A horrible event. - Rape Board

Number7 · 06-27-2007, 05:29 PM

Most of you know I'm only eighteen, going on nineteen, some of you of noticed I was gone for a couple of weeks, only one of you (HBSB) knows why.

My mother needed to use the internet and while I was asleep she decided to take my laptop, and what did she find in my bookmarks?

Yes, RB.

I don't know how long she looked at it, or what she saw, but she was disgusted. My parents want to send me to "get help" now and the tension in my house can be cut with a knife...

I got my laptop back since it's mine and I use it for work as well, so I'll still be here, but this is a pretty bad time for me

ego · 06-27-2007, 05:41 PM

Oh, shit!

What about making a revolution? Say them for example that you consider the fact she take a look in your private things an insult much much worst than being in RB? Or that the only help you need is a place that noone looks at your stuff while you sleep?

Anyway, that sucks!

hornybisexualbitch · 06-27-2007, 05:43 PM

Oh babe, i am sorry for all that, and as far as you needing help, and the fact that they said that, well that really just pisses me off.

You dont need help, i love you, take care.

dashrendar44 · 06-27-2007, 05:54 PM

wow.....on one hand, that sucks and im mad sorry for you....but on the other why didnt you have password protection? @_@ its a work comp too, so even if it wasnt going on rb it still has sensitive info.....oh well, that really sucks, sorry TT________TT

Number7 · 06-27-2007, 09:51 PM

@ Ego, I'm not even going to try to turn it around, like I see where they are coming from...

@HBSB, I know I don't need help

I wish I was with you right now

@Dash, I work from home, so I shouldn't of had to password something around my own family... Guess I was wrong.

Jasmine · 06-27-2007, 10:40 PM

Number 7,
It was wrong of them to check your computer. However, they may have found it accidentally. You are correct in not trying to put them on the defensive. Parents hate that and it makes us angry.

Believe me, your parent's hearts are broken. They think that they have failed you somehow. They will talk to a therapist and find out that it isn't so uncommon and calm down.

I suggest you rename your favs something like "google scholar"!

Good luck. Be on your best behavior, they are watching!

dashrendar44 · 06-27-2007, 10:42 PM

lol, well call me paranoid, but ive got the base lock on turning on my comp and ive got password locks on all major programs (example, if i try to open firefox i have to put in a password) theres a total of 11 i use on my comp and theyre all different! ^_^ good luck to you man...looks like youll need it TT_TT

MADDOGMCMANAMAN · 06-27-2007, 11:09 PM

NO.7 GOD DAMN man i feel for ya !! that is truly a bitch

just try to stay cool about the whole thing and not give them the impression that ur up to no good !!

also maybe u could say that what they found was "RAPBOARD" as in "yeah muthafuckers i bust a cap in yo ass" - or that u wanted to go to "RAPBOARD" and misspelt it with an extra "E"

dunno if it helps - just tryin to come up with a suggestion.

neway - i wish u good luck !!

my dark side · 06-27-2007, 11:53 PM

Sorry to hear bout the troubles. I hope it all works out for you in the end, though it may take time.

I put a password on my comp and that was just because of RB. I dont have parents to worry about with it, just an ex husband but even the thought of him finding it and finding things that i say scare me.

Best of luck with it all Number 7.

Sternenlied · 06-28-2007, 04:38 AM

Talk to them about it.
Straight and honest.

...

Just my two cents on how to deal with them.

theman · 06-28-2007, 05:22 AM

Damn... Just reading that post brought an awkward feeling up inside me....

I would just tell them, that first off, (yeah, I'm assuming you think all this stuff) you would never rape anyone, and you believe it's entirely wrong and sick in every sense except fantasy. I would also tell them that we, the members of rapeboard, aren't sick, sadistic, rapists, but we're average people with normal jobs, and normal emotions. We just happen to be interested in rape fantasy ;p.

Well, as for my parents, that would be like the most awkward thing to ever say to them, but you gotta say or do something before they try to send you to a therapist lol.... Wouldn't wanna get in a big rift generating fight over it with them either lol....

On a random side note: What if your mother or father is reading this very word right now? (Hi Number7's parents!!!)

Another funny thought: What if they came on here to check some posts you had made or what's discussed on this board, and one of your parents actually realized they were quite interested in it... This then leads to them posting and so on.... Haha crazy thoughts...

Anyway, I hope things work out, meaning everything blows over and you don't get sent to a psyrink.

Sternenlied · 06-28-2007, 05:30 AM

By the way:
You can tell your parents you already spoke to a therapist about it and she told you there's nothing wrong about your fantasies ...

theman · 06-28-2007, 05:38 AM

Ooohhh I like how you made it a female therapist. Don't know if you did that on purpose or not, but I see what effect it could have on his parents ;p.

(PS What if your parents are reading our strategizing?!?! Oh no!)

Jezebel · 06-30-2007, 06:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by theman

Ooohhh I like how you made it a female therapist. Don't know if you did that on purpose or not, but I see what effect it could have on his parents ;p.

Theman: she "made" it a female therapist because SHE IS A FEMALE THERAPIST

Have them talk to me! I'm adorable and super sweet parents always love me! trust me!

I think you should talk to them about the fact that it's not something wrong with you and you are completely sane. They need to understand that your sex life is a private matter and has absolutely nothing to do with them. But what you should mostly adress after the original shock has blown over is the complete break of trust they have created with you. If my parents did something like this with me it would really damage my relationship with them. Trust me, if my prudish Catholic parents found this out about me they would probably react in the same way (my computer is at my fiance's place not my house so this will probably not happen). Your sex life has nothing to do with your parents and is a private thing. You need to let them know this. But you should also give your parents the credit that they will calm down one day and then you will need to work on building your relationships up again because you don't want to loose them just like they don't want to loose you. If I'm not explaining this corectly or you want to talk to me about it or something my yahoo is Jezebel_Muffin so please give me a line sometime if you can. I'm deeply sorry about this catasrophe but just be patient with your parents and give it time.

Intheshadows · 07-19-2007, 09:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jezebel

. They need to understand that your sex life is a private matter and has absolutely nothing to do with them. .

I just read this post, and that might have been true if not for Number 7's posts about wanting to fuck his mom. Ouch! I'm sure that was quite a shock for her to read.

RapeU · 07-20-2007, 12:54 PM

I experienced almost the same thing you did, and I know how bad it sucks.

I was emailing, calling, and texting a girl all the time. We mostly talked about having sex with each other and what we would do if we ever met. My phone is under my mom's name, so when she saw so many text messages she got suspicious. I told her who I was messaging but not what the messages were about. She got more suspicious.

We had dial up back then and whenever we connected to the internet, msn messenger would always sign in automatically. I never imagined that Stephanie would send me an email while my mom was online. Acting on an instinct, she clicked on the message about a new email from Stephanie. She saw all the stuff I talked about with her.

And that is why we no longer have the internet at my house, and why I have a super complicated password just to get into my laptop.

Darkman · 06-28-2007, 09:02 AM

rape em. only kidding, ive never met anyone who doesnt think about rape fantasy even a little. To me its weird not to! then again that could be the circles i mix in!

insignia0 · 06-28-2007, 09:34 AM

1. who in there right minds booksmark a site liek this if there is a cahcne there family will use it, cause we all check out someoen elses favourites and stuff when we use there computer its human nature for us to be nosey,

2. like other ppl hve sed talk to them about it, tell them its a fantasy like any other ppl have, tell them its somethign you wudnt consider in real life and mention the board rules and how anythign related to real life incidents arent tolerated here,

3. tell them you are an adult and as long as you arn't breakign the law you arent doing nothing wrong and they will just hve to deal with it,

on a side note i bet youll find alll your sharp knives will suddenly disappear now from the kitchen,

sillyjunior2000 · 06-28-2007, 12:29 PM

awkward position 4 you to expplain that u werent wrong!
I really feel sorry for you.

MADDOGMCMANAMAN · 06-29-2007, 01:41 AM

trust me tell them u were tryin to access RAPBOARD for an album or something !!

it then is a genuine mistake !!

06-27-2007, 05:41 PM	#2
ego the obscure Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 3,457 Reputation: 14892	Oh, shit! What about making a revolution? Say them for example that you consider the fact she take a look in your private things an insult much much worst than being in RB? Or that the only help you need is a place that noone looks at your stuff while you sleep? Anyway, that sucks! __________________ ..lure them all into the abyss!

06-27-2007, 05:43 PM	#3
hornybisexualbitch Daughter of Jasmine Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: South Carolina Posts: 1,114 Reputation: 2956	Oh babe, i am sorry for all that, and as far as you needing help, and the fact that they said that, well that really just pisses me off. You dont need help, i love you, take care. __________________ So...who missed me? Smiles are contagious, share one, the small things can brighten someones day.

06-27-2007, 05:54 PM	#4
dashrendar44 Kamina Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Deep In The African Jungles Of China Posts: 2,733 Reputation: 12819	wow.....on one hand, that sucks and im mad sorry for you....but on the other why didnt you have password protection? @_@ its a work comp too, so even if it wasnt going on rb it still has sensitive info.....oh well, that really sucks, sorry TT________TT __________________ "Go beyond the impossible and kick reason to the curb!" ~ Kamina, Tengen Toppa Gurren Lagann "I've been thinking with my gut since I was 14, and I've come to the conclusion that my guts have shit for brains." ~ Rob Gordon, High Fidelity "All men are potential rapists. ALL MEN. Even the pope!" ~ Shirley Valentine "When you're pushed, killing's as easy as breathing." ~ John Rambo, Rambo IV "I don't think I'm easy to talk about. I've got a very irregular head. And I'm not anything that you think I am anyway." ~ Syd Barrett, Rolling Stone, December 1971

06-27-2007, 10:42 PM	#7
dashrendar44 Kamina Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Deep In The African Jungles Of China Posts: 2,733 Reputation: 12819	lol, well call me paranoid, but ive got the base lock on turning on my comp and ive got password locks on all major programs (example, if i try to open firefox i have to put in a password) theres a total of 11 i use on my comp and theyre all different! ^_^ good luck to you man...looks like youll need it TT_TT __________________ "Go beyond the impossible and kick reason to the curb!" ~ Kamina, Tengen Toppa Gurren Lagann "I've been thinking with my gut since I was 14, and I've come to the conclusion that my guts have shit for brains." ~ Rob Gordon, High Fidelity "All men are potential rapists. ALL MEN. Even the pope!" ~ Shirley Valentine "When you're pushed, killing's as easy as breathing." ~ John Rambo, Rambo IV "I don't think I'm easy to talk about. I've got a very irregular head. And I'm not anything that you think I am anyway." ~ Syd Barrett, Rolling Stone, December 1971

06-27-2007, 11:09 PM	#8
MADDOGMCMANAMAN PUSSYCRUSHER Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: YOUR MOMMAS HOUSE Posts: 2,161 Reputation: 9875	NO.7 GOD DAMN man i feel for ya !! that is truly a bitch just try to stay cool about the whole thing and not give them the impression that ur up to no good !! also maybe u could say that what they found was "RAPBOARD" as in "yeah muthafuckers i bust a cap in yo ass" - or that u wanted to go to "RAPBOARD" and misspelt it with an extra "E" dunno if it helps - just tryin to come up with a suggestion. neway - i wish u good luck !! __________________ The Original PUSSYCRUSHER !!

06-27-2007, 10:40 PM	#6
Jasmine Privileged Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 2,352 Reputation: 20045	Number 7, It was wrong of them to check your computer. However, they may have found it accidentally. You are correct in not trying to put them on the defensive. Parents hate that and it makes us angry. Believe me, your parent's hearts are broken. They think that they have failed you somehow. They will talk to a therapist and find out that it isn't so uncommon and calm down. I suggest you rename your favs something like "google scholar"! Good luck. Be on your best behavior, they are watching!

06-27-2007, 11:53 PM	#9
my dark side Banned Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Away from here Posts: 2,038 Reputation: 1051	Sorry to hear bout the troubles. I hope it all works out for you in the end, though it may take time. I put a password on my comp and that was just because of RB. I dont have parents to worry about with it, just an ex husband but even the thought of him finding it and finding things that i say scare me. Best of luck with it all Number 7.

06-28-2007, 04:38 AM	#10
Sternenlied Unknown Entity Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Niflheim Posts: 2,427 Reputation: 77819	Talk to them about it. Straight and honest. ... Just my two cents on how to deal with them. __________________ The Life and Death of Sam Crow - How the Sons of Anarchy lost their way

06-28-2007, 05:22 AM	#11
theman Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 330 Reputation: 1293	Damn... Just reading that post brought an awkward feeling up inside me.... I would just tell them, that first off, (yeah, I'm assuming you think all this stuff) you would never rape anyone, and you believe it's entirely wrong and sick in every sense except fantasy. I would also tell them that we, the members of rapeboard, aren't sick, sadistic, rapists, but we're average people with normal jobs, and normal emotions. We just happen to be interested in rape fantasy ;p. Well, as for my parents, that would be like the most awkward thing to ever say to them, but you gotta say or do something before they try to send you to a therapist lol.... Wouldn't wanna get in a big rift generating fight over it with them either lol.... On a random side note: What if your mother or father is reading this very word right now? (Hi Number7's parents!!!) Another funny thought: What if they came on here to check some posts you had made or what's discussed on this board, and one of your parents actually realized they were quite interested in it... This then leads to them posting and so on.... Haha crazy thoughts... Anyway, I hope things work out, meaning everything blows over and you don't get sent to a psyrink. __________________ Into the Russian Mafia \| Kristen the Stripper Billionaire \| Dallas Cowboys Cheerleader

06-28-2007, 05:30 AM	#12
Sternenlied Unknown Entity Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Niflheim Posts: 2,427 Reputation: 77819	By the way: You can tell your parents you already spoke to a therapist about it and she told you there's nothing wrong about your fantasies ... __________________ The Life and Death of Sam Crow - How the Sons of Anarchy lost their way

06-28-2007, 05:38 AM	#13
theman Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 330 Reputation: 1293	Ooohhh I like how you made it a female therapist. Don't know if you did that on purpose or not, but I see what effect it could have on his parents ;p. (PS What if your parents are reading our strategizing?!?! Oh no!) __________________ Into the Russian Mafia \| Kristen the Stripper Billionaire \| Dallas Cowboys Cheerleader

07-20-2007, 12:54 PM	#16
RapeU Yes = No. No = Yes Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Texas Posts: 2,412 Reputation: 33359	I experienced almost the same thing you did, and I know how bad it sucks. I was emailing, calling, and texting a girl all the time. We mostly talked about having sex with each other and what we would do if we ever met. My phone is under my mom's name, so when she saw so many text messages she got suspicious. I told her who I was messaging but not what the messages were about. She got more suspicious. We had dial up back then and whenever we connected to the internet, msn messenger would always sign in automatically. I never imagined that Stephanie would send me an email while my mom was online. Acting on an instinct, she clicked on the message about a new email from Stephanie. She saw all the stuff I talked about with her. And that is why we no longer have the internet at my house, and why I have a super complicated password just to get into my laptop. __________________ Stories I have written. The Red Rose Rapist short stories Roses Are Red, Violets Are Blue, Sugar Is Sweet, The Rapist Is You!? The Kidnapping Chronicles The Hunter, Huntress, LK, The Masked Marauder, Melinda's Tale, and The Masked Marauder II - Allen's Revenge Other Stories At My Cousin's Wedding

06-28-2007, 09:02 AM	#17
Darkman its all give and take Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Manchester UK Posts: 688 Reputation: 179	rape em. only kidding, ive never met anyone who doesnt think about rape fantasy even a little. To me its weird not to! then again that could be the circles i mix in! __________________ just do it

06-28-2007, 09:34 AM	#18
insignia0 Privileged Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: uk Posts: 171 Reputation: 692	1. who in there right minds booksmark a site liek this if there is a cahcne there family will use it, cause we all check out someoen elses favourites and stuff when we use there computer its human nature for us to be nosey, 2. like other ppl hve sed talk to them about it, tell them its a fantasy like any other ppl have, tell them its somethign you wudnt consider in real life and mention the board rules and how anythign related to real life incidents arent tolerated here, 3. tell them you are an adult and as long as you arn't breakign the law you arent doing nothing wrong and they will just hve to deal with it, on a side note i bet youll find alll your sharp knives will suddenly disappear now from the kitchen, __________________ I'm not afraid of death. It's the stake one puts up in order to play the game of life.

06-28-2007, 12:29 PM	#19
sillyjunior2000 Privileged Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 238 Reputation: 174	awkward position 4 you to expplain that u werent wrong! I really feel sorry for you. __________________ how do you do? - we usually remove our clothes and do.

06-29-2007, 01:41 AM	#20
MADDOGMCMANAMAN PUSSYCRUSHER Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: YOUR MOMMAS HOUSE Posts: 2,161 Reputation: 9875	trust me tell them u were tryin to access RAPBOARD for an album or something !! it then is a genuine mistake !! __________________ The Original PUSSYCRUSHER !!