Racial sex

[ChiTownHoney]

I have never been into black guys, but lately have been thinking about what it would be like to be with one. I saw some porn with black couples in it, and it just seemed so much more sexier. Why do some white women have a thing for black guys? Is it the gangtser/thug thing? something different? Size?

Being the bootylicious saucy sexpot that is me, I had so many come ons from black guys and they always ask me if I had ever been with a black guy. Why is that? They want to be the first black guy or what? They swear they are stallions in bed. Any truth to this? Or is it just a myth? Anyone know from experience?

Is there really any difference in the bedroom between the races anyways?

Anyone ever branch out and have experimented with different races? What can you say about all this?

What are some ideas you have about being with a different race? How do you imagine they would be?

I've been pretty mono-racial sexually my whole life (if that makes sense to you, it doesnt to me), maybe I should branch out and share the love.

[Conrad]

I've never really been into black women, Pam Grier excepted, but do think about other races sometimes. Asian and Latino mostly, unless we're counting Eastern European as different to white (Slavic maybe, I don't know).

Maybe it seemed sexier to you since it was new, maybe you hadn't taken that much notice of black people in porno before, and so it seemed more exotic. I do think that different races in adult films can be sexy. I would hope that to many women arn't into the 'thug' thing, it's stupid, although I do think I understand way they like badboy types; which incidently is different from thug type losers. Maybe it is the size, being a averaged size white dude I can't really say.

I wouldn't say there's any difference in the bedroom as far as how they physically do it. I would say that it's the same for all races, if your a good lover, your a good lover, bad then bad, you can't automatically be better because your black. I'm bad in bed, but put that down to being a loser rather than being white.

There are of cause many stereotypes about races and their sexual traits, asians being submissive etc, but it's really the individual person.

How about you, would you say you fit the sexual stereotype given to your race?

[tnthong]

I don't see why skin color would really matter...I've seen black men with "average" size and white men with "above average" so I would say you really can't judge a book by it's cover. It would be kind of like saying blue eyed guys give better oral than brown eyed guys wouldn't it....you'll just have to find out

But for the whole fantasy thing I think it's the stereotype of black men being more of a "bad guy" and more forward (sexually). But I think the "white biker, bad guy" works just as well. Maybe a black, forward, biker, bad guy would work even better! LOL

[Evil Intent]

i'm black and i can tell you a lot of black guys wanna try out non black women because to some of us its taboo and to others there may have been to many bad experiences with black girls

[Conrad]

Originally Posted by Evil Intent

i'm black and i can tell you a lot of black guys wanna try out non black women because to some of us its taboo and to others there may have been to many bad experiences with black girls

Can you elaborate as to why there would be bad experiences with black girls? Is there a different mindset or attitude that they have, or something else?

[ShyAngel]

I'm white and don't really give race any question in my mind. If a guy is cute it really doesn't matter to me what race he is, he's cute. I've been with a mexican guy and an asian guy as well as white guys. I think men in all races are going to have average as well as large and extra large member sizes. Just like women of all races have small, medium, large and omg size boobs. At least that has been my experience.

[MADDOGMCMANAMAN]

I think that this is a bit of a misnoma that white girls love black men, in other words if you took a full headcount of all the population or ran a study, i would probably guess that the figures just show general mixing as per all races.

I think where the racial element comes in - is that it is noticed more and therefore creates the stereotype.

[Evil Intent]

Originally Posted by Conrad

Can you elaborate as to why there would be bad experiences with black girls? Is there a different mindset or attitude that they have, or something else?

generally speaking white girls seem to be more nicer than black girls.
most black girls won't even talk to you if they aren't attracted to you but most white girls will hold a conversation if you say hi.
a lot of black girls seem to have...problems.....that can't be fixed no matter how hard you try to fix them. plus some of them seem to be a tad bit nuts.

[Conrad]

I see, thank you for answering.

[KrayLB]

I'm a black man myself..but I'm young only 21 so I haven't had too many Serious relationships...but I've dated a couple of white girls and black girls..I haven't been with any other Race and I so far I can say the sex is the same it just depends on the person that you are with...It's true that some black girls have more of an attitude than other races of girls..But not all of them are like..I have some of those types of girls in my family..

now as to way some people date other races..I think it just depends on what the person is attracted too..I know some white girls who won't date Black guys..or any other Race besides white..and I can say the same for black people as well.

[gaggirl]

firstly let me say im not racist, i think everyones equal. but i havent been all that into dark men (european men on the other hand hold me back)

I did branch out with a mauritian man, and i dont know where these wild feelings came from but once i started thinking about him, the lust just came righto ut of nowhere! he made me really hungry! what they say about black guys having big dicks is not all true though. but i would definitely go there again. he was very passionate. where alot of white men are not.

[Sternenlied]

Well, black penises are pretty much like all the other ones. Some are big, some are not. I am not sure all black man would appreciate being defined entirely by having (supposedly) huge members ...

To most people dating some from a different physical appearance (I'm not too comfortable with the term "race" since dividing humans into different races is the definition of "racism" in my opinion) is mostly about the appeal of the exotic as well as "breaking the rules". Sadly as it may be in most people's heads small remnants of most social taboos are still intact - for example black man, white woman or rich woman, poor man, etc. ... - so for many people the feeling of doing something extravagant or "forbidden" bears a special appeal.
It also depends on the society you live in if dating someone of a different ethnicity is a big deal or not. Just look at the USA for many examples. In some states a black man dating a white woman wouldn't be that much of a head-turner while in some others the poor mate would still have to sleep with one eye open ...
Dating someone from a different ethnic group might also be some kind of rebellion (especially in younger days) against family, society, whatever.
With women it could also be derivated like this: "different" - many women like to change things after a bad breakup, do things differently. Mostly their hair. Some however might also go the extra mile (for example after a series of break-ups with white guys) so they decide to give a different kind of man a try.
Sexual experimentation can't be neglected as well. Many women during their lives enter a phase of sexual experimentation (some even re-orientation). During such a period they want to give almost everything a try. So why not different kinds of men as well?
Then again (I would include myself here) to some it simply doesn't matter anymore. An attractive guy - physically, mentally, spiritually, intellectually whatever - is an attractive guy, that's it. Black, Asian, caucasian, Middle-Eastern, ... it just doesn't matter.

My personal experiences? Well, none of your business ...

[shysnale]

Originally Posted by ChiTownHoney

Is there really any difference in the bedroom between the races anyways?

I know I'm totally lacking experience on the subject but regardless of sexual knowledge, anyone in life have tasted the 'skin contact' and got aroused just by a short accidental touch with someone of the opposite sex. There is a tradition here in France wich is we don't shake women hands, we kiss them on cheeks. Most people just give two kisses, one on the left cheek and one on the right cheek but some people are still giving 4 kisses. The interesting thing is that you can never do that in the professional world. When you're at work, you shake women hands, not too firmly, but you shake them.

So basically what I"m trying to say is even if I'm ignorant sexually speaking I can say from having kissed women cheeks for years that all skins feel different. All skins have a different smell, regardless of what brand of perfume women are using. A lot of women don't perfume anymore here. They just use arm-pits anti sweat sprays. So basically, could the attraction to other skin colors could simply be the need of a new taste ? Could all that problem be just a matter of taste ? As Stern said, the word race doesn't mean that much, it has been prooved that the geographical and meteorological environment you live in is responsible over centuries of the color of your skin. If you take a couple of swedish, make them reproduce themselves in Africa for 1000 years, you will end up with a black family and vice & versa. So you can take off any kind of spiritual attraction from this problem. A black guy raised in a high class family will end up with a sophisticated elegant way of speaking and dressing, just like a white guy, so at the end of the day, only the skin color remains different. Only the taste of it remains different. Shit I'll try a black hooker - lol

[EvilJ]

Speaking as a Black man with an education, I'll say I've only gone out with a small handful of Black women because, culturally, Black women tend to be louder and incredibly hot tempered. I'm not saying that's true about every Black woman. I'm not self loathing. I'm just saying that we've built a stereotype of the loud angry Black woman who refuses to compromise or exercise and way too many young sisters have jumped into it with both feet. I preferred my drama in the movies, so I stayed away.

Culturally, White women's biggest problems tend to be "princess" related. I can handle that. Hell, any strong back and a hard cock can handle that. Tie her up, fuck her unconcious, go to Starbucks. Problem solved.

There's also another, more personal, matter to me in relations with Black women. Believe it or not, it's a language barrier. I speak standard Midwestern American English. My verbs match my nouns. I don't substitute singular for plural or vice versa. In the Black community of my youth, this was referred to as "talking like a White Boy". It was treated as a weakness. That's how I first learned to fight, in fact. People would assume that gentle speach equalled soft fists and attack me. After about the third fight, it became a learning experience for both sides.

To this day, when I hear a beautiful nubian sister joyously butchering my mother tongue, I inwardly wince and my sphincter clenches so hard I could stick coal up there and pull out a prop for a Leonardo DeCaprio movie. I don't find the language barrier I had with many Black women in the White women I've been interested in. Yes there are badly spoken White women, too, but it was much easier to find one who isn't that wasn't already taken.

Now I'm married. To a White woman. I love her a lot, but her race has nothing to do with it. It's that she fit the criteria for what I wanted. Intelligent. Assertive, but not pushy or greedy. Hot looking. And easily raped at a moments notice. Cool.

If I found a Black woman who fit those before I met my wife, I'd have married her. Hell, if I found an Inuit who fit those criteria first, I'd be eating whale in an igloo now. Race means nothing on that.

As for White women being attracted to me because I was "bad" or had a big dick... I gotta say I had more than my share of both kinds of "groupies". Sometimes they were there for both reasons. I would just chalk that up to the shallowness of humanity and take the free pussy in an equally shallow manner.

From women who have dated multiple Black men (and having been in a locker room. Ever) I will say that we generally have bigger cocks. But from the gang bang porns I did in my youth, I'll admit it's mostly a "thickness" thing. I saw one guy that fucking looked like a tree stump. Emphasis on stump.

Doing porns was good for my ego though. It's good to be in a room full of guys and be able to look down and whisper "See? All those girls weren't lying to you. Good boy. Gooood boyyyy!"

[Conrad]

Man, 3 years and only 69 posts. I like your posts dude, informative, humourous, well writen; you should post more often dude.

[ChiTownHoney]

Originally Posted by Conrad

How about you, would you say you fit the sexual stereotype given to your race?

I'm mixed, so I dont really belong to any category . Its really hard not having a solid ethinic identity, Which is probably why I have so many identity issues. It has however made me aware of racial differences.

I will tell you though. Black guys are very confident. They have that suave attitude that I have not seen in any other race. I figure this follows to the bed, thats maybe why girls like them.

[Conrad]

Ah Yes, I was aware of your mixed heritage, sorry I meant either of the races, do you fit one more maybe then the other? I guess not actually given your answer, sorry bad question.

Maybe that is way girls like them, if that is the case, I mean women love confidence right?

[ChiTownHoney]

Originally Posted by Conrad

Ah Yes, I was aware of your mixed heritage, sorry I meant either of the races, do you fit one more maybe then the other? I guess not actually given your answer, sorry bad question.

Maybe that is way girls like them, if that is the case, I mean women love confidence right?

Actually, I would like to consider myself white. But its like a slap in the face to some Mexican guys who give me dirty looks when I am out with a white guy...however when I am with a Mexican guy I'm la guera to their family and friends. Unbelievable.

The thing is my pops (who is a really brown Mexican) hated that I dated Mexican guys, but made fun of me when I went out with white guys. Forget about mulattos...my mix is a true identity crisis!

I have only been with Mexican guys...and they are horny all the time. They will drop their pants in the supermarker happily if you told them too.

[older and wiser]

at work yesterday they brought in a black guy and his girlfriend who was white, a little bit weighty, but with absolutley enormous tits, she was the talk of the station!
We also have a big problem with Asian men (Pakistani descent) grooming young white girls for sex, and I mean young, some as young as 12, and once they get into them, quite often they get passed around. they really seem to like fucking young white girls. Not good

[theDarkOne]

Originally Posted by older and wiser

We also have a big problem with Asian men (Pakistani descent) grooming young white girls for sex, and I mean young, some as young as 12, and once they get into them, quite often they get passed around. they really seem to like fucking young white girls. Not good

WTF!?! It says your from England.What is going on where you work?
If you can Details please...and once again,WTF!?!