How did you get into rape fantasy?

[HitMan123]

I've always been curious as to how other guys have gotten into rape fantasy. Was it something you saw? Something that happened????

I guess I could blame my father. Years ago, my brother and me broke into my father's stash of Playboys and had a field day . . . a while later we broke into the stash again and found (secretly hidden) some videos. My bro and me snuck out to see a video (thinking we would see some tits and if lucky, a pussy) . . . to our surprise it was one rape scene after another . . . lol From that day on I've loved rape fantasy (so does my brother) . . .

[prey4me]

Who knows? Who cares? I am long past self psychoanalysis. It's been a part of me since my sexual coming of age, and I don't think even Scientology "auditing"* could dig this out. It may be a kind of compensation for being the runt of the litter and a late bloomer.

There's an old riddle: "What does a slave want more than anything else?"
"To gain his freedom?" "No--to become the slave-driver!!"

So, if one is subject to forms of abuse, control, and violence, then one will use that "currency" in his/hers/its relationships--as either the giver or the receiver.


*Joke. Scientology helps you achieve the state of "clear," but only in your bank account (and your retirement savings, your spouse's, your parents' your employer's, etc. etc.).

[makethemcry]

I was probably always a latent. Even in HS I would sneak in to the porn book store and buy BDSM mags. Pretty much cemented my interest in rape (as opposed to consensual BDSM) when I participated in a few groping and de-blousing events with my buddies

[Wolfgang]

I've been interested since I was about 12-13..just crept into my masturbatory fantasies and stayed, I guess. It grew with porn and girls who were keen on that sort of thing

[Tim Woodman]

I can't really trace my preferences back to a single event either, but certainly falling in love with Dorothy Laine helped a lot! Truth be told, she largely turned me into the Villain I am today, God bless her lovely ass!

[BAJ182]

It was probably text roleplaying online, to be completely honest. After you've been doing it for a while, you get tired of the same old, same old roles, so you look for something new and exciting. One of those new things was rape. Probably how I got into it, and I don't mind it a bit.

[Flesh4Fantasy]

Originally Posted by BAJ182

It was probably text roleplaying online, to be completely honest. After you've been doing it for a while, you get tired of the same old, same old roles, so you look for something new and exciting. One of those new things was rape. Probably how I got into it, and I don't mind it a bit.

Baj - are you really saying your fantasies never took that form before the text thing?

Truly???

If so, that's fascinating... We are talking about a fully adult conversion to force fantasy that had no roots in pubescent sexual discovery?

I wouldn't think that was very common. Perhaps Sternenlied could shed a more educated light on my amateur thesis?

[BAJ182]

Originally Posted by Flesh4Fantasy

Baj - are you really saying your fantasies never took that form before the text thing?

Truly???

If so, that's fascinating... We are talking about a fully adult conversion to force fantasy that had no roots in pubescent sexual discovery?

I wouldn't think that was very common. Perhaps Sternenlied could shed a more educated light on my amateur thesis?

I was a complete nerd when I was younger... just the thought of a woman showing interest was a huge turn on for me, so yeah, I would say that's where it started. I obviously had fantasies about girls I could never get in RL, but they were fantasies, so they wanted me there. I only even got introduced to playing rape fantasies during the text thing.