I suppose I'm a bit different than other subs. I am the best of both worlds when it comes to dom/sub. I'm mentally dominant, while I seldom exercise this ability, I do have the ability to really push people's buttons. I think that's a gift every woman has ;] So no matter the scenario, Confidence or the lack there of, I end up pissing them off with my words. (My mind is a clip and my words are the bullets)
I had never considered using a guy who lacked self confidence or was full of indecision until I saw Hostel 2. I'm not into blood and gore pertaining to my sexual fantasies, but that scene where he went from undecisive and sympathetic, just add water and all of a sudden he's ready to kill the bitch was just amazing. ;] So I think a mixture of both would come in pretty handy, carnal desire overriding sympathy.
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