how to bring up incest to my boyfriend - Rape Board

rapefantasygirl · 04-13-2007, 10:14 PM

I am in a relationship with a reasonably sane guy, which is why I have a problem. I really want my boyfriend to act like my father for me when we have sex, not all the time, but every once in awhile would be great. i have a huge fetish for older men and although he is only 11 years older than me I still get off on thinking about being his dirty little daughter who he has to teach a lesson to.

i dont think he will go for it. he told me about a girl that asked to pee on him once, and the same girl wanted him to "rape" her, and he turned down both opportunities. i have tried to provoke him into hitting and slapping me but that doesn't work either.

am i doomed? i really want to play this...

sillyjunior2000 · 04-14-2007, 12:15 PM

Why dont you try asking him whether he has any dark fantasies ? That should set the ball rolling a bit; maybe you could really induce those thoughts by continuous hammering of some dark fantasies

All the best

and if he still doesn't agree.... go ahead, ask me.

bitchslap · 04-15-2007, 02:54 PM

The fantasy stuff is probably where you want to go with this...if you do something for him then maybe he'd be open to some incest role-play. Thing is, if the guy isn't into hitting girls and likes vanilla sex, then he probably won't be into an incest angle at all.

I found a post somewhere else from a "sane guy" point of view, might help you out a bit: http://www.poe-news.com/forums/sp.ph...&pi=1001423934

insignia0 · 04-15-2007, 03:11 PM

try doing some other roleplay to see if he is open to expirement, dont jsut dive right in there. maybe like a dr and nurse or a teacher and a studen to see if he is open to it and if u both like it go form there. take small steps not one huge one

rapefantasygirl · 04-16-2007, 08:24 PM

well last night we did a schoolgirl/principal thing. that was fun...more humorous than sexy really...does anyone want to RP this with me instead? i have pictures. someone RP either father or cousin with me

silent1 · 04-18-2007, 04:19 PM

hairpulling.. that's what got me. i was dating this girl that LOVED it when i would pull her hair and she would show me how to do it. and from there it was just a natural progression to more aggressive sex.

rapefantasygirl · 04-18-2007, 08:15 PM

yeah, im working on the aggression thing...i almost have him convinced to start slapping me in the face, choking, etc...he still holds back but i just like seeing the progression. its almost like seducing a virgin. itll probably take years before i can get him to give me what i REALLY want...

but i think the roleplay thing is a little different. being aggressive and being incestuous are two different things you know? i think this one will require more of a psychological makeover...

Darkman · 04-25-2007, 10:32 PM

yeah and the old fart might pop his clogs by then...

bruisedelbows · 04-25-2007, 11:25 PM

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Originally Posted by bitchslap

I found a post somewhere else from a "sane guy" point of view, might help you out a bit: http://www.poe-news.com/forums/sp.ph...&pi=1001423934

This seems like the "incredibly boring and vaguely judgmental guy" point of view to me. I once met a girl with some real father issues who said she wanted to call me daddy while we had sex but she was actually too embarrassed to. If only...

fl_male · 05-10-2007, 03:56 PM

Rapefantasygirl,

Interesting ideas... Would you like to chat???

slick1 · 09-21-2007, 12:44 AM

wow that sucks..i used to do that all the time w/ my ex gf...it was hot

Horny dad · 09-21-2007, 08:19 AM

He dosent know what hes missing

jennysub · 09-21-2007, 08:43 AM

Just communicate your desires at time when you are both not focused on something. If he doesn't go for it ask him why? If the rest of the relationship is wonderful can you live without him fufilling your sexual desires? If the relationship isn't strong now and he doesn't go for your fantasies maybe the relationship isn't ment to be.

unbalanced · 09-26-2007, 03:07 PM

perhaps you might consider an affair. After all as a man I know I have my wife/babygirl who calls me daddy and then I have my mistresses/rape pigs. If it's not who he is, your not going to change that, either he's an alpha male or he's not. Just as a whore may not make a great wife, a sadistic rapist might not make the best hubby.

04-13-2007, 10:14 PM	#1
rapefantasygirl Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Ohio Posts: 40 Reputation: -1	how to bring up incest to my boyfriend I am in a relationship with a reasonably sane guy, which is why I have a problem. I really want my boyfriend to act like my father for me when we have sex, not all the time, but every once in awhile would be great. i have a huge fetish for older men and although he is only 11 years older than me I still get off on thinking about being his dirty little daughter who he has to teach a lesson to. i dont think he will go for it. he told me about a girl that asked to pee on him once, and the same girl wanted him to "rape" her, and he turned down both opportunities. i have tried to provoke him into hitting and slapping me but that doesn't work either. am i doomed? i really want to play this...

04-15-2007, 03:11 PM	#4
insignia0 Privileged Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: uk Posts: 171 Reputation: 692	try doing some other roleplay to see if he is open to expirement, dont jsut dive right in there. maybe like a dr and nurse or a teacher and a studen to see if he is open to it and if u both like it go form there. take small steps not one huge one __________________ I'm not afraid of death. It's the stake one puts up in order to play the game of life.

04-18-2007, 08:15 PM	#7
rapefantasygirl Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Ohio Posts: 40 Reputation: -1	yeah but... yeah, im working on the aggression thing...i almost have him convinced to start slapping me in the face, choking, etc...he still holds back but i just like seeing the progression. its almost like seducing a virgin. itll probably take years before i can get him to give me what i REALLY want... but i think the roleplay thing is a little different. being aggressive and being incestuous are two different things you know? i think this one will require more of a psychological makeover...

04-25-2007, 10:32 PM	#8
Darkman its all give and take Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Manchester UK Posts: 688 Reputation: 179	yeah and the old fart might pop his clogs by then... __________________ just do it

05-10-2007, 03:56 PM	#10
fl_male Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Florida Posts: 19 Reputation: 109	Rapefantasygirl, Interesting ideas... Would you like to chat??? __________________ It is in the eyes...

04-14-2007, 12:15 PM	#2
sillyjunior2000 Privileged Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 238 Reputation: 174	Why dont you try asking him whether he has any dark fantasies ? That should set the ball rolling a bit; maybe you could really induce those thoughts by continuous hammering of some dark fantasies All the best and if he still doesn't agree.... go ahead, ask me.

04-15-2007, 02:54 PM	#3
bitchslap Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 1 Reputation: 10	The fantasy stuff is probably where you want to go with this...if you do something for him then maybe he'd be open to some incest role-play. Thing is, if the guy isn't into hitting girls and likes vanilla sex, then he probably won't be into an incest angle at all. I found a post somewhere else from a "sane guy" point of view, might help you out a bit: http://www.poe-news.com/forums/sp.ph...&pi=1001423934

04-16-2007, 08:24 PM	#5
rapefantasygirl Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Ohio Posts: 40 Reputation: -1	well last night we did a schoolgirl/principal thing. that was fun...more humorous than sexy really...does anyone want to RP this with me instead? i have pictures. someone RP either father or cousin with me

04-18-2007, 04:19 PM	#6
silent1 Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Posts: 6 Reputation: 10	hairpulling.. that's what got me. i was dating this girl that LOVED it when i would pull her hair and she would show me how to do it. and from there it was just a natural progression to more aggressive sex.

09-21-2007, 12:44 AM	#11
slick1 Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 6 Reputation: 22	wow that sucks..i used to do that all the time w/ my ex gf...it was hot

09-21-2007, 08:19 AM	#12
Horny dad Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 10 Reputation: 10	He dosent know what hes missing

09-21-2007, 08:43 AM	#13
jennysub Privileged Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 192 Reputation: 63	Just communicate your desires at time when you are both not focused on something. If he doesn't go for it ask him why? If the rest of the relationship is wonderful can you live without him fufilling your sexual desires? If the relationship isn't strong now and he doesn't go for your fantasies maybe the relationship isn't ment to be. __________________ jennybound@yahoo.ca

09-26-2007, 03:07 PM	#14
unbalanced Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 76 Reputation: 57	perhaps you might consider an affair. After all as a man I know I have my wife/babygirl who calls me daddy and then I have my mistresses/rape pigs. If it's not who he is, your not going to change that, either he's an alpha male or he's not. Just as a whore may not make a great wife, a sadistic rapist might not make the best hubby. __________________ ...living the dream... Last edited by unbalanced; 09-26-2007 at 03:10 PM.