Bigamy - Rape Board

shysnale · 04-08-2008, 12:32 PM

The more I read about the sexual evolution of today's couples, the more I feel Bigamy is tolerated.

How do you look at that ? Do you think it's normal to get bored of your wife body and to try somebody else? Some people seem to think it is not an obstacle for the original love that made up their couple. Some couple seem to be aware of it and say it's no problem, we even exchange partners together.

As a very vanilla romantic naive guy, I am shocked. If one day I have a girfriend and she admits to me she's dating somebody else just for a sex change, I would be deeply hurt.

How about you ? What is your position. Old school one and only one partner ? Nevermind what your man does as long as he comes back to curl up behind you before you fall in sleep ?

I am confused.

Becka · 04-08-2008, 04:08 PM

actually, what you are describing is more me an open marriage. bigomy is actually having more than one wife not just looking for a change.

shysnale · 04-09-2008, 04:30 AM

Ho ok

MarcEdeSade · 04-09-2008, 05:18 AM

I have several friends who have two females under the roof.

Seems to be a great arrangement.

I'm headed that way myself.

Lawd, may my pimp-hand be strong!

MarcEdeSade · 04-09-2008, 05:20 AM

....did I mention that since my girlfriends spoke to each other, they both seem to be holding a "who can screw marc the most times in a day to wear him out for the other chick" contest.

Oh, it's terrible, I tells ya.

nekonoire · 04-09-2008, 07:27 AM

I'd find anything but an open relationship difficult. It's natural to be attracted to many people, not just one. Why limit yourself to just one person? It's hardly a problem you're finding with the partner, but rather a natural human response to other humans - everyone has a slightly different style, personality and physical appearance. It also allows for the relationship to be about more than just sex when sex isn't exclusive to the relationship.

Ragman · 04-11-2008, 12:46 AM

Honestly, for me.. A one-on- one relationship is the only thing I can do. I guess I am old fashioned but when you are with someone i think you should be " WITH" that person not with that person.. unless there is someone prettier int he corner, and then back to that someone when the pretty girl has outlived her use fullness. I agree with Snale I would be deeply hurt if my lady revealed that she had been sleeping with someone else, and even more hurt if she thought it wouldn't be an issue with me.

Its always better to break a relationship off than to be cheated on or cheat yourself, just my opinion of course

Sephy · 04-11-2008, 02:32 AM

I'm not in the poly lifestyle choice, either, Ragman. I know many who are, and it's great for them. And I see nothing wrong with those arrangements as long as each participant is open and honest with each other. It's just not for me.

.Christine. · 04-11-2008, 03:28 AM

I'd have to say I'm not for the lifestyle. I've met a few who were open about the idea but it is just not my thing.

Ragman · 04-11-2008, 12:51 PM

I know a couple who are swingers as well, and they also are fine with it. I don't mind or anything, but its just not my style, Perhaps I am just greedy but I don't wanna share my partner with anyone...

Darkman · 04-18-2008, 10:06 AM

I had a girlfriend for 3 years whose fantasy it was to be cheated on and stay faithful, she'd like me to slap her around after i came back from another woman, and begged me to get another girlfriend. i was a fool to let her go.

now thats the kind of woman im looking for again. I'll love and respect her, but at the same time ill treat her like a total slut and slave. Bigamy's hot!

04-08-2008, 12:32 PM	#1
shysnale Neurotic Escargot Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Poker Table Posts: 2,754 Reputation: 13179	Bigamy The more I read about the sexual evolution of today's couples, the more I feel Bigamy is tolerated. How do you look at that ? Do you think it's normal to get bored of your wife body and to try somebody else? Some people seem to think it is not an obstacle for the original love that made up their couple. Some couple seem to be aware of it and say it's no problem, we even exchange partners together. As a very vanilla romantic naive guy, I am shocked. If one day I have a girfriend and she admits to me she's dating somebody else just for a sex change, I would be deeply hurt. How about you ? What is your position. Old school one and only one partner ? Nevermind what your man does as long as he comes back to curl up behind you before you fall in sleep ? I am confused. Last edited by shysnale; 04-08-2008 at 12:36 PM.

04-08-2008, 04:08 PM	#2
Becka Immodest Mod Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Virginia Posts: 1,407 Reputation: 36018	actually, what you are describing is more me an open marriage. bigomy is actually having more than one wife not just looking for a change. __________________ Vital Board Info Hey, where am I going? And why am I in this hand basket? Darling, a true lady takes off her dignity with her clothes and does her whorish best. At other times you can be as modest and dignified as your persona requires.

04-09-2008, 05:18 AM	#4
MarcEdeSade Amoralist Libertine Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 391 Reputation: 1262	I have several friends who have two females under the roof. Seems to be a great arrangement. I'm headed that way myself. Lawd, may my pimp-hand be strong! __________________ Pain is inevitable....suffering is optional

04-09-2008, 05:20 AM	#5
MarcEdeSade Amoralist Libertine Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 391 Reputation: 1262	....did I mention that since my girlfriends spoke to each other, they both seem to be holding a "who can screw marc the most times in a day to wear him out for the other chick" contest. Oh, it's terrible, I tells ya. __________________ Pain is inevitable....suffering is optional

04-11-2008, 12:46 AM	#7
Ragman Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: an alley near you Posts: 2,226 Reputation: 5535	Honestly, for me.. A one-on- one relationship is the only thing I can do. I guess I am old fashioned but when you are with someone i think you should be " WITH" that person not with that person.. unless there is someone prettier int he corner, and then back to that someone when the pretty girl has outlived her use fullness. I agree with Snale I would be deeply hurt if my lady revealed that she had been sleeping with someone else, and even more hurt if she thought it wouldn't be an issue with me. Its always better to break a relationship off than to be cheated on or cheat yourself, just my opinion of course __________________ "Aww He's just a silly, dirty little man. What's to be afraid of ?" 2

04-09-2008, 04:30 AM	#3
shysnale Neurotic Escargot Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Poker Table Posts: 2,754 Reputation: 13179	Ho ok

04-09-2008, 07:27 AM	#6
nekonoire Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Australia Posts: 30 Reputation: 92	I'd find anything but an open relationship difficult. It's natural to be attracted to many people, not just one. Why limit yourself to just one person? It's hardly a problem you're finding with the partner, but rather a natural human response to other humans - everyone has a slightly different style, personality and physical appearance. It also allows for the relationship to be about more than just sex when sex isn't exclusive to the relationship.

04-11-2008, 02:32 AM	#8
Sephy Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Unleashed Posts: 64 Reputation: 201	I'm not in the poly lifestyle choice, either, Ragman. I know many who are, and it's great for them. And I see nothing wrong with those arrangements as long as each participant is open and honest with each other. It's just not for me. __________________ Fear of getting what you want is as powerful as the fear of never getting it.

04-11-2008, 03:28 AM	#9
.Christine. Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: [a town that isn't any fun until you're 21] Posts: 28 Reputation: 32	I'd have to say I'm not for the lifestyle. I've met a few who were open about the idea but it is just not my thing.

04-11-2008, 12:51 PM	#10
Ragman Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: an alley near you Posts: 2,226 Reputation: 5535	I know a couple who are swingers as well, and they also are fine with it. I don't mind or anything, but its just not my style, Perhaps I am just greedy but I don't wanna share my partner with anyone... __________________ "Aww He's just a silly, dirty little man. What's to be afraid of ?" 2

04-18-2008, 10:06 AM	#11
Darkman its all give and take Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Manchester UK Posts: 688 Reputation: 179	I had a girlfriend for 3 years whose fantasy it was to be cheated on and stay faithful, she'd like me to slap her around after i came back from another woman, and begged me to get another girlfriend. i was a fool to let her go. now thats the kind of woman im looking for again. I'll love and respect her, but at the same time ill treat her like a total slut and slave. Bigamy's hot! __________________ just do it