How often has rp crossed over the limits? - Rape Board

Joanna · 11-22-2006, 11:28 PM

If your a roleplay victim how often (either online or offline RP) has your partner crossed over your limits?

if your a roleplay perp how often have you had your victim say you have gone beyond her or even his limits?

11-23-2006, 12:07 AM

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gaggirl · 11-23-2006, 12:15 AM

I have had it happen where I was tied up and he was trying to fist me *ouch* I had to use my safe word, but he kept going I was ropable when he untied me and though we had dome some rape roleplays and stuff before that, I never played with him again.

All the other times the guys wre too scared to do anything untoward lol

how about yourself Joanna?

11-23-2006, 12:22 AM

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Originally Posted by gaggirl

I have had it happen where I was tied up and he was trying to fist me *ouch* I had to use my safe word, but he kept going I was ropable when he untied me and though we had dome some rape roleplays and stuff before that, I never played with him again.

All the other times the guys wre too scared to do anything untoward lol

how about yourself Joanna?

gaggirl..how do u feel about that experience?

gaggirl · 11-23-2006, 02:24 AM

Hmmm.... Hard one to put into words. I dont look back on it with any good feelings. I tried very hard to to not use my safe word, so up to that point hed already pushed alot of my limits.. some parts of what I never thought I'd allow someone to do were pleasurable. but it got to the point where it was excruciating and therefore becamse a bonafide nono... and once I use my safe word, I expect that soemone who knows I can play fairly hard would have to respect my use of one.. he didnt.

Im not angry about it now.. *shrug* it happened.. i guess as a charactr he was a bit shifty to begin with.. but I was sick of the vanillery boys at the time and thought a hard edged ex crim type might be the way to go
WRONG

I agree with you there is a righ way and a wrong way to push limits!!

Sternenlied · 11-23-2006, 08:08 AM

Well, real-life roleplay I only do with guys I trust.
And I never excuse someone stepping over limits we agreed on. I always tell the guys if they're ever to cross any limits they're out for good!
Everyone respected that untill now so it never happened in real-life roleplay.
As for online RP - see my post about playing online RP.

Throatdagger · 11-23-2006, 10:21 AM

I only do online role plays not real life role playing. I have been told once that I was getting into her uncomfortable zone. If you have chatted before hand, a person can get a feeling for the limits. One gal that I chat with is not into rape as rape; just forceful sex. I just sensed that from the chats.

Joanna · 11-23-2006, 08:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gaggirl

I have had it happen where I was tied up and he was trying to fist me *ouch* I had to use my safe word, but he kept going I was ropable when he untied me and though we had dome some rape roleplays and stuff before that, I never played with him again.

All the other times the guys wre too scared to do anything untoward lol

how about yourself Joanna?

well since I have never done online or offline roleplay the answer is never LOL
btw anyone know why Tanya has been editing out all of her posts????

gaggirl · 11-23-2006, 09:25 PM

No Joanna.. she msged me on yahoo but hasnt explained anything... I know about as much as you do!

Jasmine · 11-27-2006, 01:20 AM

I have had a couple of guys go beyond the prediscussed limits in online rp. I went out of character and told them, they kept on going. I said, I signed off and never spoke with them again.

11-22-2006, 11:28 PM	#1
Joanna token average person lol Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 441 Reputation: 267	How often has rp crossed over the limits? If your a roleplay victim how often (either online or offline RP) has your partner crossed over your limits? if your a roleplay perp how often have you had your victim say you have gone beyond her or even his limits?

11-23-2006, 12:07 AM	#2
Tanya Guest Posts: n/a	asf Last edited by Tanya; 11-23-2006 at 06:13 PM.

11-23-2006, 08:08 AM	#6
Sternenlied Unknown Entity Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Niflheim Posts: 2,427 Reputation: 77819	Well, real-life roleplay I only do with guys I trust. And I never excuse someone stepping over limits we agreed on. I always tell the guys if they're ever to cross any limits they're out for good! Everyone respected that untill now so it never happened in real-life roleplay. As for online RP - see my post about playing online RP. __________________ The Life and Death of Sam Crow - How the Sons of Anarchy lost their way

11-23-2006, 12:15 AM	#3
gaggirl * yawn * Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 3,058 Reputation: 40178	I have had it happen where I was tied up and he was trying to fist me ouch I had to use my safe word, but he kept going I was ropable when he untied me and though we had dome some rape roleplays and stuff before that, I never played with him again. All the other times the guys wre too scared to do anything untoward lol how about yourself Joanna?

11-23-2006, 02:24 AM	#5
gaggirl * yawn * Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 3,058 Reputation: 40178	Hmmm.... Hard one to put into words. I dont look back on it with any good feelings. I tried very hard to to not use my safe word, so up to that point hed already pushed alot of my limits.. some parts of what I never thought I'd allow someone to do were pleasurable. but it got to the point where it was excruciating and therefore becamse a bonafide nono... and once I use my safe word, I expect that soemone who knows I can play fairly hard would have to respect my use of one.. he didnt. Im not angry about it now.. shrug it happened.. i guess as a charactr he was a bit shifty to begin with.. but I was sick of the vanillery boys at the time and thought a hard edged ex crim type might be the way to go WRONG I agree with you there is a righ way and a wrong way to push limits!!

11-23-2006, 10:21 AM	#7
Throatdagger Certified Boob Inspector Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Mid Atlantic Posts: 2,069 Reputation: 9789	I only do online role plays not real life role playing. I have been told once that I was getting into her uncomfortable zone. If you have chatted before hand, a person can get a feeling for the limits. One gal that I chat with is not into rape as rape; just forceful sex. I just sensed that from the chats.

11-23-2006, 09:25 PM	#9
gaggirl * yawn * Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 3,058 Reputation: 40178	No Joanna.. she msged me on yahoo but hasnt explained anything... I know about as much as you do!

11-27-2006, 01:20 AM	#10
Jasmine Privileged Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Posts: 2,352 Reputation: 20045	I have had a couple of guys go beyond the prediscussed limits in online rp. I went out of character and told them, they kept on going. I said, I signed off and never spoke with them again.