Rapists in fantasies - Rape Board

BremenDruid · 04-14-2013, 09:18 PM

We generally spend a lot of time thinking about the women we want to rape, but I want pose the question: if you like to think of someone else raping a woman (or other people in a group) what type of people do you imagine raping her?

Personally I think that the woman should be disgusted by the men raping her, so when I think of other men to share her with I think of fat men surrounding her, groping her body before they start licking her up and finally impale her on two cocks at the same time.

Just curious about others' views on this.

Sasha Girl · 04-14-2013, 09:41 PM

As a woman, I'm majorly turned off by the image put forward. However, I understand the point you're making and I agree, she should be disgusted. If I may be so bold as to suggest an ugly, yet physically fit group of men, instead? A grossly obese man is an invalid, basically. A good rapist should be strong and cruel, whether he is a man or a monster.

FuckingRotter · 04-15-2013, 06:17 AM

I was thinking about this yesterday, but specifically how it could relate to real life interaction. Example, if you fantasise about being raped by someone you find physically repulsive, could you go through with a real life role play with someone who actually is physically repulsive in your eyes?

It's true enough too that we read very little about the attacker on here.

Sasha Girl · 04-15-2013, 11:47 AM

FR: absolutely. Although there is a line that I could not cross, obviously. Often this has more to do with his character than looks. Married men and cheats are completely out, for example, and I don't care how "handsome" they think they are.

jwham · 04-15-2013, 02:55 PM

In the fantasy stories I have written some rapist were repulsive in appearance to their victims. In other stores the rapist was a man who was not physically repulsive to the victim. The common ground shared by both styles of rapist in my stories, be they ugly or handsome was, the victim was equally repulsed not because of his looks, but by the dirty deeds done to her by him.

Dangerdevil · 04-15-2013, 06:40 PM

I've always gotten the sense that for most women's rape fantasies the physical appearance of the rapist is far less important than the victim's appearance is to men. I also get the sense that for most women, they're far more "attracted" to a rapist who is physically and mentally powerful, one who has the self-confidence and strength to take what he wants rather than one who can get attention based on his physical beauty.

nondescript29 · 04-15-2013, 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Dangerdevil

I've always gotten the sense that for most women's rape fantasies the physical appearance of the rapist is far less important than the victim's appearance is to men. I also get the sense that for most women, they're far more "attracted" to a rapist who is physically and mentally powerful, one who has the self-confidence and strength to take what he wants rather than one who can get attention based on his physical beauty.

Yesssss

I suppose I can pick physical characteristics that appeal to me (tall, hunky, cute sideways grin, chest hair, fitness level=stronger than I am). Brooding and stoic always attract my attention. Not afraid of me or to take what he wants from me.

I got lost in my headspace for a minute there

EssenceofRed · 04-15-2013, 09:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Dangerdevil

I've always gotten the sense that for most women's rape fantasies the physical appearance of the rapist is far less important than the victim's appearance is to men. I also get the sense that for most women, they're far more "attracted" to a rapist who is physically and mentally powerful, one who has the self-confidence and strength to take what he wants rather than one who can get attention based on his physical beauty.

Yes, and yes. Of course I want my victim looking fabulous because that victim is me!

Plus the more perfect my (the victim's) world is, the harder the fall. Mmmmm. I do love the fall... that total emotional breakdown...

As for the rapist, oddly enough, you just described what I look for in a mate! Lol! As for looks and degree of attractiveness, they change depending on the story, but you're right. He does have to be powerful - mentally and physically - because in the end, he has to be good enough and skilled enough to be able to take me down. So really, this is just a reflection of me and my own self confidence; how I perceive myself.

FuckingRotter · 04-16-2013, 12:43 AM

What if the attacker is all the positive, attractive things mentioned? He could have the girl for the price of a bit of charm and maybe dinner or a couple of drinks. Instead he chooses to just take what he wants. Would a victim be more repulsed by him after that?

Sierra · 04-16-2013, 01:03 AM

Interesting. I never imagine faces or even bodies for my fantasy rapists, except they must be big (to overpower me, of course) and they must be hairy. None of these sissy shaved boys for this girl!

Rather funny that the PC Police call rape fantasy the ultimate objectification of women but in fact it's the other way round. It doesn't really matter about the guy, either in fantasy or in porn. Most guys in porn - even decent porn - are not guys I would be at all attracted to IRL but that doesn't get in the way. He just supplies the cock.

Now if they can just find some girl who doesn't automatically open her mouth when she sees a cock, I'd actually download it.

FuckingRotter · 04-16-2013, 02:16 AM

I've met such a girl Sierra.

Jaybee · 04-16-2013, 02:47 AM

Very much depends on my opinion of the rapee. If she is a particularly loathsome girl, then I'd want the precise opposite of her desires for her. I'd call around her friends, pretending to be from a stripper agency, ask what kind of build/face she doesn't want, then act appropriately. And he'd ensure there's some blood on the leaves. If this is a vengeance rape, I'll have have him up the ante and play a psycho prison escapee or something.

If she is a good lass then...why isn't it ME doing the raping??!!?

In any case I'd research as above, but of course ensure she gets a hot hunk, be he bad or good guy, and that he fella is adept at bringing her to orgasms.

perfectlyformed · 04-16-2013, 02:47 AM

I often use people I know or have known as "models" in my fantasies. Interestingly I tend to go for larger and more phyically powerful men. Not bodybuilder types exclusivley (although those are nice ) ) but also manual types of guys. They are also generally much older than me although again younger men may feature as well.

So oddly as in real life the victim often knows her attacker

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Sasha Girl · 04-16-2013, 04:41 AM

This pretty much describes the rapists in my stories. Yes, she is repulsed and frightened throughout a lot of the plot. It's not until he starts to show signs of being in love with her that the situation changes. I realise the rapist falling in love with his victim isn't the ideal scenario for some, but I'm a romantic at heart and I enjoy the idea of it. Also, I've always been rather fascinated by the Stockholm syndrome...

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What if the attacker is all the positive, attractive things mentioned? He could have the girl for the price of a bit of charm and maybe dinner or a couple of drinks. Instead he chooses to just take what he wants. Would a victim be more repulsed by him after that?

GermanChick · 04-16-2013, 09:51 AM

My attacker almost never has a face, I never use 'celebrities' or people I know - I've come to think that maybe that would make it more 'real' to me and be a bit too close for comfort, thus being a turn off.

They are never the younger type (even though my story I posted here is exactly the type of Rape that FR speaks of, the good looking guy that takes what he wants) - Usually I'm attracted to men that are older than me (late 40's and 50's +) that are in a position of power and abuse that power or the trust I've placed in them.
The physical characteristics in my mind are fairly realistic I think - they are not 'pretty boys' by far, but rather real men with a bit of extra weight and maybe a thinning hairline.
IRL I'm not attracted by 'pretty' boys either - so I guess my fantasy rapist is the same kind of man I'm attracted to IRL.

justmetoo · 04-16-2013, 02:46 PM

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Originally Posted by GermanChick

They are never the younger type (even though my story I posted here is exactly the type of Rape that FR speaks of, the good looking guy that takes what he wants) - Usually I'm attracted to men that are older than me (late 40's and 50's +) that are in a position of power and abuse that power or the trust I've placed in them.
The physical characteristics in my mind are fairly realistic I think - they are not 'pretty boys' by far, but rather real men with a bit of extra weight and maybe a thinning hairline.
IRL I'm not attracted by 'pretty' boys either - so I guess my fantasy rapist is the same kind of man I'm attracted to IRL.

Based on the qualities you are looking for in an applicant, I believe my qualifications are impeccable. Where should I send my resume to?

Hume L. Yates · 04-16-2013, 08:49 PM

I envision about as many different types of perpetrators as I have fantasies. Since most of my fantasies are more about humiliation than physical power, I usually go with the man (men) that the woman will be the most HUMILIATED by having to have sex with, NOT the ones she is most REPULSED by.

For example, of the woman is mature, or perhaps a schoolteacher, her attackers are likely much younger, and usually smaller. For a younger woman, it might be an older man in a position of authority. For a classy woman, it's a crude blue-collar man or bum. For a confidant popular woman, it might be the hairless wimp that peeps at and sexually blackmails her. For an insulated suburban woman, it might be a minority.

But I do make exceptions one way or another. I have this really big, obese step-nephew that I thought I caught checking out his step-aunt once, and I imagine this big fat disguisting dude climbing on top of her on a bed with old-fashioned springs, and bouncing her all over as his fat covers her and sweats on her. On the other side, I've imagined a female sideline or locker room sports reporter getting trapped by a bunch of athletes in the showers and raped, and they may not necessarily be handsome but they are young and well-built.

GermanChick · 04-16-2013, 09:20 PM

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Originally Posted by justmetoo

Based on the qualities you are looking for in an applicant, I believe my qualifications are impeccable. Where should I send my resume to?

Need2BOwned · 04-20-2013, 06:00 AM

Guess I'm not so "odd" after all. lol!

When fantasizing about my own rape, I don't visualize the face. He must be bigger than me and physically and mentally more powerful than I am. He is always in a position of power and not interested in "one time only", but repeated humiliations over time.

I love the thought of being completely broken down and being dependent on my rapist for all of my needs.

Sasha Girl · 04-20-2013, 07:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Need2BOwned

Guess I'm not so "odd" after all. lol!

When fantasizing about my own rape, I don't visualize the face. He must be bigger than me and physically and mentally more powerful than I am. He is always in a position of power and not interested in "one time only", but repeated humiliations over time.

I love the thought of being completely broken down and being dependent on my rapist for all of my needs.

Ha ha. By now, every smart rapist should be going: "Hang on a minute..." Scratching his head and wondering how he went from having fun, to being the principal caretaker and provider.

There's a reason so many people look at pampered pets and say: "In my next life, I want to be a dog/cat." Not all of it has to do with puppy play!

04-14-2013, 09:18 PM	#1
BremenDruid Privileged Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Posts: 207 Reputation: 2545	Rapists in fantasies We generally spend a lot of time thinking about the women we want to rape, but I want pose the question: if you like to think of someone else raping a woman (or other people in a group) what type of people do you imagine raping her? Personally I think that the woman should be disgusted by the men raping her, so when I think of other men to share her with I think of fat men surrounding her, groping her body before they start licking her up and finally impale her on two cocks at the same time. Just curious about others' views on this.

04-14-2013, 09:41 PM	#2
Sasha Girl Privileged Member Join Date: Apr 2013 Location: Australia Posts: 268 Reputation: 2013	As a woman, I'm majorly turned off by the image put forward. However, I understand the point you're making and I agree, she should be disgusted. If I may be so bold as to suggest an ugly, yet physically fit group of men, instead? A grossly obese man is an invalid, basically. A good rapist should be strong and cruel, whether he is a man or a monster. __________________ I'm a wicked, vile, horrible and perfect man. - the Savage, during one of his more modest moments. "I'm a sex addict - it's my cross to bear." - from "The Blades of Glory"

04-15-2013, 06:17 AM	#3
FuckingRotter The Fist of Fury. Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Entering the.... Posts: 9,649 Reputation: 118903	I was thinking about this yesterday, but specifically how it could relate to real life interaction. Example, if you fantasise about being raped by someone you find physically repulsive, could you go through with a real life role play with someone who actually is physically repulsive in your eyes? It's true enough too that we read very little about the attacker on here. __________________ Fist is a four letter word. So is fist, fist, fist, fist, fist, fist fist, fist, fist, fist, fist, and, well you get the fist-fucking picture.... THE WESTCOUNTRY SHALL RISE AGAIN! Yay! It's pink! Don't think.... FEEL! We're Englishmen, and we came here, to rape your women and drink your beer. I went back in time and voted for Hitler. Pouring oil on troubled waters since 2008. Then lighting a fucking match.

04-15-2013, 11:47 AM	#4
Sasha Girl Privileged Member Join Date: Apr 2013 Location: Australia Posts: 268 Reputation: 2013	FR: absolutely. Although there is a line that I could not cross, obviously. Often this has more to do with his character than looks. Married men and cheats are completely out, for example, and I don't care how "handsome" they think they are. __________________ I'm a wicked, vile, horrible and perfect man. - the Savage, during one of his more modest moments. "I'm a sex addict - it's my cross to bear." - from "The Blades of Glory"

04-16-2013, 12:43 AM	#9
FuckingRotter The Fist of Fury. Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Entering the.... Posts: 9,649 Reputation: 118903	What if the attacker is all the positive, attractive things mentioned? He could have the girl for the price of a bit of charm and maybe dinner or a couple of drinks. Instead he chooses to just take what he wants. Would a victim be more repulsed by him after that? __________________ Fist is a four letter word. So is fist, fist, fist, fist, fist, fist fist, fist, fist, fist, fist, and, well you get the fist-fucking picture.... THE WESTCOUNTRY SHALL RISE AGAIN! Yay! It's pink! Don't think.... FEEL! We're Englishmen, and we came here, to rape your women and drink your beer. I went back in time and voted for Hitler. Pouring oil on troubled waters since 2008. Then lighting a fucking match.

04-15-2013, 02:55 PM	#5
jwham Privileged Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: USA Posts: 1,007 Reputation: 23285	In the fantasy stories I have written some rapist were repulsive in appearance to their victims. In other stores the rapist was a man who was not physically repulsive to the victim. The common ground shared by both styles of rapist in my stories, be they ugly or handsome was, the victim was equally repulsed not because of his looks, but by the dirty deeds done to her by him.

04-15-2013, 06:40 PM	#6
Dangerdevil Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Apopka, FL Posts: 185 Reputation: 4110	I've always gotten the sense that for most women's rape fantasies the physical appearance of the rapist is far less important than the victim's appearance is to men. I also get the sense that for most women, they're far more "attracted" to a rapist who is physically and mentally powerful, one who has the self-confidence and strength to take what he wants rather than one who can get attention based on his physical beauty.

04-16-2013, 01:03 AM	#10
Sierra Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Northern California Posts: 1,625 Reputation: 129196	Interesting. I never imagine faces or even bodies for my fantasy rapists, except they must be big (to overpower me, of course) and they must be hairy. None of these sissy shaved boys for this girl! Rather funny that the PC Police call rape fantasy the ultimate objectification of women but in fact it's the other way round. It doesn't really matter about the guy, either in fantasy or in porn. Most guys in porn - even decent porn - are not guys I would be at all attracted to IRL but that doesn't get in the way. He just supplies the cock. Now if they can just find some girl who doesn't automatically open her mouth when she sees a cock, I'd actually download it. __________________ Although the most incisive judges of the witches and even the witches themselves were convinced of the guilt of witchcraft, this guilt nevertheless did not exist. Thus it is with all guilt.

04-16-2013, 02:16 AM	#11
FuckingRotter The Fist of Fury. Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Entering the.... Posts: 9,649 Reputation: 118903	I've met such a girl Sierra. __________________ Fist is a four letter word. So is fist, fist, fist, fist, fist, fist fist, fist, fist, fist, fist, and, well you get the fist-fucking picture.... THE WESTCOUNTRY SHALL RISE AGAIN! Yay! It's pink! Don't think.... FEEL! We're Englishmen, and we came here, to rape your women and drink your beer. I went back in time and voted for Hitler. Pouring oil on troubled waters since 2008. Then lighting a fucking match.

04-16-2013, 02:47 AM	#12
Jaybee Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2013 Posts: 24 Reputation: 24	Very much depends on my opinion of the rapee. If she is a particularly loathsome girl, then I'd want the precise opposite of her desires for her. I'd call around her friends, pretending to be from a stripper agency, ask what kind of build/face she doesn't want, then act appropriately. And he'd ensure there's some blood on the leaves. If this is a vengeance rape, I'll have have him up the ante and play a psycho prison escapee or something. If she is a good lass then...why isn't it ME doing the raping??!!? In any case I'd research as above, but of course ensure she gets a hot hunk, be he bad or good guy, and that he fella is adept at bringing her to orgasms.

04-16-2013, 02:47 AM	#13
perfectlyformed Living Sextoy Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: London, UK Posts: 3,500 Reputation: 103987	I often use people I know or have known as "models" in my fantasies. Interestingly I tend to go for larger and more phyically powerful men. Not bodybuilder types exclusivley (although those are nice ) ) but also manual types of guys. They are also generally much older than me although again younger men may feature as well. So oddly as in real life the victim often knows her attacker x __________________ -- Fear is a four letter word. So is rape, fuck, knot, anal, hump, nuts, lick, clit shag, blow, bend, hard, deep, cunt, slut, bang, tits, dick, oral, used, easy, suck, cock, arse, slap, hold, fist and gang. So all the good ones basically..... x

04-16-2013, 09:51 AM	#15
GermanChick Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2013 Location: The South Posts: 188 Reputation: 7146	My attacker almost never has a face, I never use 'celebrities' or people I know - I've come to think that maybe that would make it more 'real' to me and be a bit too close for comfort, thus being a turn off. They are never the younger type (even though my story I posted here is exactly the type of Rape that FR speaks of, the good looking guy that takes what he wants) - Usually I'm attracted to men that are older than me (late 40's and 50's +) that are in a position of power and abuse that power or the trust I've placed in them. The physical characteristics in my mind are fairly realistic I think - they are not 'pretty boys' by far, but rather real men with a bit of extra weight and maybe a thinning hairline. IRL I'm not attracted by 'pretty' boys either - so I guess my fantasy rapist is the same kind of man I'm attracted to IRL.

04-16-2013, 08:49 PM	#17
Hume L. Yates Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 187 Reputation: 2767	I envision about as many different types of perpetrators as I have fantasies. Since most of my fantasies are more about humiliation than physical power, I usually go with the man (men) that the woman will be the most HUMILIATED by having to have sex with, NOT the ones she is most REPULSED by. For example, of the woman is mature, or perhaps a schoolteacher, her attackers are likely much younger, and usually smaller. For a younger woman, it might be an older man in a position of authority. For a classy woman, it's a crude blue-collar man or bum. For a confidant popular woman, it might be the hairless wimp that peeps at and sexually blackmails her. For an insulated suburban woman, it might be a minority. But I do make exceptions one way or another. I have this really big, obese step-nephew that I thought I caught checking out his step-aunt once, and I imagine this big fat disguisting dude climbing on top of her on a bed with old-fashioned springs, and bouncing her all over as his fat covers her and sweats on her. On the other side, I've imagined a female sideline or locker room sports reporter getting trapped by a bunch of athletes in the showers and raped, and they may not necessarily be handsome but they are young and well-built.

04-20-2013, 06:00 AM	#19
Need2BOwned Privileged Member Join Date: Apr 2013 Location: Northeast GA USA Posts: 666 Reputation: 5682	Guess I'm not so "odd" after all. lol! When fantasizing about my own rape, I don't visualize the face. He must be bigger than me and physically and mentally more powerful than I am. He is always in a position of power and not interested in "one time only", but repeated humiliations over time. I love the thought of being completely broken down and being dependent on my rapist for all of my needs.