man , it must be nice to live in a perfect place . not to mention a "black and white" one . a place of absolutes , no grey areas . where everything either is or isn't this way . either that or to go through life with blinders on ....
as i've stated before nobody should feel , (or be made to feel) , like they need to be cured or ashamed ... if they are doing what makes them happy and they are not hurting anyone .