[sadohedonist]

For me, I get a certain thrill from partners that resist hard and struggle all the way through, even though I am turned on by fear and compliance at times. It can vary with my mood, but usually when they either just give in, or pretend to fight back very weakly and obviously let me win without trying it's rather disappointing. It might just be because without the fight it doesn't feel 'rapey' enough and I'm to forcibly reminded that this is all pretend (I once gt annoyed with a partner because she was kissing me back to much. hah). I think it stems from the fact that one of my earliest partners was also a sadist, so because neither of us would submit, sex for us consisted of violently trying to make the other person submit. We often broke furniture and ruined clothing in the process. Good times. I'll admit that it might be less fun for me if I ever lost.
How about everyone else? do you like compliance or a struggle.