An explanation was in order (wear a fire suit.) - Rape Board

Andering REDDSON · 04-28-2007, 10:29 PM

I hit two people for neg rep, and felt compelled to explain WHY publicly.
Just because Takeher may be an ass, doesnâ€™t make him the wrong one. Â¡This is a fucking RAPE SITE, not Mr Godam ROGERâ€™S Neighborhood! Â¿Can anyone really claim theyâ€™re shocked by his language here? If you can. Honestly, then you were only fooling yourselfâ€¦ He may not be particularly NICE, but itâ€™s a minor miracle there ainâ€™t a whole more like him.

innocent · 04-29-2007, 05:11 AM

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Louise · 04-29-2007, 05:17 AM

Surely thats the point...you are criticizing female members for voicing their opinion and yet, thats precisely what youre defending takeher's right to do? A tad hypocritcal wouldnt you say AR?

Andering REDDSON · 04-29-2007, 05:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Andering REDDSON

Â¡This is a fucking RAPE SITE, not Mr Godam ROGERâ€™S Neighborhood!

Â¿Were you just not reading? Â¿Or is it selective illiteracy?

Louise · 04-29-2007, 05:39 AM

You have our answer. You should just be happy we deigned to grace your ignorance with a reply at all.

Andering REDDSON · 04-29-2007, 06:00 AM

And here, I thought I was being NICE by at least explaining my rational.
There I go again, thinking…

Louise · 04-29-2007, 06:10 AM

This is indeed a rape FANTASY site, which means we have places where people can elaborate and indulge on their fantasiesâ€¦places like the roleplay room, stories and pics/movies and use any damn language there they may wish. This is a discussion board. Not a damn playground for over grown little boys to slap out their pent up anti female feelings on.

Those who use an intellectual and civil tongue find their posts get a wider and more positive reaction. But heyâ€¦if you want a board where you can talk like that, try somewhere else. Pleaseâ€¦

Both Innocent and I have answered your initial post. You were defending his right to call women bitches, but attacking our right to object. As Innocent said, its your right to do so, but donâ€™t expect us to stop picking up on non-civil board behaviour.

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Originally Posted by Andering REDDSON

There I go again, thinkingâ€¦

Seriously...this was you thinking? Try thinking a little harder then.

Becka · 04-29-2007, 09:09 AM

Actually, from the looks of it Andy you Neg Repped the first two WOMEN who disagreed with him...Because the I have seen myself and Innocent mention it. Luke was much more forceful in his disagreement with the posters opinion and from what I can see you didn't ding him....I suppose its ok to disagree with someone if you are a guy but we of the weaker sex should just keep our mouths shut is that it?

B.

and BTW...I didn't say he offended me....I asked him a question...

Tanya · 04-29-2007, 09:32 AM

Good point Becca

and AR Would you like it if women started calling all the guys on here certain things? generalizing men? i dont think so

dashrendar44 · 04-29-2007, 09:50 AM

well...most men are already generalised in some form or another(albiet not as offensively as women) but most men dont care cuz it really is true fer most men.....but thats just from experience, of which i have little @___________________@

Hellcat · 04-29-2007, 09:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Andering REDDSON

I hit two people for neg rep, and felt compelled to explain WHY publicly.
Just because Takeher may be an ass, doesnâ€™t make him the wrong one. Â¡This is a fucking RAPE SITE, not Mr Godam ROGERâ€™S Neighborhood! Â¿Can anyone really claim theyâ€™re shocked by his language here? If you can. Honestly, then you were only fooling yourselfâ€¦ He may not be particularly NICE, but itâ€™s a minor miracle there ainâ€™t a whole more like him.

First of, Iâ€™m wondering why you have taken such a deep interest in defending Takeherâ€™s post in such a vitriolic fashion, surely if he takes offence at the thought of the â€˜weakerâ€™ sex rising up and contradicting his views then its for him to defend and respondâ€¦ personally itâ€™s not the language that I find offensive, rather the manner it was used, the tone and the underlying context of what was saidâ€¦
That said in my experience those that are â€˜like himâ€™ donâ€™t tend to last the course, certainly not without readjusting the way they act on the board
Incidently this is a RAPE â€˜FANTASYâ€™ SITE

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Originally Posted by Louise

we have places where people can elaborate and indulge on their fantasiesâ€¦places like the roleplay room, stories and pics/movies and use any damn language there they may wish. This is a discussion board. Not a damn playground for over grown little boys to slap out their pent up anti female feelings on.

Those who use an intellectual and civil tongue find their posts get a wider and more positive reaction. But heyâ€¦if you want a board where you can talk like that, try somewhere else. Pleaseâ€¦

A place for everything and everything in its place... Theres never a good excuse not to be civil or respectful

sindyloo · 04-29-2007, 10:44 AM

Hey!! Lets give Andy a break here shall we??

He is basically trying to defend the guys right to say what he wants!? In this country we all have the right to free speech so if some one offends you with what they say Oh well!?

But ANDY?? On the other hand those of US that WERE offended have the same right To SAY SO!!

AND YES!! It is a Rape site but still common courtesy should not be thrown away? and yes we will get used to him in time.......Hell we even got used to you now didnt we??

innocent · 04-29-2007, 10:52 AM

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Becka · 04-29-2007, 11:05 AM

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Originally Posted by sindyloo

Hey!! Lets give Andy a break here shall we??

He is basically trying to defend the guys right to say what he wants!? In this country we all have the right to free speech so if some one offends you with what they say Oh well!?

But ANDY?? On the other hand those of US that WERE offended have the same right To SAY SO!!

AND YES!! It is a Rape site but still common courtesy should not be thrown away? and yes we will get used to him in time.......Hell we even got used to you now didnt we??

I think I said that in a different thread...

B.

sindyloo · 04-29-2007, 11:12 AM

Sorry B?? just now having my coffee after work didnt see it yet!

Nice to see most of the females here responding.........will come in handy for the rope party!!.........But which head do WE HANG!???

fireflights · 04-29-2007, 06:09 PM

To take her: Ok first off you self absorbed son of a bitch, have you cretin of men not figured out we women do not like to be called bitches? No? well get your fucking head out of your ass and pay attention once in a while. Woman do not like to be put on display as if we are meat ripe for the taking. We are human beings you asshole and how dare you treat people like this! You come onto a site without knowing anyone and start in on how you like to watch Bitches well how would you feel if someone did this to you, or even men, how would you feel. Of course we went on the defensive with your post, how could we not when you blatently made it seem as if all women are bitches and we are not.

And to Andy: I have never had an issue with you until now but how the hell can you stick up for someone like him. I know your past and what happened but not all women are like that and you really should not assume we are all going to be this way. No woman had the right to do to you what happened AR but it does not mean all of us fall into that category and by you agreeing with this it feels like you do.

Becka · 04-29-2007, 06:12 PM

Has it occurred to anyone that Andy just likes the attention and that we are feeding into that...Just a thought...

B.

tnc4fun · 04-29-2007, 06:53 PM

I have to side with the ladies. Definitely bad form to call someone a name outside of the rowdy room...especially if you're generalizing. A little courtesy goes a long way.

Wiz · 04-29-2007, 07:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Becka

Has it occurred to anyone that Andy just likes the attention and that we are feeding into that...Just a thought...
B.

.....And a very good thought it was Becka.

Andering REDDSON · 04-29-2007, 07:14 PM

After some consideration (a LOT more than any of you made, I assure you), I decided not to go to a Quote War.
Becka: I'm shocked, shocked to discover gambling going on.
Louise: Your winnings sir.
Becka: Thank you very much.
I do, however, have ONE observation:

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Originally Posted by Fireflights

I have never had an issue with you until now but how the hell can you stick up for someone like him.

I canâ€™t possibly imagine.

04-28-2007, 10:29 PM	#1
Andering REDDSON Banned Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: R/Bâ€™s cyber-Auschwitz Posts: 609 Reputation: 1028	An explanation was in order (wear a fire suit.) I hit two people for neg rep, and felt compelled to explain WHY publicly. Just because Takeher may be an ass, doesnâ€™t make him the wrong one. Â¡This is a fucking RAPE SITE, not Mr Godam ROGERâ€™S Neighborhood! Â¿Can anyone really claim theyâ€™re shocked by his language here? If you can. Honestly, then you were only fooling yourselfâ€¦ He may not be particularly NICE, but itâ€™s a minor miracle there ainâ€™t a whole more like him.

04-29-2007, 05:11 AM	#2
innocent Privileged Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: uk Posts: 2,110 Reputation: 9976	deleted Last edited by innocent; 09-11-2007 at 06:07 PM.

04-29-2007, 09:09 AM	#8
Becka Immodest Mod Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Virginia Posts: 1,407 Reputation: 36018	Actually, from the looks of it Andy you Neg Repped the first two WOMEN who disagreed with him...Because the I have seen myself and Innocent mention it. Luke was much more forceful in his disagreement with the posters opinion and from what I can see you didn't ding him....I suppose its ok to disagree with someone if you are a guy but we of the weaker sex should just keep our mouths shut is that it? B. and BTW...I didn't say he offended me....I asked him a question... __________________ Vital Board Info Hey, where am I going? And why am I in this hand basket? Darling, a true lady takes off her dignity with her clothes and does her whorish best. At other times you can be as modest and dignified as your persona requires. Last edited by Becka; 04-29-2007 at 09:36 AM.

04-29-2007, 09:32 AM	#9
Tanya Privileged Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Australia Posts: 505 Reputation: 2134	Good point Becca and AR Would you like it if women started calling all the guys on here certain things? generalizing men? i dont think so __________________ When im good im very very good, but when im bad im better!

04-29-2007, 09:50 AM	#10
dashrendar44 Kamina Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Deep In The African Jungles Of China Posts: 2,733 Reputation: 12819	well...most men are already generalised in some form or another(albiet not as offensively as women) but most men dont care cuz it really is true fer most men.....but thats just from experience, of which i have little @___________________@ __________________ "Go beyond the impossible and kick reason to the curb!" ~ Kamina, Tengen Toppa Gurren Lagann "I've been thinking with my gut since I was 14, and I've come to the conclusion that my guts have shit for brains." ~ Rob Gordon, High Fidelity "All men are potential rapists. ALL MEN. Even the pope!" ~ Shirley Valentine "When you're pushed, killing's as easy as breathing." ~ John Rambo, Rambo IV "I don't think I'm easy to talk about. I've got a very irregular head. And I'm not anything that you think I am anyway." ~ Syd Barrett, Rolling Stone, December 1971

04-29-2007, 05:17 AM	#3
Louise Privileged Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 1,865 Reputation: 4905	Surely thats the point...you are criticizing female members for voicing their opinion and yet, thats precisely what youre defending takeher's right to do? A tad hypocritcal wouldnt you say AR?

04-29-2007, 05:39 AM	#5
Louise Privileged Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 1,865 Reputation: 4905	You have our answer. You should just be happy we deigned to grace your ignorance with a reply at all.

04-29-2007, 06:00 AM	#6
Andering REDDSON Banned Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: R/Bâ€™s cyber-Auschwitz Posts: 609 Reputation: 1028	And here, I thought I was being NICE by at least explaining my rational. There I go again, thinking…

04-29-2007, 10:44 AM	#12
sindyloo Privileged Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 2,178 Reputation: 34844	Hey!! Lets give Andy a break here shall we?? He is basically trying to defend the guys right to say what he wants!? In this country we all have the right to free speech so if some one offends you with what they say Oh well!? But ANDY?? On the other hand those of US that WERE offended have the same right To SAY SO!! AND YES!! It is a Rape site but still common courtesy should not be thrown away? and yes we will get used to him in time.......Hell we even got used to you now didnt we?? __________________ Tommy Loy, the cabin boy, The dirty little nipper, He filled his ass With broken glass And cirumcized the skipper!

04-29-2007, 10:52 AM	#13
innocent Privileged Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: uk Posts: 2,110 Reputation: 9976	deleted Last edited by innocent; 09-11-2007 at 06:07 PM.

04-29-2007, 11:12 AM	#15
sindyloo Privileged Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 2,178 Reputation: 34844	Sorry B?? just now having my coffee after work didnt see it yet! Nice to see most of the females here responding.........will come in handy for the rope party!!.........But which head do WE HANG!??? __________________ Tommy Loy, the cabin boy, The dirty little nipper, He filled his ass With broken glass And cirumcized the skipper!

04-29-2007, 06:09 PM	#16
fireflights Never say never Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Illinois Posts: 711 Reputation: 2269	To take her: Ok first off you self absorbed son of a bitch, have you cretin of men not figured out we women do not like to be called bitches? No? well get your fucking head out of your ass and pay attention once in a while. Woman do not like to be put on display as if we are meat ripe for the taking. We are human beings you asshole and how dare you treat people like this! You come onto a site without knowing anyone and start in on how you like to watch Bitches well how would you feel if someone did this to you, or even men, how would you feel. Of course we went on the defensive with your post, how could we not when you blatently made it seem as if all women are bitches and we are not. And to Andy: I have never had an issue with you until now but how the hell can you stick up for someone like him. I know your past and what happened but not all women are like that and you really should not assume we are all going to be this way. No woman had the right to do to you what happened AR but it does not mean all of us fall into that category and by you agreeing with this it feels like you do. __________________ Night-time sharpens, heightens each sensation . . . Darkness stirs and wakes imagination . . . Silently the senses abandon their defences . . . Last edited by fireflights; 04-29-2007 at 06:24 PM.

04-29-2007, 06:12 PM	#17
Becka Immodest Mod Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Virginia Posts: 1,407 Reputation: 36018	Has it occurred to anyone that Andy just likes the attention and that we are feeding into that...Just a thought... B. __________________ Vital Board Info Hey, where am I going? And why am I in this hand basket? Darling, a true lady takes off her dignity with her clothes and does her whorish best. At other times you can be as modest and dignified as your persona requires.

04-29-2007, 06:53 PM	#18
tnc4fun Privileged Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Maryland, USA Posts: 203 Reputation: 453	I have to side with the ladies. Definitely bad form to call someone a name outside of the rowdy room...especially if you're generalizing. A little courtesy goes a long way. __________________ The principles of lust are easy to understand, Do what you feel, feel until the end. The principles of lust are burned into your mind, Do what you want, do it until you find...love. Basic instincts, social life Paradoxes side by side Don't submit to stupid rules Be yourself and nobody's fool Don't accept average habits Open your heart and push the limits. The path of excess leads to the Tower of Wisdom. St. Michael Cretu