Being harassed by member

[donna69111]

I started here as a fantasy but a member is harassing me and posting my pics all over the web. His member name is Lenine24. Someone please help me.

[Crotch_Ripper]

We have no authority over anything members do off this site. If there is posting of personal information on this site we can correct that.

Beyond that you will have to contact the sites/hosts hes posting your pictures on. If there are pictures of you on this site you wished removed I would be happy to look into that for you.

All I need to know is where I can find the pictures on our site.

[donna69111]

cant anyone help me?

[Crotch_Ripper]

What kind of help are you looking for? I told you if something is going on here I can handle that for you. I just need to know the facts.

[donna69111]

he posted my pics to bondageable.com and other sites

[Crotch_Ripper]

Like I said earlier you will need to contact those sites and have them handle it. I have no jurisdiction over that site.

[uk male]

Sorry to hear this 'Donna'.

I know that this situation in non-consensual. I'm on it Donna – but, as you know, I cannot make promises.

This should serve as a lesson ladies – be careful who you play with and stick to guys with a good track record (Like me :D)

[donna69111]

UK, you are a respectable Dom. I admire you and wish this Lenine guy would learn his lesson. I did.

[uk male]

I’m sorry to learn of your continued distress. :(

I was in communication with Lenine a while back so I have his email and IP address.

I hope this all has a happy ending :)

Play safe everybody and have fun! :skull-bee

[uk male]

I spoke to Lenine and he says he will remove all stuff about you from all sites :)

Unfortunately, this episode has resulted in the removal of all my [consensual] blackmail fantasy stuff here including the thread I made as a wedding present for Anna Seed (by request) :(

Is there any chance that the mods can restore all this. We are an established, self-policing, non-malicious, fantasy sexual blackmail community just having mutually consensual fun. The blanket ban on our activities seems a little harsh when this is a board dedicated to non-consensual sex!

Unfortunately, as Donna will probably admit (and has learned from) she was guilty of sending out some mixed messages. This was her fantasy and went from that through a “stop it - I really like” it phase through to genuine “I do not want this”. These messages were not the easiest to read for all. She safeworded with me and it stopped. Lenine has stopped now too.

Can we go back to having fun here now?

Thanks,
Andy

[Lenine24]

sorry Donna for what i did, i don't post you again and take off all post i did about you. i learn this lesson and know you don't want this.
i just want continue to talk with you if you are ok.

[Crotch_Ripper]

I dont know who removed your posts here, it wasnt me. Under these circumstances one Mod will normally not undo something another has done.

It looks like the board Admin may have taken your stuff done. Because I see no trace of any removed postings.

As for your request to make a sub section in here I will have to deny that. If we granted requests for everyone that wanted their own area it would be to difficult to police.

I spoke to Lenine and he says he will remove all stuff about you from all sites :)

Unfortunately, this episode has resulted in the removal of all my [consensual] blackmail fantasy stuff here including the thread I made as a wedding present for Anna Seed (by request) :(

Is there any chance that the mods can restore all this. We are an established, self-policing, non-malicious, fantasy sexual blackmail community just having mutually consensual fun. The blanket ban on our activities seems a little harsh when this is a board dedicated to non-consensual sex!

Unfortunately, as Donna will probably admit (and has learned from) she was guilty of sending out some mixed messages. This was her fantasy and went from that through a “stop it - I really like” it phase through to genuine “I do not want this”. These messages were not the easiest to read for all. She safeworded with me and it stopped. Lenine has stopped now too.

Can we go back to having fun here now?

Thanks,
Andy

[Ltfc01]

Hello Donna, I have not posted any pictures of you to any websites as per your request!! It's a shame that we had to stop your thread!! I think we all enjoyed it while it lasted!!

[analeyes]

you can always put a member on your "ignore list".
that can help some. :skull-thu

[uk male]

I dont know who removed your posts here, it wasnt me. Under these circumstances one Mod will normally not undo something another has done.

It looks like the board Admin may have taken your stuff done. Because I see no trace of any removed postings.

As for your request to make a sub section in here I will have to deny that. If we granted requests for everyone that wanted their own area it would be to difficult to police.


Every post I ever made here was deleted yesterday! Is there some forum for appeal here? Who polices the police?

I am still in regular email contact with the ‘victims’ of some threads I started and they are disappointed. If I’m not wanted here then I would rather somebody say so instead of simply anonymously removing every single post without giving a reason! Nobody has complained to me about anything I have done here. Surely communities like this are about tolerance within consensual limits.

Thanks for the support of everybody who contacted me over this. I do not know what I did or who I upset.

Don’t get me wrong here Mr. Crotch Ripper, I am in no way blaming you as I cannot see what has happened. However, I am surprised and disappointed by the censorship of individuals having mutually consensual fun on a board about non-consensual sex fantasies!

[Crotch_Ripper]

If the Admin of the board removed your posts there is nothing I can do about that. He OWNS the board.


And BTW its not censorship its called CYA. If I thought there was a potential he said/she said thing brewing I cant say I wouldnt act any different.

[uk male]

Donna (rightly) complained about Lenine’s nonconsensual actions on another board and I have been tarred by the same brush :( I am more than happy to discuss the issue with Mr. Admin if he is open to such or to move on to pastures new if exploration of such consensual fantasy is unwelcome here.

[Crotch_Ripper]

Your free to start here afresh. I'm going to lock this thread because all were going to do is go in circles at this point.

But feel free to continue role playing here. Its just that any possible controversy on the board will be dealt with. Albeit sometimes heavy handed. But there are WAY TOO many people who want to shut sites like this down.

So we will always err on the side of caution when removing material/posts.