[Jasmine]

Originally Posted by tom8517

Also the fun it brings us can be long lasting. A smart rapist can
take pleasure out of his victim's agony for years, if he is able to
watch the slow destruction of her life

I'm with HBSB 100% on this one. This quote for me is the essence of what seperates fantasy role plays from real rape. I don't want to get into areas I'm not qualified in but my understanding is the real rapist's motivation is not sex as much as it is power, usually because they have fairly pathetic lives, and are totally powerless in them.

For me, a role play is all about the sex, yeah her fear, and overpowering the woman is erotic, but its still sexual in nature. It's about how she looks, her hair, how she smells, what she's wearing.

But it ends when the role play ends. I have never felt aroused by the thought of destroying someones life, if I had to watch someone's agony for years caused by something I did, rather than bring me pleasure, I think it might cause me to lose my mind.

I don't need to destroy someone to feel powerful, I don't think most men do. So don't speak for me with this twisted male power drivel you are spewing.

Well said Tom and well worth repeating! HB I'm with you on this!