[FuckingRotter]

Agree or disagree all you like. I'm not really following your stance anyway, in fact I'm puzzled as to where it came from. Still, you can't alter the fact that in the real world, the moment a person imposes their sexual will on another, that other loses. They may take their revenge later, or society may hand out revenge or justice on their behalf. For the time being, their taste, their standard, their choice, is suspended.

Some may enter willingly in to relationships or arrangements, where this is the case. Others simply have that situation thrust upon them. The first is probably a legal and moral gray area, it's somewhere where I dwell. The second is criminal activity, be it domestic violence, rape or sexual assault, or being subjected to indecent exposure.

Neither of them however, have any real footing in fantasy, even if the perpetrator is found to have been suffering illusions or delusions that led them to those acts.

There is a distinct difference between fantasy role play, even real life fantasy role play, and surrendering or losing, sexual control.