[Sheba]

That's right, and in fact it's damned disrespectful to lgtq youth who have suffered abuse, beatings persecution or even abandonment and attempted murder because of who they're attracted to. The simple fact is, admit you like being spanked and you'll get laughed at, but in some parts of the country a man who admits he loves other men can be straight-up killed and the law will turn a blind eye to it.