Well for me,it starts with talking about what she is into.Then i can question her about fantasy she has had,and after i find out what i need to know,i can tell her as much as i want too.I have also found alot of women who like rough sex or even have a forced fantasy they want too play out.Roleplaying is also good,i was reading somewhere that alot of women like rolepaying as part of their sex lives.Thanks for a very good post and for giving me something to think about other then the real world.lol