

Originally Posted by Sierra

WAW, the reasons why I made that post is twofold:

1. There is no possible way I could disagree with this person more and I found his words offensive. If you had made the post he did you would have gotten the same reaction from me. For example:



Those four short sentences include: passing judgment on a woman because of something which was no fault of her own; bigotry against people who HE would term overweight, and a patronizing sneer at the rest of us. That takes real talent, to offend so many people with so few words.

2. He came on the board and instantly starting complaining and criticizing. I explained a little more gently elsewhere that perhaps he might want to make a few positive posts before he started being so critical.

Well said Sierra.I don't disagree at all with what you said here having spent more time reviewing these posts.All I really met though was that at least he wasn't one of the masses of "new members" that fill the threads with Ads for stuff or just random links to other sites no one cares about (like the wedding fireworks link a while back).I've seen way too many such posts lately.That's not anyone's fault,just a lot of trolls and spammers to weed through.I don't envy the Mod's,they have a tough job.I was in no way trying to defend or argue with his or anyone's view,just stating an observation that at least he and Menace had a view to share (even if I actually think it was offencive).Sorry if I offended you,it was never my intention.