[pain_fag]

I can answer that from my point of view which is probably different from most. First, I am Gay and second, I am very submissive. Like others have said, its about control. In My case being submissive, being raped means that I don't have any say in what sex acts are performed. In other words its about giving up control to another guy. Sometimes I feel like I'm doing a straight guy a favor in having him do something that He would not ordinarily think of doing and letting him feel superior to me. Hope that helps someone.