married or not? - Rape Board

us11csalyer · 06-24-2008, 04:19 PM

How many of you are married?
For those married do you share this fantasy with your wife?
For those of you that do share it do you both RP it together?

For us is yes, yes, and yes.

Grinningecko · 06-24-2008, 07:41 PM

Married
no
no

gaggirl · 06-24-2008, 09:44 PM

we are married and I made sure when we were dating he was into or at least open to the idea. Couldn't live a life without sharing the most important central fantasy with my significant other! we also roleplay it with others.

NastyJack · 06-24-2008, 09:55 PM

Married

When my wife and I were younger we enjoyed role-playing a lot ... she kept a supply of old clothes, that I would rip off of her ... much fun for both of us. (Nothing sexier than her moaning "nooooo" while cumming!)

Lately her sex drive has declined quite a bit.

Nemo01 · 06-24-2008, 11:50 PM

marrired, thankd God no, I'm very happy to be single

Ragman · 06-25-2008, 02:58 AM

Married, Just recently in fact, and yes we both have similar fantasies and we have played them out a few times over the course ofour relationship.

judith · 07-01-2008, 09:29 AM

Divorced. Never talked about this with my husband. He would NOT have understood.

kinki6419 · 07-02-2008, 03:42 PM

i am owned, not married, and this is one of the most frequent roelplays my Maters and i enjoy

07-13-2008, 11:25 AM

Have married friends who I've discussed it with. None of them to my knowledge have admitted to roleplaying.
Hey Judith where in the west coast?

Jasmine · 07-13-2008, 07:36 PM

Married
No, he doesn't share my fantasies although he knows about them

MyNatalie · 07-14-2008, 02:55 AM

Married and very happy, although she has no ideas about these fantasies. She would not understand it and it would degrade our relationship.

If she only knew that in my mind she is the most active rapeslut on the planet...

Niceideas · 07-14-2008, 06:29 AM

Not Married
I share my fantasies with my left hand, not my right, so it feels different

WyckedKunt · 07-14-2008, 12:04 PM

Married. I tried a few times in the past to share some of my fantasies, and to encourage my husband to play "rough". But he was always a little uncomfortable with it, so I eventually gave up.

SecretObsession · 07-14-2008, 02:34 PM

Married

and hubby knows all about my fantasies

And yes he does indulge me in whatever it is that I want to try... excluding other people

Becka · 07-14-2008, 03:33 PM

yes i am
yes he know
sometimes we RP

B.

ChiTownHoney · 07-14-2008, 06:11 PM

No
Yes I have
No

CrashGirl · 07-14-2008, 06:16 PM

1. Quite happily married.
2. He's my husband, not my wife, and I do share my fantasies with him. He's not as "into" rape fantasy as I am, but he plays along for me.
3. And yes, we do occasionally role play. Not often, though.

Echo · 07-28-2008, 10:25 AM

Happily Married.

Unfortunately, she does not share my fantasies or even know about them. When I hint at the issue her reaction is always extremely negative. So have to settle for just fantasies.

Uncle Al · 08-28-2008, 02:28 PM

Semi Divorced, back on time, the answers were NO.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Echo

Unfortunately, she does not share my fantasies or even know about them. When I hint at the issue her reaction is always extremely negative. So have to settle for just fantasies.

How about testing her with a little of old surprise sex? If she can't tolerate well, forget the issue forever.

MinaPi · 07-30-2008, 01:51 AM

Not married!

The bf was more or less willing to indulge with fantasies, but he wasn't very adventurous.

06-24-2008, 04:19 PM	#1
us11csalyer Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 107 Reputation: 117	married or not? How many of you are married? For those married do you share this fantasy with your wife? For those of you that do share it do you both RP it together? For us is yes, yes, and yes.

06-25-2008, 02:58 AM	#6
Ragman Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: an alley near you Posts: 2,226 Reputation: 5535	Married, Just recently in fact, and yes we both have similar fantasies and we have played them out a few times over the course ofour relationship. __________________ "Aww He's just a silly, dirty little man. What's to be afraid of ?" 2

07-02-2008, 03:42 PM	#8
kinki6419 Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: UK Posts: 66 Reputation: 391	i am owned, not married, and this is one of the most frequent roelplays my Maters and i enjoy __________________ Does it make you harder the more i cry?

07-13-2008, 11:25 AM	#9
wilddean Guest Posts: n/a	Single Have married friends who I've discussed it with. None of them to my knowledge have admitted to roleplaying. Hey Judith where in the west coast?

07-14-2008, 03:33 PM	#15
Becka Immodest Mod Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Virginia Posts: 1,407 Reputation: 36018	yes i am yes he know sometimes we RP B. __________________ Vital Board Info Hey, where am I going? And why am I in this hand basket? Darling, a true lady takes off her dignity with her clothes and does her whorish best. At other times you can be as modest and dignified as your persona requires.

06-24-2008, 07:41 PM	#2
Grinningecko Junior Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 20 Reputation: 36	Married no no

06-24-2008, 09:44 PM	#3
gaggirl * yawn * Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 3,058 Reputation: 40178	we are married and I made sure when we were dating he was into or at least open to the idea. Couldn't live a life without sharing the most important central fantasy with my significant other! we also roleplay it with others.

06-24-2008, 09:55 PM	#4
NastyJack Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Kokomo, IN Posts: 113 Reputation: 1779	Married When my wife and I were younger we enjoyed role-playing a lot ... she kept a supply of old clothes, that I would rip off of her ... much fun for both of us. (Nothing sexier than her moaning "nooooo" while cumming!) Lately her sex drive has declined quite a bit.

06-24-2008, 11:50 PM	#5
Nemo01 Privileged Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Paris France Posts: 257 Reputation: 1843	marrired, thankd God no, I'm very happy to be single

07-01-2008, 09:29 AM	#7
judith Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: west coast, usa Posts: 58 Reputation: 1012	Divorced. Never talked about this with my husband. He would NOT have understood.

07-13-2008, 07:36 PM	#10
Jasmine Privileged Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 2,352 Reputation: 20045	Married No, he doesn't share my fantasies although he knows about them

07-14-2008, 02:55 AM	#11
MyNatalie Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 60 Reputation: 180	Married and very happy, although she has no ideas about these fantasies. She would not understand it and it would degrade our relationship. If she only knew that in my mind she is the most active rapeslut on the planet...

07-14-2008, 06:29 AM	#12
Niceideas Banned Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: u.k Posts: 637 Reputation: 893	Not Married I share my fantasies with my left hand, not my right, so it feels different

07-14-2008, 12:04 PM	#13
WyckedKunt Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 43 Reputation: 407	Married. I tried a few times in the past to share some of my fantasies, and to encourage my husband to play "rough". But he was always a little uncomfortable with it, so I eventually gave up.

07-14-2008, 02:34 PM	#14
SecretObsession Passion's Playtoy Join Date: Aug 2007 Posts: 1,591 Reputation: 11692	Married and hubby knows all about my fantasies And yes he does indulge me in whatever it is that I want to try... excluding other people

07-14-2008, 06:11 PM	#16
ChiTownHoney Pa'l Mundo Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: ObamaNation Posts: 2,460 Reputation: 33436	No Yes I have No

07-14-2008, 06:16 PM	#17
CrashGirl Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 41 Reputation: 136	1. Quite happily married. 2. He's my husband, not my wife, and I do share my fantasies with him. He's not as "into" rape fantasy as I am, but he plays along for me. 3. And yes, we do occasionally role play. Not often, though.

07-28-2008, 10:25 AM	#18
Echo Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Boston, USA Posts: 69 Reputation: 1775	Happily Married. Unfortunately, she does not share my fantasies or even know about them. When I hint at the issue her reaction is always extremely negative. So have to settle for just fantasies. __________________ "I joke about sex because it's funny when you're frightened" -Dresden Dolls

07-30-2008, 01:51 AM	#20
MinaPi Privileged Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: California Posts: 368 Reputation: 1730	Not married! The bf was more or less willing to indulge with fantasies, but he wasn't very adventurous. __________________ Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.