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Originally Posted by Sephy
If he's really in control of himself first, then he's more able to control me.
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This I entirely agree with, and would look for in a Dom. I wouldn't trust someone that couldn't trust themself first.
In a rapist, however, I think that lack of control could make it interesting. That pause could show that he's human, after all, and thus makes room for so many more mental questions - and thus intriuge, suspence etc - creating an entirely different experience.