Cum is a bodily fluid, why do people like it? - Rape Board

ChiTownHoney · 03-06-2008, 01:42 AM

What is the appeal of semen and having it in porn??

I think it is the most disgusting bodily fluid. I dont want any of it near me.

What is so sexy about seeing a guy cum all over a girls face and in her mouth and on her tits?? Please someone who finds it a turn on explain this.

FinalKey · 03-06-2008, 01:57 AM

You don't want any of it near you? lol Come on CTH! It's there! Ya gotta have it.

MeltyMan · 03-06-2008, 08:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ChiTownHoney

What is the appeal of semen and having it in porn??

I think it is the most disgusting bodily fluid. I dont want any of it near me.

What is so sexy about seeing a guy cum all over a girls face and in her mouth and on her tits?? Please someone who finds it a turn on explain this.

i could think of far worse bodily fluids and i would have so much fun making u a cum eating slut lol

FinalKey · 03-06-2008, 09:28 AM

To answer your question, I don't find it attractive, if anything I wouldn't do anything a woman isn't comfortable with.

I've had a two women who wanted me to pull out and cum on their stomach, I got nothing out of it(I did enjoy the look on their face as I performed the act but other than that...nada).

ChiTownHoney · 03-06-2008, 12:52 PM

FinalKey, I know its the building block of life, but I hate seeing it, I hate feeling it. Yuck. When I was with my boyfriend, I repeatedly told him not to do it on me, but when it comes, it comes I guess, and it would get on me, and I would scream and run to wash it off, then I would feel dirty for the rest of the day. Ewww..nothing feels nastier. He always laughed about it. And would hold me down and threaten to do it on my face, which he never, he was only joking but it terrified me.

FinalKey · 03-06-2008, 02:20 PM

Would you feel better if he came inside you(if you're on birth control), and do you make him pull out even if he's wearing a condom?

I'm asking because I think it'd be difficult not to get any cum on you lol, if I were fucking you anyway, I'd have to pull out and face the wall or something when I let loose...

When did you start to hate cum, or did you always hate it? I really find this interesting I don't know why lol, I guess because I had two chicks who enjoyed me pulling out, taking the condom off and cum on their stomachs or pussy.

ChiTownHoney · 03-06-2008, 07:44 PM

I've always hated it. When I first saw it with my boyfriend at the time, I wouldnt have sex with him, but we fooled around or whatever, and he was laying down and and I saw it come out and dripple down his side, and he had to clean it up, it just looked like a mess. In the days where I only let them "dry hump" if you can call it that, it would get on my legs and sh*t, and I was too polite to run to the bathroom to shower, and I felt soooooooo dirty. I only had sex with one person my whole life, and he NEVER came inside of me we always used condoms, and I've never used birth control. Believe it or not, when I was with my boyfriend, I hated sex. I guess maybe when I meet a new guy that I really like I may feel different. Men have been a disappointment to me so far, and I always want guys I cant have, ones that are married. Anyhow, I'll end this before I go off on a tangent about THAT subject, lol.

So, the girls you were with really got off on that? I use to watch porn with my bf and ALL scenes had cum in it....very displeasing

Jennevieve · 03-06-2008, 09:42 PM

ChiTown -- that's kind of.. weird, if you ask me. I guess everyone has their quirks, but you really feel like... oddly strongly about cum.

For me, I like the idea that my dude is marking his territory. It can be degrading as hell, too.

But like, also, you hated sex!? Babe, why are you here? Like, I'm sincerely confused. Have you just disliked the men you've been with? (I guess a lot of girls also can't get off vaginally...)

ChiTownHoney · 03-07-2008, 12:04 AM

Jennevieve, I know, I'm confused too. I know its a problem, but I hated sex with my ex, and he was horny all the time, I think I got off like 5 times the entire 3 years we were together. I was never horny. I chalked it up to the fact that we dont belong together, I wasnt crazy about him, so its a good thing we broke up. He is STILL sniffing around, but I made it clear I dont want to get back together. Actually, I only broke up with him about 2 1/2 months ago, so its pretty recent.

I dont know why I have an aversion to cum...its weird. I think I have issues sexually, to be honest. I mean, I waited to have sex untill I was like 22, then it wasnt all I thought it would be at all. It was a chore I had to do, and I would dread having to see my boyfriend because I know I would have to. Plus, whenever we did it, I felt dirty. What issues! I think its because he wasnt the one for me. I mean, I love him still, he is a great guy, but the sexual attraction that I felt for him when we first met faded so quickly and I think I waited to long to have sex with him. I think once I meet a guy I will really fall in love with it, will be different......at least that is what I'm hoping.

Whats so funny is that I'm horny alot and look at men and wonder what they are like in bed.

But you dont you find cum to be a little gross? Its sticky and gross looking and slimy..I think I would rather be peed on.

Jennevieve · 03-07-2008, 01:14 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ChiTownHoney

Jennevieve, I know, I'm confused too. I know its a problem, but I hated sex with my ex, and he was horny all the time, I think I got off like 5 times the entire 3 years we were together. I was never horny. I chalked it up to the fact that we dont belong together, I wasnt crazy about him, so its a good thing we broke up. He is STILL sniffing around, but I made it clear I dont want to get back together. Actually, I only broke up with him about 2 1/2 months ago, so its pretty recent.

I dont know why I have an aversion to cum...its weird. I think I have issues sexually, to be honest. I mean, I waited to have sex untill I was like 22, then it wasnt all I thought it would be at all. It was a chore I had to do, and I would dread having to see my boyfriend because I know I would have to. Plus, whenever we did it, I felt dirty. What issues! I think its because he wasnt the one for me. I mean, I love him still, he is a great guy, but the sexual attraction that I felt for him when we first met faded so quickly and I think I waited to long to have sex with him. I think once I meet a guy I will really fall in love with it, will be different......at least that is what I'm hoping.

Whats so funny is that I'm horny alot and look at men and wonder what they are like in bed.

But you dont you find cum to be a little gross? Its sticky and gross looking and slimy..I think I would rather be peed on.

Ughghghgh peed on gross, I would never, ever let someone do that to me. Cum belongs in or on a woman -- piss belongs on or in the toilet. :\

Cum really isn't that bad. How much of it have you really spent time around? (What a weird question!) I think when you find That Guy, let him cum in your hand or somewhere easy to wash off, but try to desensitize yourself to it a little bit. It's not really that bad. (Also: guys' cum varies slightly in taste/texture, etc, so maybe your boyfriend's cum was just really gross or something??)

But yeah. I actually lost my virginity to a boyfriend I had while trying to get over my Master (with whom I've been in a solid, loving relationship for several years now), and every time I had sex with that boyfriend, I couldn't stand to look at his face. I didn't experience feeling dirty (that I remember), but I suppose that I did feel disgusted with myself.

When I finally had sex with my Master, it was an entirely different story. It was perfect and amazing. So I would agree that if you really love someone, it'll be much better for you. You might actually be a lot less grossed out by cum if you love the guy; I don't really like sucking dick, but I love sucking my Master's. It's just different with people you care about.

I can also see how it might be difficult to fully enjoy sexual intercourse if you (a) don't feel emotionally attached to the person or (b) can't have a vaginal orgasm (most women can't). But it should still be a pleasant experience.

If you find the right person and still find that you have these issues, maybe you should see a sex therapist? It could really be helpful for you. (And yeah; vanilla sex, it really isn't all it's cracked up to be. At all. Which is why I love BDSM.)

AtomicGarbage · 03-07-2008, 03:44 AM

Of course cum is gross. That's why it feels so good to have it on (or in) you.

FinalKey · 03-07-2008, 09:23 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ChiTownHoney

So, the girls you were with really got off on that? I use to watch porn with my bf and ALL scenes had cum in it....very displeasing

I suppose they did, didn't get any orgasms out of them just by cumming on them though lol, I had to work hard for that

. Anyway this topic is really making me think and guess if there are anymore women who hate cum...I often hear women saying they'd never let a guy cum on their face or in their mouth because of it's texture and 'slimey' feeling and I can understand that.

But to hate it altogether? Mind boggling lol. Especially to say you'd rather have the 'R.Kelly' treatment rather than a guy skeet on you...that's just like wow lol. But I guess that's just a comparssion you made to let us know how badly you hate cum.

Maybe it is mental or whatever...where the hell is a pyschologist when you need one? *goes to Gotham City to turn on the Stern-signal*

Jennevieve · 03-07-2008, 03:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FinalKey

Especially to say you'd rather have the 'R.Kelly' treatment rather than a guy skeet on you...

Or, to further the rap analogy, she prefers R. Kelly to Lil' John.

ChiTownHoney · 03-07-2008, 07:28 PM

I do need a psychologist, but I will go to a professional, thanks. When I have the money to afford that kind of shit. Did you know only rich people can afford this kind of therapy?? lol.

yeah, I need a man bad. Its not hard for me to find one, Gay Guy keeps calling me, this guy is stalking my myspace, and my Ex is sniffing around. I'm so PICKY!!!

ChiTownHoney · 03-07-2008, 07:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FinalKey

But to hate it altogether? Mind boggling lol. Especially to say you'd rather have the 'R.Kelly' treatment rather than a guy skeet on you...that's just like wow lol.

Whats so "wow" about it. I'm suppose to love cum, or something? Is that whats for dinner? I dont understand why its so weird.

FinalKey · 03-08-2008, 02:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ChiTownHoney

Whats so "wow" about it. I'm suppose to love cum, or something? Is that whats for dinner? I dont understand why its so weird.

suppose I should've worded that better. What's so "wow" about it...I guess I can't wrap my mind around your statement regarding 'i'd rather be pee'd on than have cum touch me' or something like that.

I'm suppose to love cum, or something? Hell no! It's not weird to hate it, I think there are other women out there(and maybe even guys lol) who hate cum, the feeling of it or whatever. *shrugs* I think you must really hate cum if you'd rather get pissed on than have it touch you.

It comes with sex, no getting around it unless you do what I said before, have the guy strap up if he's hittin it or I'll just leave it like that though.

Sternenlied · 03-08-2008, 04:40 AM

Quote:

I do need a psychologist, but I will go to a professional, thanks.

Well, if you think you need professional help I wouldn't want to talk you out of it of course. I also have to admit you're the first women I ever met who is that disgusted by ejaculate.
I don't think it's that unusual for a women not to want the stuff in her mouth or on her body however. Many of my friends, as well as women I know, aren't really too fond of the idea. So in general I don't think your feelings towards it are so much irregular.
Let's face it - the stuff definitely is ghastly!

I myself do not mind it that much but I'm not always in a mood for a mess either!

judith · 03-09-2008, 12:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ChiTownHoney

What is the appeal of semen and having it in porn??
*****
What is so sexy about seeing a guy cum all over a girls face and in her mouth and on her tits?? Please someone who finds it a turn on explain this.

I've often thought it has something to do with the way male animals use bodily fluids to "mark" their territory. Is marking a female so different?

j

SirSinister · 03-09-2008, 03:05 PM

Judith... if I want to mark a female... I bite her...

Chi... you're an enigma and thats about as close as I come to a compliment... you hate it when a man cums on you... near you... in you... acts which would make most women feel used... which for this board most women would enjoy...
You hate sex... see it as a chore... you felt dirtty doing it and not in a 'good' way when you did...

So explain to us... one why you're here...
two... how you're expecting your next partner to be different...
three... you said you are horny alot... well to me that seems contradictory... but I'd love to know what does turn you on... I mean it has to be a small list... you have eliminated most things this board and others are about...

Niceideas · 03-09-2008, 03:16 PM

i've heard of people that make cum icecubes and put them in their drinks....seriously

03-06-2008, 01:42 AM	#1
ChiTownHoney Pa'l Mundo Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: ObamaNation Posts: 2,460 Reputation: 33436	Cum is a bodily fluid, why do people like it? What is the appeal of semen and having it in porn?? I think it is the most disgusting bodily fluid. I dont want any of it near me. What is so sexy about seeing a guy cum all over a girls face and in her mouth and on her tits?? Please someone who finds it a turn on explain this.

03-06-2008, 09:42 PM	#8
Jennevieve Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 97 Reputation: 118	ChiTown -- that's kind of.. weird, if you ask me. I guess everyone has their quirks, but you really feel like... oddly strongly about cum. For me, I like the idea that my dude is marking his territory. It can be degrading as hell, too. But like, also, you hated sex!? Babe, why are you here? Like, I'm sincerely confused. Have you just disliked the men you've been with? (I guess a lot of girls also can't get off vaginally...) Last edited by Jennevieve; 03-06-2008 at 09:55 PM.

03-07-2008, 12:04 AM	#9
ChiTownHoney Pa'l Mundo Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: ObamaNation Posts: 2,460 Reputation: 33436	Jennevieve, I know, I'm confused too. I know its a problem, but I hated sex with my ex, and he was horny all the time, I think I got off like 5 times the entire 3 years we were together. I was never horny. I chalked it up to the fact that we dont belong together, I wasnt crazy about him, so its a good thing we broke up. He is STILL sniffing around, but I made it clear I dont want to get back together. Actually, I only broke up with him about 2 1/2 months ago, so its pretty recent. I dont know why I have an aversion to cum...its weird. I think I have issues sexually, to be honest. I mean, I waited to have sex untill I was like 22, then it wasnt all I thought it would be at all. It was a chore I had to do, and I would dread having to see my boyfriend because I know I would have to. Plus, whenever we did it, I felt dirty. What issues! I think its because he wasnt the one for me. I mean, I love him still, he is a great guy, but the sexual attraction that I felt for him when we first met faded so quickly and I think I waited to long to have sex with him. I think once I meet a guy I will really fall in love with it, will be different......at least that is what I'm hoping. Whats so funny is that I'm horny alot and look at men and wonder what they are like in bed. But you dont you find cum to be a little gross? Its sticky and gross looking and slimy..I think I would rather be peed on. Last edited by ChiTownHoney; 03-07-2008 at 12:10 AM.

03-07-2008, 03:44 AM	#11
AtomicGarbage Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: San Francisco, California Posts: 59 Reputation: 475	Of course cum is gross. That's why it feels so good to have it on (or in) you. __________________ I haven't been fucked like that since gradeschool.

03-06-2008, 01:57 AM	#2
FinalKey Key Master Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 677 Reputation: 4792	You don't want any of it near you? lol Come on CTH! It's there! Ya gotta have it.

03-06-2008, 09:28 AM	#4
FinalKey Key Master Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 677 Reputation: 4792	To answer your question, I don't find it attractive, if anything I wouldn't do anything a woman isn't comfortable with. I've had a two women who wanted me to pull out and cum on their stomach, I got nothing out of it(I did enjoy the look on their face as I performed the act but other than that...nada).

03-06-2008, 12:52 PM	#5
ChiTownHoney Pa'l Mundo Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: ObamaNation Posts: 2,460 Reputation: 33436	FinalKey, I know its the building block of life, but I hate seeing it, I hate feeling it. Yuck. When I was with my boyfriend, I repeatedly told him not to do it on me, but when it comes, it comes I guess, and it would get on me, and I would scream and run to wash it off, then I would feel dirty for the rest of the day. Ewww..nothing feels nastier. He always laughed about it. And would hold me down and threaten to do it on my face, which he never, he was only joking but it terrified me.

03-06-2008, 02:20 PM	#6
FinalKey Key Master Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 677 Reputation: 4792	Would you feel better if he came inside you(if you're on birth control), and do you make him pull out even if he's wearing a condom? I'm asking because I think it'd be difficult not to get any cum on you lol, if I were fucking you anyway, I'd have to pull out and face the wall or something when I let loose... When did you start to hate cum, or did you always hate it? I really find this interesting I don't know why lol, I guess because I had two chicks who enjoyed me pulling out, taking the condom off and cum on their stomachs or pussy.

03-06-2008, 07:44 PM	#7
ChiTownHoney Pa'l Mundo Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: ObamaNation Posts: 2,460 Reputation: 33436	I've always hated it. When I first saw it with my boyfriend at the time, I wouldnt have sex with him, but we fooled around or whatever, and he was laying down and and I saw it come out and dripple down his side, and he had to clean it up, it just looked like a mess. In the days where I only let them "dry hump" if you can call it that, it would get on my legs and sh*t, and I was too polite to run to the bathroom to shower, and I felt soooooooo dirty. I only had sex with one person my whole life, and he NEVER came inside of me we always used condoms, and I've never used birth control. Believe it or not, when I was with my boyfriend, I hated sex. I guess maybe when I meet a new guy that I really like I may feel different. Men have been a disappointment to me so far, and I always want guys I cant have, ones that are married. Anyhow, I'll end this before I go off on a tangent about THAT subject, lol. So, the girls you were with really got off on that? I use to watch porn with my bf and ALL scenes had cum in it....very displeasing

03-07-2008, 07:28 PM	#14
ChiTownHoney Pa'l Mundo Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: ObamaNation Posts: 2,460 Reputation: 33436	I do need a psychologist, but I will go to a professional, thanks. When I have the money to afford that kind of shit. Did you know only rich people can afford this kind of therapy?? lol. yeah, I need a man bad. Its not hard for me to find one, Gay Guy keeps calling me, this guy is stalking my myspace, and my Ex is sniffing around. I'm so PICKY!!!

03-09-2008, 03:05 PM	#19
SirSinister Banned Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Australia Posts: 184 Reputation: 112	Judith... if I want to mark a female... I bite her... Chi... you're an enigma and thats about as close as I come to a compliment... you hate it when a man cums on you... near you... in you... acts which would make most women feel used... which for this board most women would enjoy... You hate sex... see it as a chore... you felt dirtty doing it and not in a 'good' way when you did... So explain to us... one why you're here... two... how you're expecting your next partner to be different... three... you said you are horny alot... well to me that seems contradictory... but I'd love to know what does turn you on... I mean it has to be a small list... you have eliminated most things this board and others are about...

03-09-2008, 03:16 PM	#20
Niceideas Banned Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: u.k Posts: 637 Reputation: 893	i've heard of people that make cum icecubes and put them in their drinks....seriously