How many people here are masochists? - Page 2 - Rape Board

Jezebel · 05-24-2007, 05:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Ntense

Naw, I'm on the prowl for a switch..."

So you're looking for a sub? I would imagine there would be a fair share of both subs and doms in women. I of course would have no idea, as I've never really searched for either, but judging from a woman's phsyche, I would think that as far as women INTO that kind of thing it would be about equal.

I'm pretty much willing to at least consider doing anything once...and possibly more than once.

MADDOGMCMANAMAN · 05-26-2007, 01:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Ntense

Naw, I'm on the prowl for a switch... which is a tiny minority on the dating sites I'm on. Best match so far was a 7 hour drive away, and she was as frustrated as I am... Damn. Looks like the few ladies that flag DOM are all pros, or nearly all of 'em. I'm *not* into being someone's house slave, thanks!

My moods, tastes and interests change regularly, so it's a lot more fun if my partner does, too. It's a guy's perogative to change his mind! And always follow The Golden Rule: DO unto others as you'd have them DO unto you.

Or "Turnabout is fair play..."

lol hey i didnt read ur post right and i thought u was on the prowl for a witch lol...which would be a tiny minority lol

MarcEdeSade · 08-06-2007, 06:18 AM

Oh hell, I'm with Ntense...I pray that some bitch I'm abusing grabs my sack, drops me to my knees and "gets creative"

MarcEdeSade · 08-06-2007, 06:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Jezebel

So you're looking for a sub? I would imagine there would be a fair share of both subs and doms in women. I of course would have no idea, as I've never really searched for either, but judging from a woman's phsyche, I would think that as far as women INTO that kind of thing it would be about equal.

I'm pretty much willing to at least consider doing anything once...and possibly more than once.

no, dear...someone who you abuse but have to watch your back because she's always looking for that oppurtunity...that weakness, and when she finds it, when your guard's down, she's going to make you pay in kind for her pain and humiliation. oh hell. that's so fucking hot.

Bound and Gagging · 08-06-2007, 11:36 AM

I'm a masochist. I love being slapped, choked, and beaten/flogged. I actually bought my b/f a flogger for Christmas last year! lol And since I noticed piercings mentioned earlier I have a few myself though not entirely for the pain (tongue, nipples, and navel).

nekonoire · 08-26-2007, 09:50 AM

I am!
I actively seek both mental and physical pain (including humiliation.)
I've been lucky with my 'circle' - half can dom, half can sub, and of them half will happily switch between the two. Around half are at least somewhat masochistic, and we've got a couple of extreme dommes. It's great - it's like one great big open relationship.

jennysub · 09-08-2007, 06:39 PM

I am a masochist I love my man to call me horrible names, force me to do things against my wiil, I love being slapped, hair pulled, love being thrown around and slammed against the wall. I love to be roughed up sexually.

vtxxxr · 09-09-2007, 01:15 PM

Mmmm, would help you with that Jenny!!

shysnale · 09-13-2007, 04:06 AM

If I'm a masochist then I'm not aware of it.
Maybe I bring back dark memories from the past just because It gives me a head spin. It would be that kind of masochism with me...if there's more I just don't know about it.

Ntense · 09-13-2007, 04:48 PM

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Originally Posted by jennysub

I love to be roughed up sexually.

A gal after my own heart! Does your grandma live near Texas?

I'm a genuine slut, though. Sadist, masochist, top, bottom, part-time Dom and sub both... I want it *all*.
If I were bi & poly I'd be able to plug into just about any situation.

DAMN! I forgot to mention rope!

jennysub · 09-18-2007, 07:52 AM

I love men you are in complete control

blupheat · 09-29-2007, 05:15 AM

I guess i'm a true masochist because i love being kicked in the balls, having them slowly squeezed, tighter and tighter then punched. I had this done to me by a girl that my friend fixed me up with when i went out west to visit him. i never thought of myself that way but they got me pretty fucked up and then she slowly did some reallly painful acts to me. inside i must have been holding it inbecause after that night, i've been into it ever since and some even more sick stuff.

Master's Pet · 10-02-2007, 11:19 PM

I am certainly a masochist, I've known it since I was 14. Though it's not the pain that directly gives me pleasure, but the fact that someone is giving it to me. I mean, pain still hurts. But I like being under control, whether sumbissive or fighting back. My boyfriend has permission to push me beyond my limits, and I enjoy being choked, smacked, bitten, etc. Some knife play and bondage, but no blood or electricity or "hard core" stuff.

I could only ever imagine being dominant with my ex, I think it's because he was somewhat immature and effeminate. A real sweetheart though. I wouldn't have minded making him shout, seeing a look of fear on his face.

nekonoire · 10-03-2007, 06:41 AM

Me!
Definitely. And *please* make sure you humiliate me while you're at it.

I've been interested in being a 'permanent' sub for a few years now too, but I'm not so sure about a 'contract' - I mean, I don't want to be getting sick, but I don't want to be creating too many limitations I may later regret.

cryptic · 10-03-2007, 08:39 AM

Does it count as masochism if you don't actually like pain?

i mean, i really like the idea that somebody is enjoying inflicting the pain...i'm intrigued by the thought that somebody would be deriving pleasure not only in spite of my pain, but because of it.

Is that masochism, in a different kinda way?

Master's Pet · 10-03-2007, 06:03 PM

Yes cryptic, that is a form of masochism. Wanting to be hurt, humiliated, controlled, etc in any mental or physical way, regardless of the reason.

dreamgirl · 10-19-2007, 06:08 PM

any doms who i've spoken with refer to me as a switch, because while i fantasize about being a slave/sub, i have a tendency to challenge authority with intellect and i'm physically defiant in dreams. often, i experience fantasies where i am dominating another girl (or being dominated by one), too, but having to pin down a man or dominate him is a turn off. any situation in videos like that automatically reduce my sexually interest.

masochism is a fine line for me. i'm not a "true" sm fan because the more extreme forms, i don't really find appealing. however, the thought of being kept as a slave for rough sex, whipping, spanking, smacking, forced anal, etc, well...i think i have to go take care of something now. ;]

Ntense · 10-20-2007, 01:58 AM

Ignore the hard-liners, you're a true fan (as are bunch of us!)

I like to bottom once in a while, but that does NOT mean I'll let some shithead burn their initials into me. Hard limit on the strap-ons as well, and any form of scarification. WAY more than half of people don't understand the first fucking thing about sanitary conditions*, so needle & knife play is right out.

You don't have to be a glutton to enjoy food...

* how many people do YOU see wash their hands in public restrooms? I want to wear a hazmat suit into most restrooms!

Sierra · 12-17-2007, 02:37 PM

I can't imagine switching roles with the same person. I can be creatively nasty with another submissive, but even the thought of switching roles with my current Mistress makes my hands shake and OMG I hope she can't read this.

bizaruk · 12-18-2007, 05:49 AM

for what its worth - i tried Topping when first discovering S/m, was no good at it, nor was i any good on the occasions i have tried since. my attitude and skillset do not suit the Dominant role. Having said that, i am not a servant typoe, more an object for physical, mental, emotional and sexual abuse, all for the pleasure of the Dom/me/s. i have no taboos, and set no unreasonable limits (i ask to survive without SERIOUS permanent disfigurement or injuries), which while apparently idiotic, has not caused me to regret this approach over the past 25+ years (well, not on reflection - i often regret it once the action starts, and it is too late to back out!). As i have posted previously in this thread, i am psychologically, emotionally and philosophically a true masochist, but sadly i am a wimp physically. Hence i cannot be permitted any limits, safe words or "escape clauses" - that is the only way it can work for me. i have been branded, cut, pierced, sewn, burned, even stabbed, as well as whipped, caned, flogged and paddled, with hardly a permanent memento of the occasion, and i am always ready to submit to Sadists, not knowing, nor even needing to know, what is going to happen to me.

08-06-2007, 06:18 AM	#23
MarcEdeSade Amoralist Libertine Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 391 Reputation: 1262	Oh hell, I'm with Ntense...I pray that some bitch I'm abusing grabs my sack, drops me to my knees and "gets creative" __________________ Pain is inevitable....suffering is optional

08-06-2007, 11:36 AM	#25
Bound and Gagging Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: US Posts: 32 Reputation: 34	I'm a masochist. I love being slapped, choked, and beaten/flogged. I actually bought my b/f a flogger for Christmas last year! lol And since I noticed piercings mentioned earlier I have a few myself though not entirely for the pain (tongue, nipples, and navel). __________________ * I just found everything I need. The sweat in your eyes, the blood in your veins are listening to me. *

09-18-2007, 07:52 AM	#31
jennysub Privileged Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 192 Reputation: 63	I love men you are in complete control __________________ jennybound@yahoo.ca

09-29-2007, 05:15 AM	#32
blupheat Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Florida Posts: 6 Reputation: 10	A true masochist I guess i'm a true masochist because i love being kicked in the balls, having them slowly squeezed, tighter and tighter then punched. I had this done to me by a girl that my friend fixed me up with when i went out west to visit him. i never thought of myself that way but they got me pretty fucked up and then she slowly did some reallly painful acts to me. inside i must have been holding it inbecause after that night, i've been into it ever since and some even more sick stuff. __________________ BluPHeat - There's no such thing as too perverted ...

10-03-2007, 08:39 AM	#35
cryptic Trapped by the darkness Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 339 Reputation: 3938	Does it count as masochism if you don't actually like pain? i mean, i really like the idea that somebody is enjoying inflicting the pain...i'm intrigued by the thought that somebody would be deriving pleasure not only in spite of my pain, but because of it. Is that masochism, in a different kinda way? __________________ "I don't know what you've done to me But I know this much is true I want to do bad things with you..." - True Blood themesong "So hungry For the one understanding Looking for a token Of blood or tenderness..." - Suzanne Vega Anal rapists are fucking assholes.

08-26-2007, 09:50 AM	#26
nekonoire Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Australia Posts: 30 Reputation: 92	I am! I actively seek both mental and physical pain (including humiliation.) I've been lucky with my 'circle' - half can dom, half can sub, and of them half will happily switch between the two. Around half are at least somewhat masochistic, and we've got a couple of extreme dommes. It's great - it's like one great big open relationship.

09-08-2007, 06:39 PM	#27
jennysub Privileged Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 192 Reputation: 63	I am a masochist I love my man to call me horrible names, force me to do things against my wiil, I love being slapped, hair pulled, love being thrown around and slammed against the wall. I love to be roughed up sexually.

09-09-2007, 01:15 PM	#28
vtxxxr Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 52 Reputation: 134	Mmmm, would help you with that Jenny!!

09-13-2007, 04:06 AM	#29
shysnale Neurotic Escargot Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Poker Table Posts: 2,754 Reputation: 13179	If I'm a masochist then I'm not aware of it. Maybe I bring back dark memories from the past just because It gives me a head spin. It would be that kind of masochism with me...if there's more I just don't know about it.

10-02-2007, 11:19 PM	#33
Master's Pet Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 45 Reputation: 23	I am certainly a masochist, I've known it since I was 14. Though it's not the pain that directly gives me pleasure, but the fact that someone is giving it to me. I mean, pain still hurts. But I like being under control, whether sumbissive or fighting back. My boyfriend has permission to push me beyond my limits, and I enjoy being choked, smacked, bitten, etc. Some knife play and bondage, but no blood or electricity or "hard core" stuff. I could only ever imagine being dominant with my ex, I think it's because he was somewhat immature and effeminate. A real sweetheart though. I wouldn't have minded making him shout, seeing a look of fear on his face.

10-03-2007, 06:41 AM	#34
nekonoire Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Australia Posts: 30 Reputation: 92	Me! Definitely. And please make sure you humiliate me while you're at it. I've been interested in being a 'permanent' sub for a few years now too, but I'm not so sure about a 'contract' - I mean, I don't want to be getting sick, but I don't want to be creating too many limitations I may later regret.

10-03-2007, 06:03 PM	#36
Master's Pet Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 45 Reputation: 23	Yes cryptic, that is a form of masochism. Wanting to be hurt, humiliated, controlled, etc in any mental or physical way, regardless of the reason.

10-19-2007, 06:08 PM	#37
dreamgirl Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: east coast Posts: 45 Reputation: 66	any doms who i've spoken with refer to me as a switch, because while i fantasize about being a slave/sub, i have a tendency to challenge authority with intellect and i'm physically defiant in dreams. often, i experience fantasies where i am dominating another girl (or being dominated by one), too, but having to pin down a man or dominate him is a turn off. any situation in videos like that automatically reduce my sexually interest. masochism is a fine line for me. i'm not a "true" sm fan because the more extreme forms, i don't really find appealing. however, the thought of being kept as a slave for rough sex, whipping, spanking, smacking, forced anal, etc, well...i think i have to go take care of something now. ;]

10-20-2007, 01:58 AM	#38
Ntense Privileged Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Texass Posts: 688 Reputation: 541	Ignore the hard-liners, you're a true fan (as are bunch of us!) I like to bottom once in a while, but that does NOT mean I'll let some shithead burn their initials into me. Hard limit on the strap-ons as well, and any form of scarification. WAY more than half of people don't understand the first fucking thing about sanitary conditions, so needle & knife play is right out. You don't have to be a glutton to enjoy food... how many people do YOU see wash their hands in public restrooms? I want to wear a hazmat suit into most restrooms! __________________ Character is what you are in the dark... John Whorfin

12-17-2007, 02:37 PM	#39
Sierra Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Northern California Posts: 1,625 Reputation: 129196	I can't imagine switching roles with the same person. I can be creatively nasty with another submissive, but even the thought of switching roles with my current Mistress makes my hands shake and OMG I hope she can't read this.

12-18-2007, 05:49 AM	#40
bizaruk Privileged Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: UK based, working in Asia Posts: 11 Reputation: 10	for what its worth - i tried Topping when first discovering S/m, was no good at it, nor was i any good on the occasions i have tried since. my attitude and skillset do not suit the Dominant role. Having said that, i am not a servant typoe, more an object for physical, mental, emotional and sexual abuse, all for the pleasure of the Dom/me/s. i have no taboos, and set no unreasonable limits (i ask to survive without SERIOUS permanent disfigurement or injuries), which while apparently idiotic, has not caused me to regret this approach over the past 25+ years (well, not on reflection - i often regret it once the action starts, and it is too late to back out!). As i have posted previously in this thread, i am psychologically, emotionally and philosophically a true masochist, but sadly i am a wimp physically. Hence i cannot be permitted any limits, safe words or "escape clauses" - that is the only way it can work for me. i have been branded, cut, pierced, sewn, burned, even stabbed, as well as whipped, caned, flogged and paddled, with hardly a permanent memento of the occasion, and i am always ready to submit to Sadists, not knowing, nor even needing to know, what is going to happen to me. __________________ being bisexual doubles your chances of a date on Saturday night - Woody Allen