100 percent agreement with everyone here, I can't add anymore but rehash everyone else.
Your kinks are YOU. And your pleasure, ppl should be respectful of your tastes, yes it may not be for them, but any abuse you may have been told via pm etc, don't worry about it. Above all its all fantasy spoke of here, like me; fr and me are alike (yeah I said it) in one particular way, I get massively horny seeing fisting, esp extreme fisting.
Would I do it in real life? No, technalcalities are I'm far too small, nor wana stratch myself, and turn into a bucket cunt
But in porn, it turns me on, as does scat. None of which id do in reality, but there ya go... I am who I am.
As non descript said, own it, and never let anyone make you feel bad etc for your kinks.