A Ragman's Farewell

[ChiTownHoney]

Originally Posted by AWDracer

Because of the way you've structured your messages, it's interesting that when I read about you (without looking at the name) it's like you change from being a woman to a man. What kind of woman has negative thoughts about women? That being said, ego might be right - attitudes here are not the same I suppose.

PLENTY of woman do. Its not a weird phenomenon. Its very hard for woman to get along with each other. My own feelings are validated, however, I wish I could change them, but I cant.

I guess I am more like a man, I get along much better with men, because their attitudes are like mine. I cant stand hanging out with women most of the time unless I have to, and I choose my female friends very wisely. I dont have any feelings or care at all for woman, never have. Never feel any empathy, never wish them well.

Thats besides the point though, I DO wish Ragman tons of good luck and good hopes that his life doesnt end disasterously.

[Jasmine]

Congrats Ragman! I will miss you!

[AWDracer]

Originally Posted by ChiTownHoney

PLENTY of woman do. Its not a weird phenomenon. Its very hard for woman to get along with each other. My own feelings are validated, however, I wish I could change them, but I cant.

I guess I am more like a man, I get along much better with men, because their attitudes are like mine. I cant stand hanging out with women most of the time unless I have to, and I choose my female friends very wisely. I dont have any feelings or care at all for woman, never have. Never feel any empathy, never wish them well.

Thats besides the point though, I DO wish Ragman tons of good luck and good hopes that his life doesnt end disasterously.

Fair enough

Same here. Best of luck!

P.S. Hope you really find the right person for you CTH (woman or man!), and if it's with a woman by strange occurence, set up a webcam and do it for us.

[ChiTownHoney]

Ok, so basically you didnt understand anything I posted at all huh?

Ok, I guess some people lack the ability of comprehension, but thats ok, its not a fair world.

[AWDracer]

Originally Posted by ChiTownHoney

Ok, so basically you didnt understand anything I posted at all huh?

Ok, I guess some people lack the ability of comprehension, but thats ok, its not a fair world.

My reading comprehension is fine when I need to actually need to do comprehension. When I first read it, you said "good luck - you'll need it" and this is open to multiple interpretations. One could say you are indeed being genuine with that - or a jab at marriage that "you'll likely never make it" and Ragman is in the process of getting married. My intuition says it's the second one and thus, I called you out for it; the timing was really poor for that kind of a comment. If you go to a wedding in which you are invited to show up, do you go to them directly and tell them "good luck because they'll need it?". Unless you wanna be a dick, sure do it. I mean you could singlehandedly ruin their wedding ceremony just with that ignorant and inconsiderate comment. If you tell them about "luck" and "problems", you're already giving them some hesitation before the wedding has even finished. Good intentions, bad approach. You're also insulting their intelligence because you're basically saying they're stupid for hooking up - yet if they've decided to get married, they've decided through THEIR OWN consensus that they'll do anything together and the time is now.

But the inappropriateness of it can be summarized like this: It's like going to a funeral and telling everyone there to "get over it because millions of other people die too so this is nothing special".

[ChiTownHoney]

No I never do that at weddings because I know the girl in question and know that she is a good person. I've only been a jerk at a wedding once, but we just showed up at the reception and my boyfriend was a jerk and left me at the table by myself and then I was fighting with him and some guy came up and I gave him the pissiest attitude, then my boyfriend is like, "WTF are you doing thats the guy who just got married!" We ended leaving but it was all his fault. I didnt care anyways, I didnt know him.

Anyways, I dont see what the big deal is, I wouldnt wish someone to win the lottery when I'm broke, now would I? Why would I want other people to have things that I dont have? Of course I dont want other people to be happy if I'm not happy, thats the normal thing. Thats human nature.

All the best and happiness Ragman. I still think that your avatar is Aqualung.