Reasons for rape fantasies ? - Rape Board

college_gurl · 09-27-2009, 08:00 PM

Hi All,
I'm a little curious as to why so many men have rape fantasies. What is it about rape that you like so much ? Is it the feeling of control or just the thought of humiliating a girl for being bitchy. I know some guys like rape fantasies but not so much Bondage and S&M ? I was curious to know your thoughts..
What do you enjoy most about the fantasy ?

mission_extreme · 09-27-2009, 11:57 PM

the thought that the girl did not want it to happen. and that I am using my power to control her and use her as I wish.

Flesh4Fantasy · 09-28-2009, 07:04 PM

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Originally Posted by college_gurl

Hi All,
I'm a little curious as to why so many men have rape fantasies. What is it about rape that you like so much ? Is it the feeling of control or just the thought of humiliating a girl for being bitchy. I know some guys like rape fantasies but not so much Bondage and S&M ? I was curious to know your thoughts..
What do you enjoy most about the fantasy ?

Ha - there I am backwards... I don't think about rape so often as some B&D scenario where she is my willing toy and I take advantage of that surrender. My desire is to prove to her that she is much better off when she allows me to take charge of her sexuality...

Control and humiliations abound, to be sure.

I prefer for her to willingly submit and give me carte blanche to exercise my perverted desires upon her flesh. I delight in surprising her with devious, inventive torments to make her quiver ecstatically. Alternating tender, passionate interludes with degradation, humiliation and deviant experimentation.

college_gurl · 09-29-2009, 06:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Flesh4Fantasy

Ha - there I am backwards... I don't think about rape so often as some B&D scenario where she is my willing toy and I take advantage of that surrender. My desire is to prove to her that she is much better off when she allows me to take charge of her sexuality...

Ok, you're more into Bondage then

Control and humiliations abound, to be sure.

I prefer for her to willingly submit and give me carte blanche to exercise my perverted desires upon her flesh. I delight in surprising her with devious, inventive torments to make her quiver ecstatically. Alternating tender, passionate interludes with degradation, humiliation and deviant experimentation.

- Yes, I love the unpredictability too !!

cleancode · 09-30-2009, 07:34 PM

I've been thinking about this same thing for a while, especially while I explore roleplay and writing stories. And it varies depending on the type of fantasy-

One on one (sleeping, drugged, cornered, etc) : I like these the most because there is no..niceities. There is no making sure I kiss her, or please her as well (not that its not fun

), or being satisfying. Especially none of "I wonder what she is thinking about me". Its just me. absolute. Its like dropping all your clothes before you get into a good shower. I can truly enjoy the heaven that is a woman. In these scenarios its not about abusing her body. Its about savoring it.

Gangrape: It is about absolute control. Her world no longer consists of the bed and 4 walls, or the things around her. Its the three men surrounding her, and the man behind her ass. I know its strange, but its the idea of a whore. Deep down, there is a part of every man that cannot resist a whore. its that simple.
Furthermore, its enjoyable if she 'deserved it' (was teasing, being a bitch). We all have met or know some girl(s) who is a bitch. And a primal instinct is that a mean girl deserves retaliation. If she's a mean tease or unfaithful or a bitch in anyway, you want to lash back. Rape is not only a retaliation, but sort of putting in her place (not to say that women are lower than men). Think of it; When guys thinks he's better than another guy, they think they're bigger than you (in skill, power, or respect). So you beat him senseless or deprive him of power to show him he's not bigger than you.
When a girl thinks she's better than a guy, she says either "you are not worthy of me" or "You are not worth interacting with". So by taking her, you show she is at your level, and force her to interact with you. (which is why to a true rapist no means yes).

Well, thats atleast what I've worked out so far.

mco · 10-01-2009, 07:12 AM

In essence I agree completely with both F4F and Cleancode. It's a matter of putting her to place, making sure she's willing of being the whore you want her to be. So, in a way I want her not to want it, but want her to give in willfully, knowing that I'll make use of her anyways.

So, BDSM rather than rape, but rape being the driving force that I want her to experience.

Do I make any sense?

college_gurl · 10-07-2009, 01:22 PM

yes, everybody has different fantasies and interests, but rape some how ties into every one's interest.
Clean: I like it when you said, "but sort of putting in her place (not to say that women are lower than men)." good to know you can respect girls, but still rape

crimsondesire · 10-11-2009, 06:04 AM

The rape I would enjoy in real life would prove to be romantic in some way.
An obsession to the point of insanity,ultimate desire, wanted to the point it becomes a dream to them. Rape in my fantasies can be unromantic and what I like about is being powerless under somebody elses control.

I am a female and I like rape not so much bondage,
if it were just bondage I would imagine it being rape.

fatalerrror · 10-20-2009, 07:26 PM

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Originally Posted by college_gurl

Hi All,
I'm a little curious as to why so many men have rape fantasies. What is it about rape that you like so much ? Is it the feeling of control or just the thought of humiliating a girl for being bitchy. I know some guys like rape fantasies but not so much Bondage and S&M ? I was curious to know your thoughts..
What do you enjoy most about the fantasy ?

Thats a mighty fine question that u ask.

I have yet to find the answer for my particular interest in the subject. I think you are either born that way or you arent.

As early as i can remember and i mean REAL early, (which in itself is strange because it was way before i would have ever heard of the word let alone have any comprehension of what it meant) i used to have these dreams involving me struggling my clothes being removed and my cock being played with.

It wasnt by people or persons... but an imaginary thing/force call it what you like it, it was just something.

A couple of years later i was at a cubs camp when seveal kids my age stripped me and played with my cock one night.

Fast Forward several years... too my early teens y first orgasm was achieved in solitude after i'd wrapped some twine around my cock with me laying on my wrists writhing and struggling pretending that i was being ravaged.

Time restraints prevent me from going into much detail, but suffice is too say right through my teen years and into my early twenties, my fantasies AND RL experiences involved me or others as the victim... but never me as the agressor.

That changed to a degree when i met this girl who was hell bent on experiencing all sorts of stuff... she just wanted to be taken advantage of... full stop... didnt matter where... how... what or by who... as long as it resulted in her being ravished/raped it was all good.

For several years this fitted in perfectly with my life... giving me enough memories and stories to rival the volumes of Encyclopedia Brittanica.

The problem is that towards the end i fell in love with her and it all changed and we split up.

I still fantasize about rape... for me its about the innocent being ravaged / taken advantage of... but strangely ... not me as the agressor or the victim.

justmetoo · 10-20-2009, 09:30 PM

Great question. But not one so easy to answer.

Of course there is the humiliation. I love the idea of a victim struggling her best to keep me at bay. I'd want to be looking into her eyes at each step of the rape. Since my idea is her tied up to the bed there would be several stages. First would be when her hands/arms were tied apart. Next when I have her legs tied wide apart. Then there are the various stages of getting her clothes off. The look in her eyes as I ripped/cut her bra and panties off, each time with her being a bit more exposed. That is a big part of it.

I like the control aspect. Perhaps I will get her wet against her will. Not for her pleasure for for me to show here I control everything. The fact that she is tied spread eagle reinforces that. I like the idea of her having an orgasm despite her predicament. I could care less that her body reacts, it is the idea that I am in control.

I like the pain aspect too. Taking her in the ass for someone not used to it would be painful. I like the idea of using nipple clamps on her while recharging myself between sessions. Put them on nice and tight. Wait 10 minutes and then watch her wince in pain when the blood flows back into her nips when I remove them.

Finally, there is the pleasure I would have. The idea of fucking a gal when she is struggling to escape my attack interests me greatly. I'd love it if she continued to struggle at her bonds the entire time. It sure doesn't fit into my fantasy that she just lies there. I want her whole body trying to get away from me. A moving pussy or ass would make a fine target.

The last thing that fits into my fantasy would be a combination of a group of guys waiting to fuck her. Maybe they'd do round robin on her for a while. Better yet, the husband is there, forced to watch. I wonder if he'd get hard? Maybe have the wife blow him while she is getting it doggie style.

There are many components I guess to my fantasies. Hopefully this explains a bit of it.

ChiTownHoney · 10-21-2009, 12:33 AM

I read through these replies. I had the same question myself. But what I see in these replies are only those vested in fantasy where the person thinks way too much into things. What really makes a rapist? What kind of mentality does that take? What goes through the mind of a rapist? Is it the power thing? Is it the lack of respect for women and for the law. What would drive someone to commit a rape?

FuckingRotter · 10-21-2009, 02:32 AM

A huge throbbing cock and no money to take a girl out to dinner?

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What would drive someone to commit a rape?

crimsondesire · 10-21-2009, 03:20 AM

not being able to have something any other way

dark_d3viant · 10-21-2009, 04:24 AM

sweet revenge...

xx

GOATBOY · 10-22-2009, 05:45 PM

I just find victimised women more feminine

frozt · 10-22-2009, 06:20 PM

For me bondage and rape goes close, and in my fantasies there ia alvays bouth bondage and rape combined. Now i prefere the role of a viktim, but in the times i have palyed the rapist, it is as a reason for the bondage... tie her up and fuck her thing.
I am interested in the eksperience, the perversity of the situation, and it is the same when i am a viktim, preferably ov a male rapist... I want to be huliated, seen upon as a peace of meat, who he can satisfie his lust, and only physicaly see me as a human being...

justmetoo · 10-22-2009, 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by ChiTownHoney

What really makes a rapist?....

What would drive someone to commit a rape?

Finding you in a place where you put yourself deliberately so you could be raped?

GeorgeDaBrute · 10-23-2009, 03:56 AM

I think what I like depends on the "victim"
revenge/"teach a lesson" for the bitchy/arrogant
arrogant ignoring of "no" from a slutty girl who I know wants it
corruption of the sweet and innocent

or simply the ultimate humiliation of converting some poor helpless female into a sextoy whether she likes it or not and hell no I ain't pulling out.

Jaozi · 10-27-2009, 04:35 AM

From a victim side and someone who is into "gentle rape" (I mean, some bruising, hair pulling, slapping, dragging, bondage, verbal abuse is okay, cutting or actually punching is a no-no)

There's a couple of reasons for me, first off, I like a guy who is, while perhaps not extremely brutal, strong, decisive, knows what he wants, definitely I'm into the dominating type.

Secondly, one of the major turn-ons for me is the partner, which is why I'm not much into blindfolding or positions that prevent me from seeing them, I just love watching their bodies move and especially the, pardon the poetry, "look of lust on their faces", which is why I'm so disappointed in a lot of straight porn that doesn't show the guy is actually having fun. Sometimes when we're learning each other with someone and there's like "want me to do this" I can't help but go like "do what you want dammit, I find it sexiest that you're being turned on by something you're doing to me!"

Thirdly, and this is probably the major factor psychologically: I find (roleplayed) rape and bondage to be, ironically, so goddamn relaxing. I mean, the dominant partner is doing so much of the job. Clearly I can't just lie there like a log but still, I'm somewhat insecure about my own abilities at guessing what someone enjoys and in this case they'll simply let me know and "guide" me (even if the actual guiding takes form of grabbing my hair and pulling me to my knees), in a rape roleplay situation it's ideal because any awkwardness on my part works in my favour XD

college_gurl · 10-31-2009, 02:20 PM

wow so many responses, I will go thro' each one of them

sexy read.

09-27-2009, 08:00 PM	#1
college_gurl Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 43 Reputation: 729	Reasons for rape fantasies ? Hi All, I'm a little curious as to why so many men have rape fantasies. What is it about rape that you like so much ? Is it the feeling of control or just the thought of humiliating a girl for being bitchy. I know some guys like rape fantasies but not so much Bondage and S&M ? I was curious to know your thoughts.. What do you enjoy most about the fantasy ?

10-11-2009, 06:04 AM	#8
crimsondesire Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Australia Posts: 382 Reputation: 7970	The rape I would enjoy in real life would prove to be romantic in some way. An obsession to the point of insanity,ultimate desire, wanted to the point it becomes a dream to them. Rape in my fantasies can be unromantic and what I like about is being powerless under somebody elses control. I am a female and I like rape not so much bondage, if it were just bondage I would imagine it being rape. __________________ Nails tear at raw flesh,cutting deep, tossing and turning, quivering with delight as I weep. Eyes wide open and mouth taped shut breathing barely, hands tied up. A loving heart completly ravished, a home for two,taught to share. Blood runs thick on skin so pale and just like my soul,body bare. Tears are dry, mascara stale, My twisted fairy tale. Last edited by crimsondesire; 10-11-2009 at 06:10 AM.

10-21-2009, 03:20 AM	#13
crimsondesire Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Australia Posts: 382 Reputation: 7970	not being able to have something any other way __________________ Nails tear at raw flesh,cutting deep, tossing and turning, quivering with delight as I weep. Eyes wide open and mouth taped shut breathing barely, hands tied up. A loving heart completly ravished, a home for two,taught to share. Blood runs thick on skin so pale and just like my soul,body bare. Tears are dry, mascara stale, My twisted fairy tale.

10-22-2009, 05:45 PM	#15
GOATBOY Privileged Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: london uk Posts: 627 Reputation: 4793	I just find victimised women more feminine __________________ HAPPINESS IS A DRY PUSSY

10-27-2009, 04:35 AM	#19
Jaozi Junior Member Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 13 Reputation: 113	From a victim side and someone who is into "gentle rape" (I mean, some bruising, hair pulling, slapping, dragging, bondage, verbal abuse is okay, cutting or actually punching is a no-no) There's a couple of reasons for me, first off, I like a guy who is, while perhaps not extremely brutal, strong, decisive, knows what he wants, definitely I'm into the dominating type. Secondly, one of the major turn-ons for me is the partner, which is why I'm not much into blindfolding or positions that prevent me from seeing them, I just love watching their bodies move and especially the, pardon the poetry, "look of lust on their faces", which is why I'm so disappointed in a lot of straight porn that doesn't show the guy is actually having fun. Sometimes when we're learning each other with someone and there's like "want me to do this" I can't help but go like "do what you want dammit, I find it sexiest that you're being turned on by something you're doing to me!" Thirdly, and this is probably the major factor psychologically: I find (roleplayed) rape and bondage to be, ironically, so goddamn relaxing. I mean, the dominant partner is doing so much of the job. Clearly I can't just lie there like a log but still, I'm somewhat insecure about my own abilities at guessing what someone enjoys and in this case they'll simply let me know and "guide" me (even if the actual guiding takes form of grabbing my hair and pulling me to my knees), in a rape roleplay situation it's ideal because any awkwardness on my part works in my favour XD __________________ Be warned, this post is gay.

09-27-2009, 11:57 PM	#2
mission_extreme Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Posts: 5 Reputation: 15	the thought that the girl did not want it to happen. and that I am using my power to control her and use her as I wish.

09-30-2009, 07:34 PM	#5
cleancode Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 17 Reputation: 14	I've been thinking about this same thing for a while, especially while I explore roleplay and writing stories. And it varies depending on the type of fantasy- One on one (sleeping, drugged, cornered, etc) : I like these the most because there is no..niceities. There is no making sure I kiss her, or please her as well (not that its not fun ), or being satisfying. Especially none of "I wonder what she is thinking about me". Its just me. absolute. Its like dropping all your clothes before you get into a good shower. I can truly enjoy the heaven that is a woman. In these scenarios its not about abusing her body. Its about savoring it. Gangrape: It is about absolute control. Her world no longer consists of the bed and 4 walls, or the things around her. Its the three men surrounding her, and the man behind her ass. I know its strange, but its the idea of a whore. Deep down, there is a part of every man that cannot resist a whore. its that simple. Furthermore, its enjoyable if she 'deserved it' (was teasing, being a bitch). We all have met or know some girl(s) who is a bitch. And a primal instinct is that a mean girl deserves retaliation. If she's a mean tease or unfaithful or a bitch in anyway, you want to lash back. Rape is not only a retaliation, but sort of putting in her place (not to say that women are lower than men). Think of it; When guys thinks he's better than another guy, they think they're bigger than you (in skill, power, or respect). So you beat him senseless or deprive him of power to show him he's not bigger than you. When a girl thinks she's better than a guy, she says either "you are not worthy of me" or "You are not worth interacting with". So by taking her, you show she is at your level, and force her to interact with you. (which is why to a true rapist no means yes). Well, thats atleast what I've worked out so far.

10-01-2009, 07:12 AM	#6
mco Privileged Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 222 Reputation: 2887	In essence I agree completely with both F4F and Cleancode. It's a matter of putting her to place, making sure she's willing of being the whore you want her to be. So, in a way I want her not to want it, but want her to give in willfully, knowing that I'll make use of her anyways. So, BDSM rather than rape, but rape being the driving force that I want her to experience. Do I make any sense?

10-07-2009, 01:22 PM	#7
college_gurl Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 43 Reputation: 729	yes, everybody has different fantasies and interests, but rape some how ties into every one's interest. Clean: I like it when you said, "but sort of putting in her place (not to say that women are lower than men)." good to know you can respect girls, but still rape

10-20-2009, 09:30 PM	#10
justmetoo Privileged Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: In your mind Posts: 1,086 Reputation: 23015	Great question. But not one so easy to answer. Of course there is the humiliation. I love the idea of a victim struggling her best to keep me at bay. I'd want to be looking into her eyes at each step of the rape. Since my idea is her tied up to the bed there would be several stages. First would be when her hands/arms were tied apart. Next when I have her legs tied wide apart. Then there are the various stages of getting her clothes off. The look in her eyes as I ripped/cut her bra and panties off, each time with her being a bit more exposed. That is a big part of it. I like the control aspect. Perhaps I will get her wet against her will. Not for her pleasure for for me to show here I control everything. The fact that she is tied spread eagle reinforces that. I like the idea of her having an orgasm despite her predicament. I could care less that her body reacts, it is the idea that I am in control. I like the pain aspect too. Taking her in the ass for someone not used to it would be painful. I like the idea of using nipple clamps on her while recharging myself between sessions. Put them on nice and tight. Wait 10 minutes and then watch her wince in pain when the blood flows back into her nips when I remove them. Finally, there is the pleasure I would have. The idea of fucking a gal when she is struggling to escape my attack interests me greatly. I'd love it if she continued to struggle at her bonds the entire time. It sure doesn't fit into my fantasy that she just lies there. I want her whole body trying to get away from me. A moving pussy or ass would make a fine target. The last thing that fits into my fantasy would be a combination of a group of guys waiting to fuck her. Maybe they'd do round robin on her for a while. Better yet, the husband is there, forced to watch. I wonder if he'd get hard? Maybe have the wife blow him while she is getting it doggie style. There are many components I guess to my fantasies. Hopefully this explains a bit of it.

10-21-2009, 12:33 AM	#11
ChiTownHoney Pa'l Mundo Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: ObamaNation Posts: 2,460 Reputation: 33436	I read through these replies. I had the same question myself. But what I see in these replies are only those vested in fantasy where the person thinks way too much into things. What really makes a rapist? What kind of mentality does that take? What goes through the mind of a rapist? Is it the power thing? Is it the lack of respect for women and for the law. What would drive someone to commit a rape?

10-21-2009, 04:24 AM	#14
dark_d3viant Privileged Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 676 Reputation: 3855	sweet revenge... xx

10-22-2009, 06:20 PM	#16
frozt Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 4 Reputation: 10	For me bondage and rape goes close, and in my fantasies there ia alvays bouth bondage and rape combined. Now i prefere the role of a viktim, but in the times i have palyed the rapist, it is as a reason for the bondage... tie her up and fuck her thing. I am interested in the eksperience, the perversity of the situation, and it is the same when i am a viktim, preferably ov a male rapist... I want to be huliated, seen upon as a peace of meat, who he can satisfie his lust, and only physicaly see me as a human being...

10-23-2009, 03:56 AM	#18
GeorgeDaBrute Privileged Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: North of Kansas City KS Posts: 426 Reputation: 2180	I think what I like depends on the "victim" revenge/"teach a lesson" for the bitchy/arrogant arrogant ignoring of "no" from a slutty girl who I know wants it corruption of the sweet and innocent or simply the ultimate humiliation of converting some poor helpless female into a sextoy whether she likes it or not and hell no I ain't pulling out.

10-31-2009, 02:20 PM	#20
college_gurl Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 43 Reputation: 729	wow so many responses, I will go thro' each one of them sexy read.