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Old 08-25-2013, 12:53 PM   #55
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1. Your gender and age?
Male, 25-40 years old.

2. Do you identify yourself most as Straight? Gay/Lesbian? Bisexual?
Straight, although I sometimes fantasize about topping M2F transsexuals. God knows I love me a pretty little trap.

3. Do you fantasize being the rapist or the victim?
Rapist, always the dominant.

4. Age when you first started having these kinds of fantasies?
High school age 15 or 16 years old.

5. Do you still know what started it? (f.e. movie scene, book, story you heard etc. ...)
Read an erotic story online in high school.

6. Have you been molested or sexually abused as a child?
Nope.

7. Have you ever raped someone or been raped in real life?
Negative. I draw an uncrossable line between fantasy & reality.

8. How often do you fantasize about rape?
I'd say maybe 1 out of every 5 of my sexual fantasies involve force, coercion or non-consent. The ratio involving consensual rough sex or BDSM is considerably higher.

9. Do you masturbate while you fantasize?
Yes, sometimes.

10. Do you masturbate while you read rape stories or watch rape movies?
Yes.

11. Do rape fantasies help you to get a faster/better orgasm while you are masturbating?
Not always. Sometimes I'm in the mood for a different kink.

12. Are your masturbation fantasies always about rape or do you also have vanilla fanasies?
Yes, I also have vanilla fantasies, regularly.

13. Do you more often fantasize about stranger rape or rape with someone you know?
It varies.

14. Do your fantasies more often involve one on one scenes or gangrape?
One on one. I don't usually like to share. Unless I'm the only dom, and I have multiple subs to play with. That's always fun.

15.Do you always fantasize to be involved in the rape (as rapist or victim) or does it sometimes arouse you just to watch?
Always an active participant, almost never an observer.

16. How important is the enjoyment of the rapist(s) for your fantasy (Absolutely important, very important, not so important)
Absolutely important.

17. How important is the suffering of the victim for your fantasy (Absolutely important, very important, not so important)
Not so important.

18.What are the most common settings for your fantasies? (bedroom, outdoors, forest, a cabin, a dungeon, prison, military camp, etc.)
All of those locations and more, including in the victim's home, at the workplace, in an abandoned alleyway, etc.

19 What's your favorite type of rapist (blacks, gangster, convicts, soldier, biker, pirat, KKK men, etc. ..) or victim (virgin, schoolgirl, housewife, middle aged woman, MILTF, business woman, nun, female POW .....)?
In my most common rape fantasies, I am 'rapist for hire', an attractive well-groomed professional that bored and willing women have paid to ambush them when they least expect it. In the fantasies, I always come after them in ways that will increase their embarrassment, fear and unwillingness - like taking a housewife in her own home while her preteen daughter is in the next room ... or assaulting a executive businesswoman in the boardroom where her underlings could walk in at any moment ... or surprising the celebutante being chauffered to a gala event by masquerading as her limo driver.

20. Are your fantasy scenes typically more "soft" (the victim being forced against her will/ overpowered/unable to resist without overt violence) or more brutal (include the victim being hit/slapped/punched by the rapist)?
More soft than brutal, definitely, although a bit of the rough stuff (choking, biting, slapping, spanking, hair-pulling and verbal abuse) really gets me going as well. I'm not into beating a woman black, blue and bloody, though. Overt violence is hot and edgy and all that, but it isn't something I personally often fantasize about doing.

21. What's the center of your fantasy, the sex or the humiliation and degradation?
I'd have to say both, in equal parts. The concept of 'the forced orgasm' is the ultimate perversion in my fantasies. The perfect marriage between the pleasure of erotic abandon, and the pain of sexual surrender.

22. Is it important that your fantasy scene has a convincing overpowering sequence including some struggling, slapping, screaming etc
If it is a rape scene, then yes. The victim has to have some fight in her at the beginning. If she surrenders too early, it's no fun. And if she's unconscious through the entire thing, then there's no challenge or connection. You might as well just be masturbating.

23. Do your fantasy scenes typically include convincing resistance (kicking, biting etc.) by the victim?
During the rape scenes, yes.

24. Is it important that your fantasy victim is screaming, pleading, begging etc
Yes.

25. Is it important that your fantasy rapist(s) is/are degrading the victim with words ( calling her a slut, whore etc.) ?
Yes, although I like to intentionally mix verbal degradation with verbal praise. For instance: "God, you are a gorgeous little slut!"

26. Do your scenes typically include a man's cum and if yes, where does it usually end up?
Yes, I always climax in my fantasies, and I always deposit my cum deep inside my precious little cum dump - where it belongs.

27. Do your scenes include anal rape? (Always, Often, Occasionally, Rarely, Never)
Often.

28. Do your scenes include oral rape? (Always, Often, Occasionally, Rarely, Never)
Rarely. I love receiving oral sex, and i even enjoy it when it's rough, but for some reason, I feel like oral during a true non-consensual rape scene is lame.

29. Do your scenes include vaginal rape? (Always, Often, Occasionally, Rarely, Never)
Always. Papa Bear LIVES to take that pretty pussy by force!

30. Do your scenes typically include the victim having an orgasm?
ALWAYS, yes.

31. How important is the size of the rapist(s) cock(s) cock in your fantasies?
It's typically a little larger than I normally am, I suppose.

32. How long does a typical rape fantasy (masturbating) session usually last?
With out aids or stimulation, it can last to over an hour. If it's while reading some stories, usually in an about a half-hour. If it's while watching some videos, I can bring myself to climax in a few minutes.

33. How do you feel after such a "session"
Relieved and relaxed.

34. Do you sometimes feel some kind of guilt for your fantasies?
No, but only because I keep them firmly in their place. My fantasies are mine. They are not to be shared with my girlfriend or wife, and they are for damned sure not to be played out in real life, EVER.

35. Does someone in your real life know about your fantasy?
Absolutely not.

36. Do you know of someone in your real life having such fantasies?
I've discussed kinky sexual fantasies with friends (both male and female) before, and while BDSM came up once or twice, no one mentioned anything about non-consensual sex.

37. Have you ever enacted a rape roleplay in real life?
No. Some light bondage and D/S play, but nothing non-consensual or without the use of safewords.

38. Do you imagine yourself or your victim to be tied up?
In rape fantasies, not usually, no. My rape fantasies typically involve swift ambush attacks in which I control my victim through physical strength, psychological dominance and sexual prowess. No time for bondage or the like.

39. Are there any celebrities or pornstars playing a role in your fantasies (as rapists or victims)?
I don't usually fantasize about real life celebrities, no.

40. Are there other key elements to your fantasies that I have missed with the questions above? If so, please describe them briefly.
This was pretty comprehensive (and fun). I don't think there was anything you forgot to ask.

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