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Originally Posted by GOATBOY
I realised today that I have met several women in my life that have said that they were raped, but then hearing the whole story you notice that it is quite far from the truth.
One from years ago said she was raped by her driving instructor, when basically they were getting it on and he went to have sex with fuck her. She was not sure if she wanted to, so she just lay there without stating any objection and let him fuck her.
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Based on the limited information that you gave here, I can actually sympathize with the girl in this scenario. Although, I don't think that her silence should warrant a conviction of her driving inspector, I do see how this could constitute as a "rape".
It's unfortunate that she might have a submissive personality so she might not protest when others are violating her rights, but she is an adult and she should know that she she should only have sex when she's sure that she wants to.
It's possible that the driving instructor knew of her personality disorder and took advantage of her. In which case, he IS a rapist and should be punished. I don't know if you can convict someone of rape based on silent protest, but the information you gave makes it clear that the girl was, in fact, the victim here.
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Another claimed to have been raped on 7 different times and later on went to india where she was nearly gang raped. It's wrong for me judge, but I'm gonna any way, I just need to know if after 7 rapes she should take a good look at how she keeps making herself vunerable all the time.
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I'm kind of interested in knowing how the India story happened, lol. But, honestly I don't think it's right to blame the victim for their misfortune.
You're really just viewing the story from the natural bias which comes from being a guy who likes rape fantasy. It'd suck ass if you role-played with a chick who lied to the police about you raping her and ruined your life all because of her issues with men, but if you were in her position then you probably wouldn't think that it was your fault.
It's not logical to put the responsibility on the victim to avoid being victimized when her or his violators shouldn't have done what they had done in the first place. However, it is probably in her best interest to figure out why she is so vulnerable to being raped and change that about herself, that is, if she actually wants those guys to stop "raping" her.
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and of course there is annabel chong who went to have sex with some stranger, who she just met on the train, in an alleyway. Then didn't say no to his friend afterwards, and the guy that was just walking past. Till eventually she had a line building up.
Then one girl accused me of trying to rape her when we just spent a night of heavy petting. then she kept saying she wanted to have sex then changing her mind minutes after. Needless to say this got me furious. And then in the next morning she said she hated me and wanted to call the police.
What is up with this crazy women with all these 'almost rapes' that like to entertain the idea that they actually were?
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I have to admit, though, bitches do lie quite often. I know gender doesn't really make you liar, but men are in a vulnerable position for accusations of rape. Society does tend to blame the man in these situations and it its one of the cons to being a man.
Not that I'm trying to bitch and moan about it, because there might be a reason behind why society does this. Yet, as a male, I understand some of the typical anxiety associated with being falsely accused for rape. It's probably even worse for "us" since we have rape fantasies.
Many people assume that men who fantasize about rape are either rapists or potential rapists who haven't had the opportunity to commit it yet. Never mind, that fantasy is just a coping mechanism for life and that most people can tell the difference between fantasy and reality. Also, because society views rape in such a way that not everyone who fantasizes about it can actually live with themselves becoming a "monster".