WHy is rape a turn on?
 

Can any one trace out why a rape is a turn on for soo many of us here...??
Some like rapes , some like to be raped, some hates rapes and hate to be raped.... why all so mixed reactions to this.....?

Few recent messages on this subject.

You really should note how huge difference exists between fantasies and reality.

The male turn-on of rape would have to be control. Having a submissive female is the ultimate turn-on. I love the fantasy, but reality is just disgusting.

its pure control that does it here

other sorts of dom like blackmail can also do it

Often it's kind of a fantasy to break the mold. I tend to be a very tender, intimate kind of guy who takes things very slowly with all the women I'm with. So my fantasy is to let my sexual fantasy loose. My girlfriend, who has a powerful position, tends to like things in her control. She likes to let go once in awhile and just be completely overwhelmed and used. For us, it's just switching of our daily roles.

agreed. i think its also about being the superior one, the master.

I don't consider it necessarily the control aspect for me that is erotic. there are several pieces that turn me on about the fantasy. I like the fear of play the better. Fear is an aphrodisiac, When the womans heart is pounding in the dark, a bead of sweat deveops on her brow, and every litte sound could be the sound of her attacker stalking her, backing her into a corner before he strikes.

There is aso the pure amost animalistic savagery of it. Not asking for what you want, Not abiding by the norms of being chivarous and kind as though sex is some sort of reward you may or may not get at the end of a date.

also ( and this I guess counts as control) But I like the fight! to wrestle and over power. Taking a strong confident woman and using brute strength to overpower her is very erotic. At least for me.

We're all scum.

I vote for this. I too actually am (and like to be) gentle to woman around myself. I find them so amusing and beautiful beings that do not deserve any kind of harm :skull-lov (although I find them confusing sometime :confused: ).

On the other hand, I like to see everything from the view of a person completely opposite to me, so I fantasize raping. I also somewhat like writing arrogant and impolite posts since I think it's fun (That's why I'm bound to Rowdy Room :skull-ton ).

It's like being at the light side in hearth but playing with a Sith Lord in a Star Wars game. :skull-mad

Actually in my fantasies I like to be the 3rd person watching the scene. I don't know if that's weird :D

I believe there to be a significant difference in the reasons for this fantasy between men and women.

I am finally able to pinpoint where my fantasies come from. Its really strange, because there are two reasons, I am not sure which one is more dominant.

First being an obvious one. I am Catholic, raised by people who made us believe that sex was bad, so rape to me is about fulfilling my needs without compromising my good girl qualties. When you are raped, you cant be a slut, right?

But, there is this whole other reason too. I really like danger and guys who are dangerous. So it turns me on if a guy is kinda not right and wants to rape you and beat you.

i have answered this question so many times but heres the answer in just one short word..

"power".

Definitely the person's (preferably male) power over the female. There are ways men can rape women where no person has the power, and that isn't a turn on for me.

I don't know if anyone else here has seen the movie "Taken", but that focuses around (secondary to brutal violence) the women being trafficked for sex in France. None of those rape scenes were a turn on at all, because even though there were men having sex with unwilling women, those men weren't the ones with the power - they were just paying a business, and the business had the power.
A business having power over women isn't sexy to me at all - it's just disgusting. (The main traffickers seemed to have no interest in the women sexually, and were all about the money. Maybe if they'd had a little more personal involvement, I'd change my opinion)

I agree the power a free cock with no limits being able to power its way in to a free wet hole :D

well i dont know why im in to it, when i was little i was exposed to videosa and pictures on accident. My dad left hbo on at night and i watched a woman get raped and i thought i was a huge rush. I saw hentai videos by mistake looking for anime and lots of other videos.

Funny how the fantasized you is so different from the real you. :skull-bee

Excluding the 3rd person thingie I could pretty much sign your post myself. :p

Ahahaha, I like this one :P.

Truth be told I've been looking for reasons why I like rape. Fantasy-wise, I don't condone rape in the real world of course. The theory of power and being in control is a likely reason, something about dominating a woman I suppose.

But I don't look into it much. I'm sure there are more people like us out there who are simply keeping it in the closet. Our brains are wired that way, the hell can we do ey? I'm not sure about the rest you guys, but I sink as low as asphyx/post-mortem, (abit of a necrophiliac) and I dabble in vore as well. Ahahaha, guess I'm more screwed up :P.

Anyways heres to the board :skull-bee , and all of us perverts.

Cheers

I can answer that from my point of view which is probably different from most. First, I am Gay and second, I am very submissive. Like others have said, its about control. In My case being submissive, being raped means that I don't have any say in what sex acts are performed. In other words its about giving up control to another guy. Sometimes I feel like I'm doing a straight guy a favor in having him do something that He would not ordinarily think of doing and letting him feel superior to me. Hope that helps someone.

Real rape is really terrible, but the fantasy rape is just plain ol' hot.

pain fag

would your rape be more humiliating if it was done by
a girl with a strap-on...forcing it deep into your ass
instead of a guy doing you?