do you worry that you might like the real thing, if it happened? - Rape Board

GOATBOY · 01-06-2010, 05:10 PM

Mostly a question to the ladies. Because I have came across (oh er) a few ladies that like it so real they like being bruised, scratched, choked, life threatend and made to do all the stuff she hates, just because he wants it. I can't help but feel that a real rape wont be far off their roleplays. So if you can fantasised about such realistic rapes for so long, and then one day your luck runs out and it actually happens, how do you know you wont enjoy it? You might do, you might even get wet and cum. and if you report it after, the guy might say you wanted it, and your net history will work against you.

And even to the guys. if you are drunk an stupid, and some guys you know get a little out of hand and set upon some lady, you watch her beg and protest just the way you like it, how can you be so sure you wont get a hard on? how do you know you can resist joining the line?

My point is, I don't know how a real life rape goes, apart from accounts and im sure they dont do the actual thing justice. So I can't be sure how I would feel about it if I was to be involved. recently, things have been getting so real in the bedroom that I actually forget its a game.

Beardy · 01-12-2010, 10:52 AM

IÂ´ve suffered an attempted rape and so I think I wonÂ´t enjoy being raped for real. IÂ´m one of the women you describe who enjoys a really extreme role play, but thatÂ´s consensual, with the partner IÂ´ve chosen and with limits we have talked about first. TheyÂ´re two different situations.
Anyway, I admit that I fantasize about being raped in real life but itÂ´s not the same that I wish to be raped. I get excited fantasizing about being brutally raped, insulted, beaten and humiliated. And I still think that if that rape happened I wonÂ´t enjoy it at all. Fantasy is not real life.

ali D · 01-13-2010, 12:26 AM

Fantasy rape is like being on a wild roller coaster. Real rape would be like being in a wild car crash.

justmetoo · 01-13-2010, 12:31 AM

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Originally Posted by ali D

Fantasy rape is like being on a wild roller coaster. Real rape would be like being in a wild car crash.

Exactly. Most people in wild car crashes don't end up doing so good. Most people on that roller coaster ride want to go a second time

GOATBOY · 01-13-2010, 08:21 AM

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Originally Posted by ali D

Fantasy rape is like being on a wild roller coaster. Real rape would be like being in a wild car crash.

good way of putting it, +rep

XxThicky_Thick_ChicxX · 01-25-2010, 04:04 PM

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Originally Posted by justmetoo

Exactly. Most people in wild car crashes don't end up doing so good. Most people on that roller coaster ride want to go a second time

Very Nice! Best way I have ever heard it explained!

BamaGurl · 01-25-2010, 04:24 PM

If it was someone I knew...like a friend that I had been teasing, and he wasnt hurting me really bad, then it might be ok.......MIGHT...lol im still not sure yet. As far as a stranger, I would freak out, im sure that would be painful and difficult for the both of us, probably not even worth it

and OMG you are so right about turning someone in, it would be impossible to get a conviction, they would so say we wanted it after knowing about this site! How humiliating would that be!!

prey4me · 01-26-2010, 11:47 AM

ali D, I just had to hit the "applause" button on that one (roller coaster vs. car crash). BRILLIANT! To amplify your metaphor: people choose to get onto a roller coaster. Only the deranged get into a car crash voluntarily. And there are controls on a roller coaster (pre-engineered), and in a fantasy or role-play the controls are pre-arranged.

By the same logic, BamaGurl,

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If it was someone I knew...like a friend that I had been teasing, and he wasnt hurting me really bad, then it might be ok.......MIGHT...lol im still not sure yet.

You might think you're getting into a "controlled crash" by teasing somebody into a rape. But once that skid starts, how can you be sure you can maintain or recover control? Suppose there's been a bit of a drink, and the guy's gotten aggressive. Then you start equivocating? Can you be sure he wouldn't go over the top with his fists? Or bring out a weapon?

And you're right by considering the criminal aftermath. That's a sort of like the dark area down in the ditch. Once your "car" hurls down there, you don't know what else you'll hit!

ali D that is one mean motherfucker of a metaphor!

BRAVO!!!!

BamaGurl · 01-26-2010, 12:12 PM

I agree with you Prey4me...I guess I was saying if I was gonna pick a situation that I could possible enjoy, in stead of a total stranger maybe a friend, an older married friend (not that I have any thoughts) just getting caught up in the moment, and couldnt take it anymore... but yet, still cares enough not to truly hurt, or worse kill...just had to take. A controlled car crash, yeah, but why not say I was driving a tank instead of a really fast sports car. A lot less mechanism of injury there dont ya think?

prey4me · 01-26-2010, 09:01 PM

BamaGurl suggests:

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an older married friend (not that I have any thoughts)

Well, dahling, you have to come up to New England! I'm definitely older, definitely married, and I would definitely push you past the point of no return. Your crash would be controlled--by me!

I'm definitely not a sports car, certainly not a tank. Maybe a bulldozer!

BamaGurl · 01-26-2010, 09:12 PM

Oh but we are definitely a new generation, we have a bit up our sleeves too....like how to manipulate and control a DOM and wrap him around her finger, without giving him even a peek.... He knows he wants it, but no opportunity and too afraid to bite

Nothing I would like more than a frustrated DOM

prey4me · 01-27-2010, 09:55 AM

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like how to manipulate and control a DOM and wrap him around her finger, without giving him even a peek.... He knows he wants it, but no opportunity and too afraid to bite Nothing I would like more than a frustrated DOM

No, BamaGurl, I would not be wrapped around your finger. Your pussy would be wrapped around my dick! And what you would mis-interpret as "frustration" is actually patience. You strike me as an interesting girl, BamaGurl, and probably worth some wait!

BamaGurl · 01-27-2010, 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by prey4me

No, BamaGurl, I would not be wrapped around your finger. Your pussy would be wrapped around my dick! And what you would mis-interpret as "frustration" is actually patience. You strike me as an interesting girl, BamaGurl, and probably worth some wait!

Challenges, challenges

never under estimate the charm of a southern belle

ego · 01-27-2010, 12:59 PM

I wont like it. It wont happen.

perfectlyformed · 01-28-2010, 03:32 PM

Really fantasy and the reality are 2 different worlds. Not ones that should ever meet. Its like playing with any fantasy, sexual or otherwise. They are just that, fantasy. They are ideal and fun. Most of all they are safe. Who here uses an avatar that connects to another interest or fantasy?

BTN springs to mind. Hes currently modeled on the adama character from the re-imagined Battlestar Galactica show and as cool as that might seem, if he were really in the situation that Adama was in the show I'm sure he'd have less fun and maybe a breakdown of somekind.

Keep fantasy as a fantasy. Live dangourosly by all means. I know I do from time to time. But lets not let real life bleed into our playtime

x

kimmy · 02-06-2010, 12:49 PM

well said perfectlyformed

01-06-2010, 05:10 PM	#1
GOATBOY Privileged Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: london uk Posts: 627 Reputation: 4793	do you worry that you might like the real thing, if it happened? Mostly a question to the ladies. Because I have came across (oh er) a few ladies that like it so real they like being bruised, scratched, choked, life threatend and made to do all the stuff she hates, just because he wants it. I can't help but feel that a real rape wont be far off their roleplays. So if you can fantasised about such realistic rapes for so long, and then one day your luck runs out and it actually happens, how do you know you wont enjoy it? You might do, you might even get wet and cum. and if you report it after, the guy might say you wanted it, and your net history will work against you. And even to the guys. if you are drunk an stupid, and some guys you know get a little out of hand and set upon some lady, you watch her beg and protest just the way you like it, how can you be so sure you wont get a hard on? how do you know you can resist joining the line? My point is, I don't know how a real life rape goes, apart from accounts and im sure they dont do the actual thing justice. So I can't be sure how I would feel about it if I was to be involved. recently, things have been getting so real in the bedroom that I actually forget its a game. __________________ HAPPINESS IS A DRY PUSSY

01-12-2010, 10:52 AM	#2
Beardy Dark alley walker Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Europe Posts: 1,210 Reputation: 22589	IÂ´ve suffered an attempted rape and so I think I wonÂ´t enjoy being raped for real. IÂ´m one of the women you describe who enjoys a really extreme role play, but thatÂ´s consensual, with the partner IÂ´ve chosen and with limits we have talked about first. TheyÂ´re two different situations. Anyway, I admit that I fantasize about being raped in real life but itÂ´s not the same that I wish to be raped. I get excited fantasizing about being brutally raped, insulted, beaten and humiliated. And I still think that if that rape happened I wonÂ´t enjoy it at all. Fantasy is not real life. __________________ Meet me in your dark dreams.

01-27-2010, 12:59 PM	#14
ego the obscure Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 3,457 Reputation: 14892	I wont like it. It wont happen. __________________ ..lure them all into the abyss!

01-28-2010, 03:32 PM	#15
perfectlyformed Living Sextoy Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: London, UK Posts: 3,500 Reputation: 103987	Really fantasy and the reality are 2 different worlds. Not ones that should ever meet. Its like playing with any fantasy, sexual or otherwise. They are just that, fantasy. They are ideal and fun. Most of all they are safe. Who here uses an avatar that connects to another interest or fantasy? BTN springs to mind. Hes currently modeled on the adama character from the re-imagined Battlestar Galactica show and as cool as that might seem, if he were really in the situation that Adama was in the show I'm sure he'd have less fun and maybe a breakdown of somekind. Keep fantasy as a fantasy. Live dangourosly by all means. I know I do from time to time. But lets not let real life bleed into our playtime x __________________ -- Fear is a four letter word. So is rape, fuck, knot, anal, hump, nuts, lick, clit shag, blow, bend, hard, deep, cunt, slut, bang, tits, dick, oral, used, easy, suck, cock, arse, slap, hold, fist and gang. So all the good ones basically..... x

02-06-2010, 12:49 PM	#16
kimmy Privileged Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: america Posts: 195 Reputation: 10615	well said perfectlyformed __________________ Hi everybody,if you try and contact me on yahoo,be patient,it quits on me alot for some reason

01-13-2010, 12:26 AM	#3
ali D Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: North Carolina Posts: 133 Reputation: 5548	Fantasy rape is like being on a wild roller coaster. Real rape would be like being in a wild car crash.

01-25-2010, 04:24 PM	#7
BamaGurl Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In the dirty south baby! Posts: 47 Reputation: 2095	If it was someone I knew...like a friend that I had been teasing, and he wasnt hurting me really bad, then it might be ok.......MIGHT...lol im still not sure yet. As far as a stranger, I would freak out, im sure that would be painful and difficult for the both of us, probably not even worth it and OMG you are so right about turning someone in, it would be impossible to get a conviction, they would so say we wanted it after knowing about this site! How humiliating would that be!!

01-26-2010, 12:12 PM	#9
BamaGurl Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In the dirty south baby! Posts: 47 Reputation: 2095	I agree with you Prey4me...I guess I was saying if I was gonna pick a situation that I could possible enjoy, in stead of a total stranger maybe a friend, an older married friend (not that I have any thoughts) just getting caught up in the moment, and couldnt take it anymore... but yet, still cares enough not to truly hurt, or worse kill...just had to take. A controlled car crash, yeah, but why not say I was driving a tank instead of a really fast sports car. A lot less mechanism of injury there dont ya think?

01-26-2010, 09:12 PM	#11
BamaGurl Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In the dirty south baby! Posts: 47 Reputation: 2095	Oh but we are definitely a new generation, we have a bit up our sleeves too....like how to manipulate and control a DOM and wrap him around her finger, without giving him even a peek.... He knows he wants it, but no opportunity and too afraid to bite Nothing I would like more than a frustrated DOM