Why was Sindyloo banned?

[AWDracer]

Okay, another thread like these again.

I was away from RB for an extended period of time and I thought Sindy was a respected member of the boards? Wtf is going on?

RB is under the phase of the Stalinist-esque purge.

[SecretObsession]

Naw... Sindi was just trying to make a point I think... She'll be BACK!?!!?!

[touriquet2001]

it's called enforcing the rules

[SecretObsession]

Someone's gotta do it!?!?

[RapeU]

She insulted someone, was warned about it, then insulted the person again.

I suggest you look in the ravishment university thread for all the details.

Sindy was banned?

The things you miss when you're off doing things productive.

I am of course heartbroken and devastated that Sindy was banned and I just don't know how this forum will get along without her.

[somedude]

Originally Posted by AWDracer

Okay, another thread like these again.

I was away from RB for an extended period of time and I thought Sindy was a respected member of the boards? Wtf is going on?

RB is under the phase of the Stalinist-esque purge.

It's a simple idea...if you obey the rules RB is your playground, if you break the rules there are consequences!

[Luke rape stalker]

here you see why i´m left RB.

RB was for a long long time my "home" but its a sad fact that the mods are faster with the "ban" button then with their brain.
If they would stand behind their good favored members (Sindy has more then 1600 + reputation, she construct some parts of the board, has close to 1700 posts) they would ask why she´s so upset. But no- they simply push the ban button.

This should be no attack to someone special, but feel free to give me the first warning...

[Sternenlied]

Maybe you should have checked out the thread in question and gave some thought to what you read there before you posted this.

I think it is clear to everyone who actually read it sindyloo went for a ban deliberately. In my opinion to make her point. Maybe you should ask her point of view on this before you make it up for yourselves.

What is it you want in the end? If there's a member you LIKE it's "nah, bend the rules, no trouble at all!", if it's a member you DON'T like it's "go ahead, banbanban, no matter if he/she followed the rules" ...
My personal opinion on this? Many members are so hypocritical it's starting to get annoying.
What are you suggesting? We should just forget any rules and moderate the board by post count and reputation? Apply our personal favour?

I am actually aware why she is upset, she actually made it very clear in the thread in question. Once more I can only advice to read what you are complaining about before you do.
She doesn't like what another member posts ... now what is your advice, Luke?
Who is right here? How shall I decide?
- post count
- reputation
- duration of membership
- personal favour

I have to admit it would be fun if I could make any decision to my personal liking but in the end maybe using a set of rules is the fairest way, wouldn't you agree? And if so those rules have to apply to everyone.

[my dark side]

Originally Posted by RapeU

She insulted someone, was warned about it, then insulted the person again.

I suggest you look in the ravishment university thread for all the details.

That is correct, though she had a warning already from a while back. She just got lucky and got two posts in before process was complete

[weirdo]

sorry, again me, but without any sarcasm.

first of all, it's good that the board has rules (no childporn, posting of pics without consent, etc ...). but these were never questioned, weren't they?

So what all this crap is about is the insulting rule. you can't call anyone an "asshole" without being warned. in rl the otherone replys "fuck yourself".AND THAT'S IT (ok, usually!). If it's getting too "violent" THEN you need someone to interfere.

Ever thought about what had happened if the thread, let's say, had been read by no mod by mistake and there had been no first warning ? there would have been some arguments, maybe some insults between two people or maybe two or three more. but now almost all members are pissed (to clarify, the mods followed the rules, so my point is more a general one!).

We all are adults (at least should be) and should be able to defend ourselves. In my opinion banning and warnings should prevent the board to be flooded by dumbasses that are only here to make trouble.

Originally Posted by Sternenlied

Who is right here? How shall I decide?
- post count
- reputation
- duration of membership
- personal favour

I have to admit it would be fun if I could make any decision to my personal liking but in the end maybe using a set of rules is the fairest way, wouldn't you agree? And if so those rules have to apply to everyone.

Therefore this wouldn't be the worst idea after modifying the rule accordingly ("insulting may result in warnings or bannings"), stern (but i'd add "personal wise judgement" as a further criterion).
Of course with such a way of decision making some members would as well question the mods, but imo it was the better way.
Due to this strict rules (i speak of the insulting rule) the board has already lost a lot of formely well contributing members and maybe prevented new ones from becoming such.

if anyone does not agree, please feel free to give me neg rep. Maybe it's better to stay a quiet lurker ...

[ego]

Weirdo, there is a thread in RB in which you can suggest your ideas. Actually, you are not the first one who suggests more explict speech to be allowed and tbh, i would agree.

But i think anyone can understand that topics like "why was Xone banned" or "you like V or S?" do not help the situation.
You know, take a look at members' posts. When i see 7 out of 9 threads dealing with the "whymodsdidthat" questions, sorry, but i start wondering about the reasons he is here.

[Wicked]

Originally Posted by Sternenlied

Maybe you should have checked out the thread in question and gave some thought to what you read there before you posted this.

I think it is clear to everyone who actually read it sindyloo went for a ban deliberately. In my opinion to make her point. Maybe you should ask her point of view on this before you make it up for yourselves.

Exactly. The rules are the same for everyone, we don't pick and choose. If you follow the rules, you don't get warned/banned, it's as simple as that.

To all the people complaining about Sindyloo's treatment:
Instead of saying we should go easy on her, shouldn't we take an even harder line with her? She's been here long enough to know the rules and she should be setting an example for all members, new and old alike, by following the rules, not deliberately disobeying them.

For the record, that was a question, not what we are doing or what I think we should do. I like Sindyloo, but rules is rules, and she got what she wanted. She'll be back in a week (as it was her second warning) and hopefully this time she won't break the rules again. It would be sad to see her go permanently.


Re: "Why was ...... banned" threads. If they are actually being asked by someone, a friend for example, who DOESN'T know what actually happened, the person wanting to know could easily find out by reading the person's last posts/threads or by PMing a mod.

All these current "why was..." threads are a waste of time, they only really stir up the community and cause us all to dwell on what happened. I suppose AWDracer is happy stirring up the controversy he loves so much, but that's about all they're good for, no real good ever comes from them.

It really is pointless debating the mod's actions when all we ever do is enforce the rules as they are set out for us, justly and fairly to all members. If you don't like, or can't follow, the rules of RB, you can always go elsewhere. There's plenty of other boards out there and no one is holding a gun to your head...

Originally Posted by weirdo

sorry, again me, but without any sarcasm.


So what all this crap is about is the insulting rule. you can't call anyone an "asshole" without being warned. in rl the otherone replys "fuck yourself".AND THAT'S IT (ok, usually!). If it's getting too "violent" THEN you need someone to interfere.

I don't think its the use of word's that is the issue, its the blantant way they are used in some threads generally when members argue about something and turn to insult's rather than "facts or thoughts", i have in the past called people stuff but in jest or humor which has been viewed as such and allowed.

I think the current level of moderation is suitable, at the end of the day the board is here for us to talk about rape fantasy amongst the other genres, nothing more.

[Wiz]

I don't usually contribute to threads like this one; however, with your kind indulgence, I will make a couple of observations that may or may not be relevant to this discussion. You decide.

A cop can pullover two drivers for the same traffic violation. One will drive away with a summons while the other will not. Similarly, two individuals convicted of the same crime in the same court before the same judge can be given very different sentences for committing that crime, and it will have nothing at all to do with the individuals being unequal before the law or with a significant difference in the quality of their legal representation.

Enforcing the rules with absolutely no deviation from them in every instance is the safe way, because it requires the overlay of virtually no personal judgment or discretion. For those seeking a set of rules for exercising personal judgment in the enforcement of rules and regs, there isn't any. That's what makes it personal and, in some instances, quite contentious.

[Emily Johnson]

free Sindy!

[somedude]

...lend me your ears! (Or in the case of you girls your pussies, mouths and asses...) Four score and seven rapes ago our forefathers...um...well some crazy rapists like us anyhow...set up this board for the idea of fantasy fun built around rape and sex!
RB has grown a lot in the time I've been hear and I've gone from someone who was involved in tons of fights to head moderator. A good thread fight can be a lot of fun and that's what the Rowdy Room is for! But let's not get carried away with them and let arguments and bitterness ruin the spririt of good dirty fun here on RB!
Keep the insults to the Rowdy Room! Don't purposely make the moderators' jobs harder and for the love of all that is perverted rape someone or get raped by someone on here soon

[Vivienne]

As i was too busy to login the last 2 Days, i saw the saddening Events just now - and it is saddening, even if im far away from putting all the Blame on me that certain Circles here wish to dump on me! I made two Posts in a Thread i fought quiet a While for, a Thread that was especially dedicated to promote friendly Sites with free Link-Exchange to Rape Board... So not even a Thought on a "hidden" Promotion by Anybody! I made two friendly Posts - One refering to a special Christmas-Board which will be gone after Xmas, the second to a unique Experience for any Site: Reaching the 4Digit-Range... I donno if anyone is left on RB who lived what a Feeling it was for People Here! Both of those Events were undelayable by Nature.
Also i can add that after my second Post - i hope, its okay to briefly mention it here - i was in PM-Exchange with Somedude, who polishly asked me to leave it there for a While, on Which i certainly agreed. So... my "1000th"-Post would have been my Last in the Thread anyway, one more of the immanent Tragics - but SD... if i recall our Talk correct, U also ensured me that what i posted that far wasnt excessive or "over-advertising" and can stand w/o Editing?!
It was after This that Sindyloo made her first - to the Best of my Judgement totally unprovoked - Comment, and i well remarked the "Insult outside Rowdy Room" - but instead of making an official Complain, i tried to linger the Waves by making some Remarks made in the Intention of Consiliation - Her Reaction was the Last i expected Then! For the Record: Sindyloos 1st Warning was not based on any official Complain from me, but done by a Mod reading her Posts and doing what the Rules order to!
There are two more Tragics in these Developments, that concern me very personal and which i'ld like to name in Brief: Sindyloo was one of the Persons, who invited me to visit RU originally - stating what an amazing Place it was and how much Fun we'ld have together There. Also she once was my best friend on this Board... Almost entirely since i ever entered it.
Many of U will remember a special Phase, in which she was decided to leave RB "forever" - due to certain Rumors revealing about Her. They might also recall my Role in letting her stay at Last. I always said and meant to Sindyloo, that she owes my Nothing, and i just awaked the Courage she had in herself - She insisted though, that she'll be deeply thankful and devoted to me "for the Rest of her Life"... Well, Time runs faster in IT, a Lesson i learned early on! The Fact that She, known literally everywhere She is as an almost frontierless harmonizing, forgiving Person, choosed from all People in the Net me now as her Enemy, is a Tragic of its very own Proportions! But again: I've learned i have to live with ITs own Laws Time ago, and by now im willing to take all This and make my own Consequences for myself.
Closing this Issue for me i wonna express Agreement with sth said during the latest Events, i paraphrase - "Members are not as stupid as some want to believe Them" - All too True!! Numerous of RBs Members made it clear one Way or the Other, that they rumble through a bad "Blaming-Game" and can very well seperate between, lets say for Instance, honest Indignation and an orchestrated Bashing-Attempt... A german Adage says "When U Point a Finger at s.o. - Nine Fingers point back at You!" Germans here will surely know it - although im all but sure all of Them understand it...
I leave this There and just repeat, im personally out of any Crap or any Wish to restart it - As im aware i bear Responsibility regarding my Image in the Scene, i give my Word to care about this Board in my Posts, not promising i wont be critical regarding possible coming Aberrations if i feel i must - But u'll be the Judges whether it will be constructive Criticism! When RB's Situation gives me any Chance to be just funny and entertaining though - U have my Promise i wont miss it!!

[Ntense]

Since she was sent to her room, I'll step in here for our missing perv:

[my dark side]

Originally Posted by Vivienne

I made two Posts in a Thread i fought quiet a While for

Again (Though said by a different person first time) RU was always allowed to be promoted on here. YOU DID NOT FIGHT FOR ANY THREADS TO BE ON HERE, you just chose to ignore the facts that it was allowed to begin with.