Bella Is Feeling Quite Sad...

[Bella-In-Progress]

....because everybody is being so cruel to each other.

Looks like I picked a very scary time to finally begin posting. As scary as it is I would never leave I just wish everybody (I mean everybody, no bias on my end) would try their hardest to get along regardless of the wrong doings that have passed.

Don't you guys all care about each other even in the slightest? Don't you all have some level of respect for each other?

I know I'm a newbie so may insult me for butting in and not knowing every minute detail but sometimes it takes a third party who holds no position, to come in and be the voice of reasoning. It's just been disheartening over the past few days to see so many negative comments and negative threads arise.

[hellminth]

it's ok bella *pat pat* have a cookie - there is enough sensible people here to keep the place fun and welcoming, and certainly not a shortage of people willing to stand up for what they believe is right. not too surprised to see such a mixture of people at such a place, guess I am learning who to ignore, and who my friends are!

oh btw - all those added me to your friends list - THANKS! very flattered

[Forced Entry]

+2

I've got no need for the drama of others, in fair time these things sort themselves out. In the meantime we can make this an enjoyable place.

[sexfiend]

Originally Posted by Bella-In-Progress

....because everybody is being so cruel to each other.

Looks like I picked a very scary time to finally begin posting. As scary as it is I would never leave I just wish everybody (I mean everybody, no bias on my end) would try their hardest to get along regardless of the wrong doings that have passed.

Don't you guys all care about each other even in the slightest? Don't you all have some level of respect for each other?

I know I'm a newbie so may insult me for butting in and not knowing every minute detail but sometimes it takes a third party who holds no position, to come in and be the voice of reasoning. It's just been disheartening over the past few days to see so many negative comments and negative threads arise.

Don't worrie to much bella,this kind of thing runs in cycles around here.Keep your chin up,things will get better,they always do.

[Flesh4Fantasy]

There is still fun to be had here...
Your threads and comments are definitely a part of that...

The Hurricane of Discontent will blow itself out and the boards will come down from the windows to let the sunlight in again...

Thanx for being a little sunbeam all on your own...

[pervipete]

Originally Posted by Bella-In-Progress

....because everybody is being so cruel to each other.

Looks like I picked a very scary time to finally begin posting. As scary as it is I would never leave I just wish everybody (I mean everybody, no bias on my end) would try their hardest to get along regardless of the wrong doings that have passed.

Don't you guys all care about each other even in the slightest? Don't you all have some level of respect for each other?

I know I'm a newbie so may insult me for butting in and not knowing every minute detail but sometimes it takes a third party who holds no position, to come in and be the voice of reasoning. It's just been disheartening over the past few days to see so many negative comments and negative threads arise.

It'll be alright as long as get nice, kind new blood like you...so chin up matey

[Parisa]

aaaaww comear Bella ma darling

[BTN]

hey thats my line!.......never fucking works but thats neither here nor there

[sparks]

bella xxooo

hugs and kisses mate

its all good

[Cedar]

It's not everybody doing it. It's not even very many. It's just a few people who like to start fights and cause conflict (there are a few like that in every group). From what I can see, it is being dealt with. Some good people have left, but we can hope they will reconsider after the problems are dealt with.

[Lucy.]

I have a problem with this. You showed up in someones thread, who wrote an incest fantasy on the incest board, reported them for spam and accused them of wanting attention.

You joined maybe a week ago, the first thing you did was post photos, then tell everyone you are a man. Then tell everyone again. Then made a thread to tell everyone.

And now this thread.

Of course you are free to make threads but to accuse others of wanting attention? PLEASE. Everything you have done has been for attention.

I don't care if you are a woman, a man or a monster from the sea, but I don't believe that you are a newbie at all personally and am concerned about what you have planned for this board.

Perhaps I'm wrong, everyone is overly sensitive right now, and I am one of them but if you are a newbie you could benefit from observing and gradually settling in before getting heavily involved in the drama that is going on. The less people involved in the drama the better. This thread, like so many others is completely unneccessary and you could have posted in one of the others if you are really that concerned.

Sorry if this seems a little harsh but I've been told I'm too "warm and fuzzy" and thought this might go down better.

[Lucy.]

Newland, if your friends are free to take Niki's rep and ruin it by repeatingly bullying her because they do not like her, I am free to voice my opinion on this person.

I have not negative repped him/her/it for this thread because personally I find that immature, but I don't think making another drama thread is good for the board. I don't think an attention whore accusing others of attention whoring is good, and I don't think you getting on my back every time I post something you don't agree with is the best way for us to maintain some sort of friendship.

Yes I am stressed, of course I am. I was bullied by that stefani person, noone stuck up for me at all, then I took some time off, came back, am accused of being light and fluffy. Niki's being bullied, Pete and Sierra have been run off. Sparks is bringing my name into silly little drama threads.

The only way to survive here seems to be by being a bitch. So thats what I shall be. I keep being told I am in a war, so thats how I shall act. Congratulations.

My opinion is worth as much as yours, and no amount of reputation will ever change that. Unlike too many, I will not be bullied and I will not be broken.

And feel free to do your little gang negative rep thing on me. I have no interest in numbers on a computer screen.

[theDarkOne]

Lucy...you have no clue what is going on with Nikki.(the whole story)

I have noticed that many of the people complaining about the board drama are the ones stoking it.

Im sorry your so upset Lucy.

[stricken]

Glad you are back..

[Bella-In-Progress]

Originally Posted by Lucy.

I have a problem with this. You showed up in someones thread, who wrote an incest fantasy on the incest board, reported them for spam and accused them of wanting attention.

You joined maybe a week ago, the first thing you did was post photos, then tell everyone you are a man. Then tell everyone again. Then made a thread to tell everyone.

And now this thread.

Of course you are free to make threads but to accuse others of wanting attention? PLEASE. Everything you have done has been for attention.

I don't care if you are a woman, a man or a monster from the sea, but I don't believe that you are a newbie at all personally and am concerned about what you have planned for this board.

Perhaps I'm wrong, everyone is overly sensitive right now, and I am one of them but if you are a newbie you could benefit from observing and gradually settling in before getting heavily involved in the drama that is going on. The less people involved in the drama the better. This thread, like so many others is completely unneccessary and you could have posted in one of the others if you are really that concerned.

Sorry if this seems a little harsh but I've been told I'm too "warm and fuzzy" and thought this might go down better.

I can understand where you're coming from Lucy and given recent events, along with hostility, I can also understand why you are so jumpy about me. As I said before I never meant to insult the person, I made an accusation that was completely false, apologized to you and him for it, and will never do it again. It was a mistake, I'm sorry for that. I didn't mean to sound rude or like I was out to get him. Muskrat and I exchanged very kind PMs after that little incident and we're on good terms now.

I've said it a couple of times but the reason I insisted on making a thread about it was because of messages I received. It was very clear several people were confused and flustered so I wanted to make it clear. After that thread I haven't mentioned it again and I really don't plan on mentioning outside of whenever someone decides to bring it up.

"Concerned what you have planned for this board"......what? What could I possibly have planned for an internet forum? I like the people here, I like the feeling of the posts (beyond the negativity), I feel welcomed and want to make others feel welcomed. I just don't see what you have against me....I'm not making threatening threads, I'm not swearing or cursing people. I'm not being rude or trying to be obnoxious. I'm not begging for attention and one of the reasons I made the "Putting myself on a ledge" thread was so that in the future I wouldn't get attention simply for people mistaking me as a woman (something that already happened and was partly why I made the thread).

If you want me to lay low for a while, perhaps I will. Only on these issues of course. I'll stay out of the way if it's really bothering you this much. I really do hope that you eventually warm up to me and realize I'm not an enemy here. You seem like a wonderful person with such a good head on her shoulders and a big heart, when you're not worried about everybody stabbing you in the back.

And you don't have to apologize, you're defending what you think is right.

p.s - If any of the moderators see this could you please feel free to lock this thread? I didn't want to suck in anymore drama out of it and maybe it'd be best to just let it slowly fade away so I don't upset anymore members.

[Lucy.]

I'm not going to apologise for anything. You mistake me for someone who cares.

You don't need to explain yourself to me. I just don't like you. You are seeking attention. You have 3k rep in a week because some people seem to empathise with you (most thinking you are a woman) while other posters having been here a year have less. Most of your rep came from Newland trying to spite me and certain people who want to decide who is popular and who isn't.

You disrespected the posters thread in the incest forum. Now I could write paragraphs about how I don't like you but I can put you down easy in two lines.

You will always be a man. And your girlfriend must be a freak.

Cute and fluffy enough for you guys?

[RapeU]

Lucy, get the fuck over yourself. If Bella is an attention seeker then in time we will see more and more of it. So far it's too soon to say for sure.

If Bella is not, then you're going to continue making an ass of yourself by posting all this bullshit.

It's one thing to say "ok I don't like you," but it's quite another to insult a person's lifestyle ON A RAPE FANTASY SITE.

[Lucy.]

Rowdy Room. Do not enter if not offended.

Meaning I am allowed to say whatever I like yes? As you are?

I don't like him. I can say whatever I like about him. If you don't like this, negative rep me.

This is the way it seems to be working right now. If you don't like someone you can insult them to the ground. If you like someone you can inflate them with rep even if they do not deserve it. And this person went into the incest forum and insulted someones lifestyle and newland gave it +rep.

I tried to be reasonable and fair. I was called cute and fluffy and told I was in a war. I've been described as warm hearted. I can be a cold hearted bitch, I wouldn't be here if I couldn't.

So we are going to war and I'm aiming at the transexual freak right now. You have to start at a little village before you march on the capital right? There will be casualties and I won't be one of them.

[Bella-In-Progress]

Originally Posted by Lucy.

Rowdy Room. Do not enter if not offended.

Meaning I am allowed to say whatever I like yes? As you are?

I don't like him. I can say whatever I like about him. If you don't like this, negative rep me.

This is the way it seems to be working right now. If you don't like someone you can insult them to the ground. If you like someone you can inflate them with rep even if they do not deserve it. And this person went into the incest forum and insulted someones lifestyle and newland gave it +rep.

I tried to be reasonable and fair. I was called cute and fluffy and told I was in a war.

So we are going to war and I'm aiming at the transexual freak right now. You have to start at a little village before you march on the capital right?

Lucy....*sighs*

You can say whatever you wish about me, I really do not mind. I'm used to being abused in life inside and outside the internet because of my way of living. It's nothing new but please, I really am begging you to not insult my fiancee'. You know nothing about her and she is a wonderful person with a great personality. Just please, if you feel as though you need to express your disgust for me then do it towards me and simply about me, not about the rest of my world, thank you.

And as a side note...reputation isn't a big deal to me and certainly not a goal of mine. It's something fun, kind of like getting experience points in a video game but it wasn't my reason for my posts and not my reason for being here. You can negative rep me if you'd like and bring me down to where you think I should be. Others can too. I probably haven't deserved half of the rep I have received and I would like to earn it. This isn't a popularity contest in my eyes. As I said, I'm unbiased and still have respect for you.

[RapeU]

Originally Posted by Lucy.

Rowdy Room. Do not enter if not offended.

Do not enter if you don't want to be insulted, not offended

Meaning I am allowed to say whatever I like yes? As you are?

Yes.

I don't like him. I can say whatever I like about him. If you don't like this, negative rep me.

Pfffft, negative rep you? lol, yes a 50 point reduction in your rep will be REAL noticeable.

This is the way it seems to be working right now. If you don't like someone you can insult them to the ground. If you like someone you can inflate them with rep even if they do not deserve it.

Sadly so. I thought it was funny when one person doubled my rep points. Then I saw how many people had over 10k rep and hadn't even been here for a while and I was no longer amused.

And this person went into the incest forum and insulted someones lifestyle and newland gave it +rep.

Ummm...no. He thought the person was a spammer. The end!

I tried to be reasonable and fair. I was called cute and fluffy and told I was in a war.

And you listened to them. *shakes head*

So I'm aiming at the transexual freak right now. You have to start at a little village before you march on the capital right?

You're aiming at someone who so far is a legit member here for the same reason all of us are here. Not once have you given Bella a chance. Not once.

But hey, go on continue fighting your "war." Eventually you'll realize that the blinders over your eyes are causing you to kill some of your own troops and allies.

USS Liberty anyone?