I am in Illinois and am interested in BDSM - role play and otherwise. I am seeking a part-time female sub. This would not be on a full-time basis. But if you want to get away from the angst of life for a short time, this might be perfect for you. I envision getting together a couple of times a month - dependent upon our schedules. I believe safety is of paramount importance so nothing will happen that isn't agreed to. If you are unfamiliar with the use of safe words, etc. - we will need to be sure we are both on the same page before proceeding. If you are not experienced but are curious about submission, this might be the best opportunity for you to learn without complicating any existing or future relationship. Discretion is a must.